I knew tinder was bad, but not this bad. How many girls are lying about what they look like? (self.asktrp)

submitted by resnine

So I've been chatting with a girl on tinder. Things are going alright. She has some cute pictures of her up, and she sends me others. Some of her body, et cetera. Any who I guess today she decided to post a new picture on her Tinder, a "real" picture. And I must say, she looks like a mutant of some sort. I am not kidding here, hair is a mess, looks like she is balding, skin has massive pores, just looks sickly. I don't get how a girl can even transform like this. In all the pictures I've seen so far she has looked decent but then there is like this hidden one I just saw recently. She looks like a different human being. And I think I am going to back out from our date. Has anyone else actually gone on a date to find out the girl is a mutant?

[–]ArthurTheAstronaut 46 points47 points  (6 children)

Has anyone else actually gone on a date to find out the girl is a mutant?

Not since fucking snapchat, homie.

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    [–]ArthurTheAstronaut 28 points29 points  (4 children)

    Because with Snapchat, you can see what a girl looks like at random times instead of her bullshit IG or FB pictures. Bitches can't hide their ugly if you randomly ask them to snap you a picture of their face here and there a few times before you go out with them.

    I have absolutely no problem telling a chick that I wanna see what she 'really' looks like.

    [–][deleted] 11 points12 points  (2 children)

    I hate to tell you this but Snapchat has a ton of filters

    [–]ArthurTheAstronaut 11 points12 points  (1 child)


    She puts some stupid bunny filter or any filter really, I don't accept it. I'm not playing games.

    [–]Redpillswole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Exactly. If I get that shit I ask for a normal picture LOL

    and a recent one

    [–][deleted] 33 points34 points  (26 children)

    Ever been to a nightclub? Remember how she looked in the morning after the make up was off and the dim lights disappeared?

    Same thing. AWALT (lol)

    Just use tinder for quick fucks when you can't/don't feel like going to your usuals or hitting the club/bar. Expect the worst. Know that she's going to be at least a point or three below her pictures. Take it for what it is.

    Edit: if you're really worried you can type her name into Facebook and use the "city" and "work" filter. You'll be able to find ~75% of them. Or ask for their Snapchat. "For all I know you're really a 500 pound Nigerian dude. What's your snap?"

    [–]Bruchibre 9 points10 points  (4 children)

    Yeah Tinder is for quantity not for quality.

    [–]Redpillswole 5 points6 points  (3 children)

    Because you're not getting matches with girls of high value.

    Every single girl you will meet on the street at the bar at the coffee shop has been on tinder at least once.

    [–]Bruchibre 0 points1 point  (2 children)

    I'm not on tinder, I'm in LTR. Two of my close friends married high value girls they met on tinder. But the exceptions don't make the rule. If I was on tinder it would definitely for the sake of quantity.

    [–]Redpillswole -1 points0 points  (1 child)

    So like I said. People complaining just aren't getting matches with the high quality girls

    [–]Bruchibre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Yep, definitely like you said.

    [–]SheenCharlie 7 points8 points  (1 child)

    Your comment reminds me of how I knew a guy who was going to marry this bitch from England who turned out to be an Ethiopian at a library trying to get money out of him.

    [–]bourbonhipster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    If true you must share this story for the rest of us!

    [–]FOODYUMONION 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Lol i do this via a fake Facebook account ( if you use your account then you will show up in their suggested, creepy huh lol)

    [–]Redpillswole -2 points-1 points  (17 children)

    Tinder is far superior to a club or a bar. I'm surprised that's even suggested here as a method to meet women.

    [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (14 children)

    What is your reasoning?

    [–]Redpillswole -1 points0 points  (13 children)

    Girls that drink is a red flag. Girls that go to clubs and bars is a red flag.

    Tinder allows you to filter out the shitty girls before you even meet them. You can pre vet them before you even fuck them.

    Tinder allows you to match and meet high quality women faster than like, meeting at the library or some shit.

    The guys claiming tinder only has low quality girls live in a small city or have low SMV that they don't get matches with good ones

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      [–]Redpillswole 1 point2 points  (11 children)

      All pussy is pretty easy if you're SMV is high dude. I don't want crazy bitches in my life and 80% of the posts here are guys in problems because they're fucking girls with red flags all over.

