Do sluts feel proud of their high n-counts? (self.asktrp)

submitted by Chainega

A high n-count tells me different things for guys and girls. A guy with a high n-count tells me that he is at the top of the SMV. A girl with a high n-count just tells me that this girl has no standards, but how do they feel about it?

[–]2chazthundergut 133 points134 points  (10 children)

Are you proud of how many times you've beaten your dick to porn?


[–]Ganaria_Gente 102 points103 points  (7 children)

Another way to think about it:

Are you proud of how many times you've so easily given your commitment to a girl?

[–]McDougal52 20 points21 points  (1 child)

^ this man gets it

[–]bikermonk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My President

[–]2chazthundergut 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Great way to look at it.

To be even more precise, are you proud of the time you've given away to chicks?

[–]Shredderick420 4 points5 points  (1 child)

I've been a commitment slut..

[–]2chazthundergut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here.

Time slut.

[–]zboo1h 0 points1 point  (0 children)


[–]quicklogaccount 6 points7 points  (0 children)

But then, why do they brag and let you know about how sexual they are?

  • Women believe pre selection is valuable;
  • Women believe men with options are superior;
  • Women believe people that succeed in challenging taboos are superior.

Sluts are proud of their ability to seduce and be chosen by valuable men and as such, of its consequences and their numbers. If they refrain from flashing it, it is because they are aware of the disadvantage it might bring, but they believe it brings disadvantage because people are intimidated by their strength.

[–]TheReformist94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn't work like that.at least they're getting laid.and don't think it's always a product of pump and dump. These girls are having harems of chads. My mate is one and is worried of how much cock is gf can get

[–]Two_kids_in_a_coat 33 points34 points  (6 children)

Well one plate told me her count was 8. After a few months she told me she forgot a few and it was actually 14. Now it’s 22. This whole time she only slept with me and one other guy. So no they don’t. They hide it. Another plate had a count of 50+ but “she’s not that type of girl” just “things happened”.

I never asked n-count, they just opened up due to conversations.

[–]zboo1h 10 points11 points  (2 children)

They always ask. Every fucking time, it's them.

[–]StraightWhiteMaleLOL 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"I don't kiss and tell."

[–]Nergaal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The correct answer from you is "enough".

[–]mrpoopistan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

8 -> 22

Another victory for the Multiply by Three Rule.

[–]civilizedfrog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always multiply their n-count with 3.

[–]quicklogaccount 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see this conflict too. I guess most women I dated walked this path:
- "I am a sexual woman, impervious to society's sexism, I have sex when I feel I want."
- (no hint of commitment)
- I did NOT have sex with a lot of men, what we have is special for its virtue.

[–]cl3537 49 points50 points  (4 children)

no they are ashamed and lie to lower numbers all the time

[–]RomeNeverFell 25 points26 points  (3 children)

Super-ashamed. They'll go as far as saying "I never counted them", "I don't know how many, who keeps a tally of that?".

[–]Nergaal 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's worse when they slip you the honest answer, then try to say that the actual number is about half of that, cause sucking dicks doesn't really count.

[–]Bruchibre 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And make fun of people who count because it's insecure "it doesn't matter".

Like, is adding +1 to a number every time you have a new encounter so difficult?

Surprisingly some guys also don't know their number even if it's low.

[–]padrehopeccato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the best I got was "well it's not really important"

[–][deleted] 76 points77 points  (97 children)

i don't fuck sluts more than once. if i'm successful at getting her to fuck the first time we hang out i consider here completely worthless and never call her again

99/100 sluts have nice bodies and sub-par faces. they don't get the type of validation that truly beautiful women do and so they take fucking alphas as their validation. they're left feeling empty though, because what they really want isn't the alpha's cock, it's the alpha's whole fucking life

[–]OddBalance 33 points34 points  (17 children)

I feel there is worth to having a girl you can hit up whenever you want for specifically sex

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (16 children)

i do too. but if she puts out on my first attempt, she's not gonna be the one imma hit up

[–]Locogooner 1 point2 points  (15 children)

So what about your plates ?

How long did it take to sleep with them.

