My girlfriend went on a solo trip for 2 weeks and cheated on me. We were having issues beforehand and I was well versed with some of the TRP principals but couldn't pull the trigger when she first proposed the trip despite knowing exactly what would end up happening and also explaining this to her. In pretty much the exact fashion that Rollo talked about in his "Please, break up with me" post, she returns and admits to me that she had "found someone" and that "she feels the same way about him that she feels with me". And after being pressed, in her last communication with me could only honour me with the trickle truth that "she only kissed him once". Needless to say, despite much pain to my ego, she was ghosted immediately. This was an LTR of 3 years so it was no easy task but I had never felt so disrespected in my entire life.
My TRP brothers, this episode happened 3 months ago, I am a solitary person and haven't spoken about the details of this event with much anyone since it happened, but I know I can rely on getting some insightful responses here. TBH I'm fairly certain in a lot of cases you guys will only reaffirm what I already know, but I still feel it will help in terms of patching up my hurt ego. I have to admit despite me knowing how things would end up it still hurt/s like a muthafucka. I'm also ashamed to say that a part of me is also pissed that she hasn't contacted me with an apology. I know better than to expect one but the emotional mind can be one hell of an untamed beast.
So I want to ask, what compels women to do these things? I know AWALT, but seriously "I feel the same way for him as I feel with you". At the time of hearing this, I was equally disgusted as I was amused by the sheer stupidity of such a statement. You're with someone for 3 years and you fuck someone for 2-5 nights (who knows!) and you conclude that you've fallen in love. It's an absolute joke. I have not spoken to her since this happened, but I can only logically see that it would likely only have been a pump and dump situation as these holiday antics often end up.
Guys, I know I shouldn't give a shit but do you think there's even a shred of remorse when women do these things? A shred of introspection after the guy they fuck fucks off and leaves them where they think "I may have fucked up here".
Damn, this girl brought me to the redpill long before this happened but damn the bitterness to it is disgusting. When shit like this happens to you you truly understand "she's not yours, it's just your turn", briffaults law, everything! A holiday retard drops a little game in an artificial and overly stimulating environment making the sexes prone to indulging in, you guessed it, sex and women confuse this for anything remotely substantive. I don't know whether its genuine naivety or utter stupidity on their behalf.
And then I think how much of a Beta I have become to have had things end in this way. Jheez...I could write pages on that.
I'm just ranting guys, sorry. This wasn't a planned post I just needed to get some of this shit out, but my questions were:
Why do women feel solo travelling in a relationship is acceptable behavior?
How could in the scenario above my ex seriously say that she felt the same way about the guy she met than she feels with me her boyfriend of 3 years (still makes me sick writing it lool)?
How come there hasn't been a shed of remorse since ghosting her ass? (was I that beta that she'd checked out months/weeks before - I did say we were having problems)
Sorry again for the rant guys, had to get this shit out, these thoughts are literally on a circular conveyor belt in my mind...