      If you want this dick and me to be in your life I don't put up with immature alcohol shit to fuck. Sex on my terms. I don't have time to be wasting on going out late at night and using drugs. I want my fuck before 10pm or so and get on with my life. Not some 5 hour waste of time on the weekend.

      [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (6 children)

      You don't sound like you're in your early 20's anymore. You sound like a man on a mission, you should not be downvoted.

      This what years of abundance sounds like.

      Take notes people.

      [–]FvckYourSafeSpace 2 points3 points  (4 children)

      I pray this is sarcasm

      [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (3 children)

      Nope. Most guys I know with that attitude have had years of abundance and just don't care anymore. Sure there's the time to go out and rage but it isn't something that's done regularly or a focal point.

      I still completely disagree with his attitude twords tinder and meeting girls at bars/clubs but the mindset is mature none the less

      [–]FvckYourSafeSpace 1 point2 points  (2 children)

      How old are you?

      [–]Redpillswole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      Haha thanks man. I'm actually 24. I'm actually quite suprised by the amount people do to try to get laid in this subreddit instead of improving their SMV and letting it happen naturally

      [–]FvckYourSafeSpace 0 points1 point  (3 children)

      You sound fun.

      [–]Redpillswole 2 points3 points  (2 children)

      Know what's more fun then going out and not getting laid?

      Having the girl come to your place fuck then they leave and you do what you want to do.

      [–]FvckYourSafeSpace 0 points1 point  (1 child)

      I’m aware that that’s great, I do both. You do you bro but based on your comments you sound about as charming as a fart in a can. Consider lightening up a little. 🤷🏼‍♂️

      [–]Redpillswole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      Cool story bro, I'll make sure to change my attitude to make you feel better

      [–]FvckYourSafeSpace 0 points1 point  (1 child)

      Hahahaha maybe if you’re autistic.

      [–]Redpillswole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      No lol, I just don't care to hangout with dumb drunk women

      [–]Avesatanie 36 points37 points  (0 children)

      Find someone in the street, put some clothes on him and send him to the date. Tell him to smile wide so that the missing theet shows. Don't forget to record her reaction.

      [–]Lyxeka 23 points24 points  (4 children)

      Happens to me occasionally. What I do is say I forgot my wallet in my car and just drive home.

      [–]RdBull 2 points3 points  (0 children)

      Jajajaja savage. Love it.

      [–]cptgoatsack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

      This is actually a good excuse to bail I'll be using that next time.

      [–]O--- 1 point2 points  (1 child)


      [–]c_w_o_o_l_l_y 5 points6 points  (0 children)

      How is it an "ouch"? If they're going to lie with their pictures, you can lie with where you're going. You'd just be playing their game right back.

      [–][deleted] 49 points50 points  (12 children)

      I saw my sister the other day (who's a professional model and basically famous on Instagram) without makeup and even I was like jesus fucking christ. Just tons of acne, transparent eyebrows, horrible eye area.

      It was scary af.

      [–]matrixtospartanatLV 22 points23 points  (1 child)

      My grandfather taught me to watch out for,

      “A little powder and a little paint, to make it look like, what it ain’t.”

      [–]datkhushiboi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

      I love this.

      [–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (0 children)


      [–]dongpal 8 points9 points  (1 child)

      Just like these Meth before-after pictures. They didnt take drugs, they just didn't use makeup!

      [–]ppanthero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      Haha, but kind of true.

      [–]alphabachelor 5 points6 points  (1 child)


      How women use makeup is why I never feel regret running the tightest red pill game on them.

      [–]Random_throwaway_000 4 points5 points  (0 children)

      I'm just so turned off by women that look like they are made of plastic that she looks better no make-up. Not good but better.

      [–]ravenQ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      I got a friend like that, Soft spot is like 1,5m distance, any closer and you start to see the cracks in makeup.

      [–][deleted]  (3 children)


        [–]1atticusfinch1973 1 point2 points  (2 children)

        Pornstars without makeup

        This is great if you are on pornfree or nofap as a motivator. Most of them are pretty gross without makeup and hair extensions.

        [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

        Man, some of those are shocking.

        Doesn't even look like the same person half the time.