[–][deleted] 17 points18 points  (14 children)

if i think they're hot enough to fuck and if they pass MY shit test (i.e. if they don't sleep with me the first time we hang out) that's usually enough for me.

when i met my wife she didn't put out the first night. or the second. she let me try all kinds of things but didn't let me actually fuck her for almost a month. it's probably why i married her, and why i stay married to her.

aside from looking like a vicki's model the next best thing a woman can do from an SMV standpoint is not give it up easily. working on their looks and not giving it up right away are literally the only two pieces of advice i give to women. because it's what works on me

[–]Pluglord 22 points23 points  (1 child)

She didn’t let me actually fuck her for a month

That’s because you weren’t alpha enough

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

very possible

[–]As-You-Were 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I like you Robert. I like that you didn’t rule out sleeping with sluts, but acknowledged them for the low level nothings they tend to be.

Some of my ‘gal-pals’ are reformed sluts and they agree that there is no value appreciation of a women sleeping around; and, as you quite rightly pointed out, are complete butterfaces.

[–]Locogooner 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Hmm, what do you think about Rollo’s opinion that the longer a girl waits, the less raw desire there is ?

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

well i almost never disagree with rollo, but if you like you can ask yourself why a mormon girl would spend every night for almost a month with someone doing everything she could EXCEPT intercourse (until she did) if there wasn't any raw desire there

she seemed pretty revved up to me

[–]zboo1h 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man I never really thought about that, but any girl that ever didn't put out immediately I actually end up keeping around even after the relationship ends, like we end up friends. Maybe I subconsciously respect them more? I have no idea. Excellent technique though, my man.

[–]UncleChido 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Fuck mahn. Who’s going to wait a month for one pussy. Definitely not me.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah honestly it's hard to believe i did. truth be told i was still mildly religious at the time and was trying to hold back a bit as well, but the time we actually took is beside the point. the point was that girl wasn't giving it up on day 1 or day 2, and that made a huge difference in my respect and attraction for her

[–]Bruchibre 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I like you too Robert. How old are you? what'd your n-count? do you know your wife's n-count?

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

30s. no idea

[–]Morphs_ 0 points1 point  (1 child)

While I understand your reasoning, it also holds some contradictions. Do you think your wife never ever had a ONS (which would make her an unworthy slut in your opinion), or was she hard to get for you because you were considered BB material?

they pass MY shit test

Just to understand, the shit test means you're trying to seduce them and the woman resisting is passing the shittest?

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you think your wife never ever had a ONS

no idea. she told me the only person she had sex with was her high school boyfriend and it only happened once but you can never know a woman's true n-count for sure.

you can watch her behavior though and take an educated guess and the fact that my wife was that fucking hard to get to that point when we were dating, it was a good sign.

and honestly it's the best sign a man can hope for. yeah i could say "well maybe my smv wasn't that high" but since i was first-night fucking girls just as good looking as her at the time, i don't think that was it. this is why she stood out to me and why i invested more time and energy and eventual married her. she's a clever girl

Just to understand, the shit test means you're trying to seduce them and the woman resisting is passing the shittest?


[–]Werewolf35b 0 points1 point  (1 child)

But don't you think instead of thinking that she's a great girl while she's not letting you fuck, you should have realized she saw you as a fool and a sucker and acted accordingly?

She fucked Chad immediately. Because she wanted to. She realized your the kind of guy that she could get a lifetime of support from, so she pretended to be innocent.

I mean, you didn't pop her cherry right? So she did fuck guys before. So what's this month of blue balling you really mean? Nothing.

If trp taught me anything it's that women are so conniving, it's intrinsic, they are even conniving when they don't intend to be. What I described is what happened, and she may not even be aware of it, that she did that to you or saw you as a bitch worker bee. But she did. She most likely played that part and held out to prove some bogus standard of worth to you, which is a farce if she wasn't a virgin, but whatever. But it's also likely it was all instinctive.

Now I understand the saying that they lie even when they're telling the truth.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

all entirely possible

[–]ArthurTheAstronaut 11 points12 points  (72 children)

if i'm successful at getting her to fuck the first time we hang out i consider here completely worthless and never call her again

I'm confused. If I'm trying to fuck, that's who I'm calling first.

[–][deleted] -5 points-4 points  (29 children)

well beggars can't be choosers

[–]ArthurTheAstronaut 11 points12 points  (26 children)

Now I'm even more confused....

I find a hot chick that fucks me on the first day.....next time I find myself wanting to fuck a hot chick, I call the hot chick that fucked me without effort...but because I took the easy hit, I'm a beggar? Your logic is fucked.

[–]Morphs_ 5 points6 points  (9 children)

I guess the logic is that redpillrobert has a problem with the idea of a women fucking other guys as well. So he rather waits a month for sex and then wives her up, than plating an easy girl for easy sex. The different route is marriage so I guess he wants kids at some point.

If he ever gets a divorce or if his wife cheats I'd like to know.

[–]ArthurTheAstronaut -2 points-1 points  (8 children)


Doesn't sound like you're advice is well heeded around here, /u/redpillrobert. Funny that you're giving the kind of advice you're giving considering your situation that this community seems to be well acquainted with.

[–]Morphs_ 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Well the unusual part about his style is that he considers LMR a quality. But on the other hand, AWALT. A woman puts up more LMR when she considers the guy BB material as to not appear 'easy'.

I guess redpillrobert is the first guy ever to have found and married a unicorn.

[–]UncleChido 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha. I guess so too.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (5 children)

yeah i'm pretty open about the fact that i'm married

[–]ArthurTheAstronaut 2 points3 points  (3 children)

So maybe stop making yourself sound like a fucking twat by giving advice to a league you're not in.

[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points  (2 children)


[–]ArthurTheAstronaut 2 points3 points  (1 child)


By married fucks that think they're redpilled gamemasters.

[–]LethalShade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please keep posting on this sub, contrasting opinions is more of what we need here. Herd mentality is good for no one.

[–][deleted] -4 points-3 points  (15 children)

you don't have to get it

[–]ArthurTheAstronaut 5 points6 points  (14 children)

No but I'd like to. I feel like you expect people to just take your word as the answer because of your username.

[–]DiddleMyTittles 0 points1 point  (1 child)

For someone with red pill in their name you sound blue pill as fuck.

And waiting 1 month...wow youre a betabucks little bitch

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)


[–]redd_reality -3 points-2 points  (41 children)

That's cause you're playing checkers and he's playing chess.

[–]ArthurTheAstronaut 10 points11 points  (40 children)

Ohhhhhh. So putting (potentially wasted) energy into a possible fuck vs. fucking some hot bitch that already wants to fuck you is the real game?

I thought we were fucking to get off and proceed with life. Not gaining numbers to brag on.

Well fuck me sideways, I've been doing it wrong.

I'm finally realizing y'all are fucking fucked.

Edit: I suddenly feel like I've been taking advice from a bunch of Jersey Shore Guidos.

[–]NitricTV -4 points-3 points  (31 children)

Nigga if you don't wanna fuck her again your not going to. I had a ONS and will never hit her up/ fuck her again even if she calls/texts/emails me. It's something you have to experience to understand

[–]ArthurTheAstronaut 5 points6 points  (30 children)

  1. I'm not your mother-fuckin' 'nigga'. So fuck off with that bullshit.

  2. Grammar, nigga.

  3. What the fuck are you even talking about? No one ever said ONS are out of the question. But surely you've fucked a chick that you wanted to fuck again, right? So why not fuck her again? Oh because you already have? Get fucked. You find a bitch that you like to fuck, fuck her 'til you don't want to anymore. I'm not gonna NOT fuck a bitch that I enjoyed fucking for the prospect of POTENTIALLY fucking another chick that I might not fuck or enjoy fucking.

If she's sexy, a good fuck, AND puts out on the first night, she's good in my book.

The whole conversation started when dude said he doesn't fuck chicks twice that put out the first night. Isn't the WHOLE FUCKING POINT to fuck the first night?!

[–]DiddleMyTittles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Blue pill little bitches all over this thread mate

[–]NitricTV -3 points-2 points  (13 children)

You’re annoying go live a bit more & hopefully you’ll understand

[–]ArthurTheAstronaut 5 points6 points  (12 children)

God damn you fuck-tards on this sub are thick.

Tons of great advice around here if you can wade through the idiots that think they're redpilled.

Not once have any of you given me any kind of rebuttle. It's just insults when you have nothing better to say.

[–]Pluglord -3 points-2 points  (4 children)

Nigga shut the fuck up hoe

[–]ArthurTheAstronaut 0 points1 point  (3 children)

lmao. The first few pages of your comment history are 3 to 6 word answers that are total bullshit. Get out of here.