        [–]purplefidgetmidget 5 points6 points  (0 children)

        Just a counterpoint but I sometimes find women are shit at photographing themselves. I met up with someone that looked HB6, their photos were not great, when I got there though, HB8 at least. I've had this a couple of times.

        So I'd go and see.

        [–]Terdmuffin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

        So the pictures people use on tinder are their max. No one uses bad pictures on tinder. That's they best they can look. Assume they are more ugly than their pictures.

        [–]mikeyp_88 5 points6 points  (0 children)

        Only face shots are usually fatties! Always subtract 2 points to get real live

        [–]27billion 4 points5 points  (17 children)

        One word: Make Up. Then there’s filters, facetune, camera angles, lighting, the whole shebang of effective camouflage that will make a 4 look like am 7—but never a 9 or 10.

        So aim for girls that look like 10’s on tinder (as you should be in real life anyway) and at least u’d be prepared when they’re 5’s or 6’s. Then depending on yourself, smash and dash.

        Remember If is seems too good to be true...

        [–]resnine[S] 4 points5 points  (12 children)

        Right. The plot just keeps thickening with this girl I tell ya. First she tells me she has hsv1 and has two active strands, THEN she posts this mutant picture. What's next a penis?

        [–]ravenQ 3 points4 points  (1 child)

        Dude, you should move along.

        [–]resnine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

        For sure, it's just this has been one of those girls who gave me tons of attention on Tinder. Was very receptive to everything I said. And now I know why, her SMV is rock bottom and she is desperate. I can be all overtly sexual on Tinder and she still accepts it cause she is low SMV and she is just willing to take anything she can get. She also lives with her parents, late twenties.

        [–]matrixtospartanatLV 1 point2 points  (9 children)

        The only thing that needs to thicken is YOUR penis.

        If not, move on quickly.

        Don’t be thirsty, be willing to pass on a glass of dirty water.

        [–]resnine[S] -1 points0 points  (8 children)

        This girl flat-out told me if she were a guy she wouldn't be talking to her so.... then she says if I ghosted her, then her whole world will crash, cause she has invested a lot in me. What a world..

        [–]matrixtospartanatLV 2 points3 points  (7 children)

        Yeah. I’ll save you my sob story about ignoring red flags about head issues.

        She’s either manipulative as fuck, or has the lowest self-esteem, ever.

        Walk away.

        [–]resnine[S] 1 point2 points  (6 children)

        Horribly low self-esteem and probably manipulative, as most women already are. It's just one red-flag after enough. I think she expects to be whined and dined too. The 21st century girl is one with totally unrealistic expectations. The man must have a whole laundry list of things checked of before she will consider going out with him. But her? she can be a cow, mutant-thing, so long as she has a vagina then she's can do and demand whatever she wants.

        [–]matrixtospartanatLV 0 points1 point  (5 children)

        BTW, you counteract this by getting into, and staying in, the top 20%.

        Then the top 15%.

        Then the top 10%.

        See where I am going with this?

        You should be picking from what’s presented to you.

        Don’t be a bottom feeder.

        And never settle.

        [–]resnine[S] 1 point2 points  (4 children)

        I know my SMV is low, because that's why I am attracting these land manatees. I need to lift, dress-well, work on my masculinity, keep reading and improving myself. I realize I have a long ways to go. I've neglected myself for years. At first this girl was probably like a 5-ish, maybe a range between 4.8-5.2. However now, with this new picture and all the TICKLE DOWN of information, I'd say she is probably a 3, basing this on the truerateme scale.

        [–]matrixtospartanatLV 0 points1 point  (3 children)

        I neglected myself for DECADES, I mean, half a century.

        You got this. You know what to do.

        Now, just fucking execute.

        [–]resnine[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

        Do you have a blog or anything about your experiences? I think you could be a wealth of information to this community. Or should I read through your post-history?

        [–]matrixtospartanatLV 1 point2 points  (0 children)

        “..smash and dash..”


        I’m stealing that

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          [–]27billion 0 points1 point  (1 child)

          Lol...no you don’t you secretly love being that guy haha

          [–]IncognitoMaster91 1 point2 points  (1 child)

          Women who use tons of makeup never look the same when you see them naturally without any...i think after seeing a mask for so long that when you see the real deal your eyes can't adjust quick enough to all the imperfections that were hidden previously.