[–]NitricTV -3 points-2 points  (6 children)

Cool dude have fun being redpilled

[–]ArthurTheAstronaut 1 point2 points  (5 children)

I'm not red-pilled. That's why I'm here. But I find myself trying harder to weed out the bullshit than soak in what matters because of fucks like you who can't ever back up the shit you're talking with anything other than anecdotes and insults.

[–]norcalguy510 -3 points-2 points  (14 children)

Hey fuckhead, do w.e the fuck you want, just like redpillrobert did - whatever the fuck he wants

[–]ArthurTheAstronaut 2 points3 points  (13 children)

Hey, great comment!

I have no problem with anyone doing whatever they fuck they want. Just don't give advice to people you have no business giving advice to.


[–]microgum 2 points3 points  (5 children)

I was against you at first but with that clarification you’re right.

I don’t think being married is blue pill if you’ve had your share and you’ve taken the necessarily precautions.

I do think if you’ve been married for a decent amount of time advice towards a single lifestyle is not that valuable.

They’re same aspects, but different games.

[–]FwoGiZ 1 point2 points  (4 children)

Getting married IS blue pill. There is NO advantage AT ALL for a MAN. Look at the divorce rate and then look at who initiates divorce. Then look at me in the eyes and tell me getting married is redpill.

Look, I would never sign a business contract where I have 70-80% of getting fcked over, a business contract where at any point my partner changes their mind, it fcks me over and ruin everything I accomplished.

Now... if you want to build a family, by all mean there is definitely things you should stay away from, and this definitely includes sluts.

But this is REDPILL reddit ....... I think some of you guys just need Dr.Phil lol

[–]norcalguy510 -3 points-2 points  (6 children)

Who are you tell anyone what to do or not, fucking mod are you? Take something from one mans advice or disregard it as unhelpful to you. Some of us found some use from his comment.

[–]ArthurTheAstronaut 1 point2 points  (5 children)

Some of us found some use from his comment.

Ouch. I'm sorry.

[–]Mobrowncheeks -2 points-1 points  (7 children)

Why would you want to fuck someone everyone is fucking? That's how you catch diseases or get caught up in custody battles

[–]ArthurTheAstronaut 2 points3 points  (6 children)

lmao what in the absolute FUCK are you talking about?! Are you assuming that everyone you fuck isn't fucking someone else?


[–]Mobrowncheeks -1 points0 points  (5 children)

I assume that woman that who are fucking on the first date are fucking many guys on the first date. Do they are more likely to have something or get pregnant

[–]ArthurTheAstronaut 2 points3 points  (4 children)


[–]FwoGiZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Arthur I am so with you on this lol.......... lotso chumps here and they think they're redpill? :X

[–]Mobrowncheeks -3 points-2 points  (2 children)

All women don't offer up pussy for any and everyone. Only girls who fuck on the first date fuck everyone.

[–]ArthurTheAstronaut 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Only girls who fuck on the first date fuck everyone.

Good thing I'm not looking to get married then, huh?

[–]BobMargarita 2 points3 points  (2 children)

You're right about sluts having sub par faces and nice bodies. I know an infinite number of girls like that at college. They are constantly partying and fucking athletes and alphas, and these dudes literally want NOTHING to do with them after. They refuse to even acknowledge them, and the girls know that this is going to happen, so they don't go after them again. It's pretty insane that they are willing to spend their entire fertile life like this... I don't know how they sleep at night.

Personally man, I find innocent girls make me rock hard. Innocent girls often have an issue though; they're ugly, dumb, or have some other insecurities. I guess most of the time it's that they are ugly, or at least not pretty. I understand that AWALT, but do you think these more innocent girls are more likely to be a good plate/girlfriend?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

my wife definitely had insecurities when we met. she had what i call "ugly duckling syndrome." growing up her mother made sure all her clothes were frumpy and modest and she never thought she was pretty until about mid-way through her senior year of high school

i met her after her second year of college right after her freshman 15 fell off and from the first day we hung out until now we've seen each other basically every day. when i met her she was an 8. cute face. great legs. huge tits. but she could use some definition. over the next couple years she grew from an 8 to as close to a 10 as i've ever seen anyone come. and she hasn't lost a step yet at 29

if you can find yourself an ugly duckling i recommend it. hard to find a more ideal wiring than that

[–]BobMargarita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I know exactly the kind of girl you're talking about. That is definitely the direction I have always looked. It sounds kind of fucked up, but if you take a girl with insecurities and mold her by your presence and leadership and she gains confidence under you, I feel like she wont leave your side.