          [–]resnine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          Yeah, it's pretty damn remarkable how different they look.

          [–]SjekkieTime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

          I've been on 20+ tinder dates and have never been extremely surprised. 2 or 3 times the girl was chubbier than I expected, but that just happens. I've never been catfished or went on date where her pics were very misleading compared to real life.

          [–]SovereignSoul76 1 point2 points  (1 child)

          They're not ALL like that.....some of them are 40 pounds heavier too.

          [–]resnine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          In the pictures this girl looks just a little heavy. Kinda like pleasantly plump. I am fine with that. I don't like stick women. Any who, she tells me her weight and... well... she weights more than me! I type her height and weight into an online calculator, she is overweight. Her pictures are deceptive af.

          [–]ronalddrump69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

          Yeah.. went to a date to movies, I showed up, was 10 minutes late, so she bought the tickets already. In real life she was so fucking skinny, no ass or tits. When I arrived I was like.. damn is that her? Still went on the date because she paid for the tickets but I told her straight after the date that it was not gonna work out and she understood, sweet girl. I deleted Tinder one week ago, not for that reason but online dating is just a waste of time nowadays.

          [–]ColmM36 0 points1 point  (2 children)

          Had a date on tinder once who was an easy 8 outta 10 in the pics. Couldn't believe it. Thicc booty and pretty face, narrow waist, curly dark hair and blue eyes.

          Picked her up the next day. The suspension in my car was damaged on her side after she got in.

          She wasn't a land whale but she an easy 30 or 40 pounds gained since the pics, still had a pretty face. She was cool too but I couldn't get over the fact that she basically catfished me. Texted my buddy to ring and say he needs me for something urgently, only because she was actually pretty funny and had a personality, I didn't wana just tell her to gtfo.

          Blocked her on all media platforms tho.

          [–]resnine[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

          Picked her up the next day. The suspension in my car was damaged on her side after she got in.

          Joking, right?

          [–]ColmM36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          Yeah, just to emphasise the shock I got when this chubbster appeared where my fine thang shudda been

          [–]Kabuki431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          haaah welcome to the real world. Its not just face and shit. Women literally upload pics from when they were in high school. And have the audacity to call men liars.

          Fake filters, fake pictures, fake body, fake locations. And you want a real man. YEAH FUCKING RIGHT

          [–]chim_city 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          Those filters man.... the one with the dog ears, dog nose, and whiskers... they also make the skin look like porcelain....

          Those selfie's are crazy misleading and make average girls look way better. So misleading.

          Has anyone else actually gone on a date to find out the girl is a mutant?

          Everyone who has ever done online dating, so yeah, a few of us.

          [–]Zanford 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          Watch a few online makeup tutorials (just skip around from beginning to end, or find before/after pictures). It's pure wizardry.

          [–]soskrood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          How many girls are lying about what they look like?

          All of them. Why do you think the makeup / fashion industries exist? The whole point is to sell you a lie.

          [–]DeontologicalSanders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          Meh. Women have been masking/inflating their real value in the name of catching dick for eons. Makeup, jewelry, hair-styling, expensive clothing, high heels,This is just the newest version of that.

          The really tough pill to swallow is the fact that a man's time has zero value to a woman. She simply doesn't give a fuck that you spent 2 hours texting her and another hour arranging for and traveling to a meet-up, only to find out the hard way that she's a disgusting ham-planet. It isn't her time, so it's not important to her. In her mind, even the chance that you would get to meet her and enjoy the pleasure of her company should be more than enough reward for you. Bitch, I make 35 bucks an hour; your fat ass owes me $105.

          Solipsism at its finest.

          [–]1atticusfinch1973 0 points1 point  (1 child)

          Women are experts at this. Just back out if you think she's hideous and make something up. She was stupid to post that picture.

          I learned a long time ago that if they don't show their body it means they're fat. If they don't know any decent face shots it means they have bad acne etc.

          [–]resnine[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

          Yep, even then though. This gal sent me pictures of her body, looked good, thick in a good way. Then she tells me her height and weight, I calculate, she is overweight. So I have a girl who is overweight, looks like a mutant, has hsv1 and two active strands, is late twenties and lives with her parents. This girl has some high-mileage and a lot of body damage.