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    [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    it's not a factual statement on its own. plenty of fat girls are sluts. i was referencing my experience. i've never fucked a fat slut

    but the male equivalent of a slut is beta bux. if you buy her shit and compliment her and listen to all her dumb fucking stories and you're not getting anywhere with her physically in return, you're the male equivalent

    [–]IronJohnKwando -1 points0 points  (0 children)


    [–]purplefidgetmidget 19 points20 points  (0 children)

    Wrong question, the question is do women like X?

    Yes, if other people in her peer group think it is a good thing.

    No, if other people in her peer group think it's a bad thing.

    Also bonus:

    No if she thought Yes, but then later her peer group told her No was the correct answer.

    [–]zboo1h 29 points30 points  (1 child)

    Dude, sluts are proud about letting someone blow seed in them and then leave them with the mutt kid. But they're not ACTUALLY proud, they just pretend to be proud, very very loudly, because the shame they actually feel is so loud in their heads, they're screaming over the top of it.

    [–]SpinPlates 8 points9 points  (3 children)

    I know one girl I used to bartend with 5+ years ago. Biggest skank I ever met in my life. Fat, unattractive but a major party girl "tom boy"

    One night closing the bar about 6 us were all shooting the shit and N count came up. Everyone else was less than 10, I was 21 years old at the time and mine was in the 20s and everyone was like "whoa you're a man whore" and this other girl that was the major slut laughed and was like "I'm in the 50s but I'd have to count again to be sure" and she was 21 years old as well. Shes laughing and humble bragging about how much sex she has. The other girls in the group are disgusted...Maybe envious.

    She brought up her list on her phone and I noticed a lot of the later entries were during a relationship she had with another coworker of ours at the bar. (Who she was not dating anymore) She laughed it off and was like "Well...shit happens"

    Her sluttyness was brought up by some other girls while she wasnt around a few days later and they told me she would brag about sleeping with 2 guys in one night all the time.

    This is where it gets bad. Fast forward years later I go to a pool party with some old coworkers from that bar and the slut is there with her now husband and their baby. Husband is a big jacked ex marine, very alpha man but he travels for work, makes good money. Shes now a stay at home mom and has this poor man trapped. She acts like an angel around him but everyone at the party knows her history.

    I would 100% bet my life on her cheating on him while hes gone.

    Anyways, to answer the question, no they dont feel bad and they are proud As long as they get that marriage and baby.

    [–]AllgBeamtenrecht 5 points6 points  (2 children)

    this system is rigged. i am still not sure how to navigate through. i want a family in future but how can you rely on anything if society diesn't keep its women in check? alpha marine getting cucked and lied to and probably divorced raped soon by a fat basic whore? i cant take this anymore

    [–]LethalShade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    Marines are the worst guys when it comes to successful relationships. They get all the success already by being natural alphas and status of marines, why read up on all the TRP, relationship or marriage theory at all? Then their wives slut up while they're away and they don't see it coming at all, 100% surprise.

    I've always thought that people that need TRP the most are celebrities, athletes and otherwise guys with already high SMV. Those guys are the most likely to attract the AWALTest women out there and be the most unprepared for it.

    [–]Aggressive_Beta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    He made his bed, let him lie in it

    [–]throwitdownman 5 points6 points  (0 children)

    Hello?? Tons of shit advice, quit male hamstering.

    YES. Not just proud, they are fucking proud too. How hypocritical is it to say they feel shame at a number, yet continue to ride the CC. Read the god damn sidebar. News flash - girls don’t say how they really feel!

    Girls have an implied understanding that they should have ‘fun’ early, and find a good guy to settle down ‘late’. This is why I’ve heard a group of my friends say ‘he’s husband material’ to my friend who is single and not consider dating him.

    Multiple of my plates have said the similar - they’re promiscuous, simple, and go with the flow because they do not want to be stuck at 45 in a dead-bedroom, and feel like they missed out the Spring Breaks, missed out on the CC, etc. They hear that shit from older women, and even amongst themselves - no snowflake wants to feel like they missed out.

    This goes along with RP theory - the wall, and the feeling of women feeling like they own your share, the constant need for more and more.

    Some of these comments, I assure you, are male hamstering. If you even spoke to some girls they’ll say the opposite. They’ll hide the number but not hide the fact that they have no shame in shopping around (aka CC). What does that tell you?

    [–]TRPTyrone 4 points5 points  (2 children)


    Source: Knew sluts in HS. They would brag about which one had the Wilder sexual experiences. One even bragged about fucking her friends dad like it was something to be proud about.

    [–]Austinisfullgohome 2 points3 points  (1 child)

    Don’t take that at face value. Ever see American Beauty?

    [–]Zahlix 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    Yeah, many are pretty insecure about the topic and don't want to look like an idiot so they lie about it. Same with virgin guys who lie about that girl they slept with up in Canada during summer break.

    [–]Wrath_of_Trump 19 points20 points  (5 children)

    There is no such thing as a low n-count after high school, my dude.

    [–]RomeNeverFell 7 points8 points  (2 children)

    Maybe in the US. In most countries in Europe (except for the UK) it's still around 2-3 for most girls [right after high school I mean]. In Eastern Europe you can find many girls who are still virgin during uni.

    [–]erthian 4 points5 points  (1 child)

    Yes that sounds true and accurate.

    [–]hrm0894 -1 points0 points  (0 children)


    [–]Aggressive_Beta 0 points1 point  (1 child)

    It is but it’s rare. There are some girls who don’t lose their virginity until they’re 21

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    [–]Chaddeus_Rex 28 points29 points  (14 children)

    sluts are good. they are girls who like sex. nothing wrong with that. you just can't date them. trust me you don't want a prude.

    [–][deleted] 18 points19 points  (2 children)

    This didn’t answer his question at all.

    [–]Chaddeus_Rex -4 points-3 points  (1 child)

    because it hardly matters.

    the answer is, 'some do, some don't'. A girl i was with secretly invited me into her dorm room while she has roomates on both sides of her room and we banged with the lights off and deathnote playing in the background and a locked door (so nobody walks in). other girls don't care and will openly bang a guy in front of her mom (a chinese girl i was with).

    [–]ArthurTheAstronaut 10 points11 points  (0 children)

    A girl i was with secretly invited me into her dorm room while she has roomates on both sides of her room and we banged with the lights off and deathnote playing in the background and a locked door (so nobody walks in).

    Uhh...Cool? I expected that story to have a point. Turns out you fucked a girl in the privacy of her bedroom? Cool.

    [–]WoodWizzy87 2 points3 points  (10 children)

    Just recently found out my sister that’s 29 is still a virgin, she’s been engaged since November and has been dating my future brother in law for 2 years. Let that sink in.......

    2 FUCKING YEARS OF NO SEX FOR THAT GUY. I can’t even begin to imagine how far into her frame he is

    [–]empatheticapathetic 3 points4 points  (7 children)

    He gets a virgin. Assuming it goes well it’d be worth it. She won’t contain herself for him though.

    [–]LethalShade 0 points1 point  (3 children)

    You really think think marrying a virgin is a good deal? How about the feelings of shame due to being sex being wrong and only to be used as a method of procreation? Or the completely opposite where she needs to go find herself and ride the CC for a few years because she "missed out"? Or just being a prude in bed in general?

    Doesn't sound like a fun bag at all.

    [–]empatheticapathetic 0 points1 point  (2 children)

    I literally said in my reply she won't stay faithful to him once she discovers sex.

    How about the feelings of shame due to being sex being wrong and only to be used as a method of procreation

    Do you know this person. Do you know whether this is a big struggle for this person at all? Regardless it's that's something that can be worked on if it was a factor.

    Weak response.

    [–]LethalShade 0 points1 point  (1 child)

    How is that a good deal then? Don't think said brother in law will be cool with his newly virgin bride slutting around a few months after the fact.

    Do you know this person. Do you know whether this is a big struggle for this person at all? Regardless it's that's something that can be worked on if it was a factor.

    What? These are just hypothetical scenarios that regularly come up in this situation, what is TRP if not assuming future behaviour from past knowledge?

    [–]empatheticapathetic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Did i say it was a good deal? For the record on paper it does seem like a good deal. The guy is not TRP aware. Realising a virgin is going to slut it up after is a rich concept a guy like that won't be aware of until it happens. Most people won't be aware of it until it happens. This will be his learning curve.

    These are just hypothetical scenarios that regularly come up in this situation

    Pointless when they venture out of typical TRP stereotypes. Unless those specific scenarios were common TRP talking points, it's pointless speculating what might happen outside of the typical concepts discussed i.e. virgin slutting it up after having sex. We may as well discuss how her Caribbean ancestry has an impact on her views on monogamy. Do we know she has a Carribean ancestray? No. But she might. It's pointless speculating about things we don't know about her that aren't already common TRP talking points.

    [–]mrrooftops -1 points0 points  (2 children)

    The most boring and unfulfilling sex ever... is with a virgin (unless you are deeply worried about underperforming yourself). I wish him the best luck.

    [–]WoodWizzy87 0 points1 point  (1 child)

    They were at her bridal shower and taking pulls of fireball and the sex questions came out, supposedly she said virgin. But I’m just saying the blue balls, and how is it really worth it in the long run. She may bond to you easier, but with today’s society, if she eats him up and spits him out after 5 years of marriage it’s a divorce.

    [–]mrrooftops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    The man's got enough Beta in him to make a dirty bomb

    [–]Rene-Girard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    1. Of course she's not a virgin.
    2. She's too old, that guy is retarded.

    [–]Chaddeus_Rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    I find it amazing how girls have these iron frames...god damn lol

    [–]rougeoblong 5 points6 points  (0 children)

    Externally yes. Internally hell no. The women proud of their n count are miserable. They’re trying to be like guys. But we have the biological imperative to have a high n count. They do not. They cannot truly find satisfaction with a high n count.

    [–]NolanKnowstheTruth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

    Only until they want to settle down. Then they will cry "slut shaming asshole". The fact is, we are judged on literally everything in our past; school grades, credit score, criminal activity, so why should sluts have the memory wiped?

    Don't get me wrong, I love sluts, I just don't like being deceived.

    [–]VoidInvincible 6 points7 points  (2 children)

    Lock and key. Lock and key. A lock that gets unlocked by lots of keys probably isn't so proud. Unless they are feminist locks.

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      [–]VoidInvincible 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      Haha true

      [–]FN15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      To them it’s about finding some arm candy aka sucker to show off to other women

      [–]ZogJhones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      Most lose count and don't care.

      [–]mcr00sterdota 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      If you were proud of something would you hide it?

      [–]RedPilledRoaster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      No. They feel like dirty whores by the time they hit their 30s. Until then they hamster why it’s ok. But they never feel proud of it.

      [–]acidbath6464 1 point2 points  (2 children)

      Id say no. Why do you think they always lie about how many cocks they took?

      Woman are the gate keepers of sex, and the more they open the gate, the lower the value.

      [–]xeroblaze0 1 point2 points  (1 child)

      Id say no. Why do you think they always lie about how many cocks they took?

      Because it matters to us.

      [–]acidbath6464 5 points6 points  (0 children)

      And to other woman as well. woman are savage as fuck, especially with each other. It shows more value for them to have men want them and for them to not put out ever time that happenes.

      [–]FwoGiZ 0 points1 point  (1 child)

      So funny to see that a lot of supposedly redpilled guys don't actually really understand the dynamics.

      There are 2 teams... but one of the team seems to greatly ignore the stats and facts that getting married and building a family is near impossible nowadays but still... if that is what you absolutely want then yeah stay away from high n-count women and go for those frigid boring teases wife material girls are... Meanwhile, you guys gotta get off your high horse and realize that there are man out there acknowledging those stats and simply uninterested in risking so much, for seemingly so little. These men, will definitely love hanging out with "sluts"... if the chick is hot, fun, good in bed and chill... oh godamn right I'll be calling her back and we're going to have lotso good times! I actually do everything I can to stay away from women who won't put out within 3 dates because I am looking for fun, spontaneous, adventurous women.

      But yeah kinda pathetic to see guys with such weird hatred of sluts.. tell me more about how redpill you are lol...

      [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      Wife materials can be fun. It all depends what one considers boring and fun. To me, a nature trail and studying plants/animals/fungi (mushrooms) is very fun!! To a man that also loves nature, this could also be very fun.

      I hate the bar and club scene. I know that many people consider it to be fun, but to me it’s boring. I went once to a bar w/ loud music and dancing only cause my female co-workers begged me to go. I never go out and they kept saying “c’mon girl!! just one time!! you’ll love it!!” So I went and guess what? I was there for about 25 minutes, then I left w/o telling anyone, went home, and slept. Viewing nature, wildlife, and breathtaking scenery is 100x better than a club, IMO.

      [–]Senior Endorsed ContributorFieldLine 0 points1 point  (1 child)

      They don't think about it, it would cause too much cognitive dissonance.

      If you asked them about any specific time they'd tell you how "it just happened but it's definitely not a regular thing".

      [–]otter6461a 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      Like the Suzanne Vega song says, “It’s a one time thing. It just happens a lot.”

      Yes all women.

      [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      Depends on the situation. From what I’ve seen, they aren’t loud about it, but most guys aren’t either unless they’re arrogant douches.

      I’ve known girls who are proud of it, but they still wouldn’t give an exact number. They like to think about all the guys that gave them attention. More like a private self pride.

      [–]You_Know_This_MAN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      some of them try to act like dudes...they copy everything you say. "Oh yeah I'm not into long term relationships" , "Oh I love doing all those things you're asking me to do" etc. If they're really into ya they'll say anything they think you want to hear and look at your face to gauge your reaction. Sometimes they wanna prove they can keep up..."oh you hook up with tons of people, me too!". It's not always clear to them that the same thing that makes you attractive to them does NOT make them attractive to you.

      [–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      Nah they lie about their n-counts all the time because they know it lowers their value. Guys lie about n-counts all the time because they know it raises their value.

      [–]PhaedrusHunt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      Self professed sluts feel proud about it.

      Women that are more old fashioned may have high N counts but try to keep hush hush about it.

      [–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      A girl with a high n-count just tells me that this girl has no standards, but how do they feel about it?

      They pretend to be proud, just like they pretend to be proud they're fat.

      [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      I am generally not attracted to men that have a high number of sexual partners. It tells me they are immature, impulsive, not ready to settle down, not family oriented, they’re not good, probably not gentlemen, only talking to me because they want to add another notch to their belt. They do not want to form a friendship, they are not genuine or true. I am simply not attracted to these types of guys. My mom calls them gigolos, I don’t want to bring a gigolo home to my mom. I could understand an older gentleman (late 20’s or early 30’s) who has had maybe 8 sexual partners, from monogamous relationships. But then again, it kinda raises a red flag to me because he has cycled through so many relationships so quickly. Something keeps going wrong- serial monogamists are what I call them. Not always a good thing.

      I do not like to make friends with women who have had many penises in them, either. For the same reasons as I listed for the men. They also probably have some kind of debilitating mental health issue, and I dislike emotional vampires. Get away.

      Yes, sluts do tend to be proud. They have no other redeeming qualities except that they can fuck like a pornstar. Their parents resent them, their community calls them a hoe, they have no ambition for anything in life, no morals, no respect, no decency, it’s easy to see why they would be proud of their n-count. They have nothing else to be proud of.

      [–]mrpoopistan -1 points0 points  (2 children)

      Women aren't proud of it, but you'll find chicks who are resigned to it for various reasons. The butterfaces, the chubby-cutes, the aged-out ones, etc.

      In my experience, they frame it as a positive sexual lifestyle choice. Or it'll be framed as "I just like dick so much". You'll also find the occasional one who prefers the Bill Clinton Defense, claiming that all the oral, fingering and face sucking doesn't count, essentially trying to keep an insanely high N down to a just very bad N.

      What you never see is the truly proud answers that men give. You definitely don't get the thing guys get where they trip over themselves to impress their friends with artificially inflated N counts.

      [–]otter6461a 0 points1 point  (1 child)

      I had an ex who had blown at least a hundred guys and had sex with like 4 guys. To her, her N count was 4. She would actually say, “Blowing a guy doesn’t count.”

      [–]mrpoopistan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

      "Bitch, HPV don't work that way."