Do I tell him the truth, lie, or ignore? (self.asktrp)

submitted by Jenk3383

Out with a girl I'm dating and her married sister this weekend. Sister is a model and she was hammered so, naturally, she was getting hit on all night. She hit it off with some guy and she went home with him.

Her husband saw some texts and an uber receipt to some random address late at night. She gave him some bullshit story and said I would vouch for her. I don't know the husband and I barely know the wife. My instinct is to just ignore his calls but the dude is relentless. Do I lie for her or blow up their marriage?

[–]chachaChad 211 points212 points  (21 children)

Blow it up. Why help her shit on this guy? You didn't do anything wrong.

[–]TryhardPantiesON 107 points108 points  (16 children)

We as men have to support each other, tell the husband what happened and let all of this blow on that bitch's face.

[–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen 43 points44 points  (14 children)

No we don't. Still doesn't mean you have to protect that hoe though.

[–]FlyingSexistPig 14 points15 points  (3 children)

You'll help another man if he isn't the competition. At least I hope you will. You're not a little bitch, are you?

[–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen 2 points3 points  (1 child)

LOL. You little fuckers are adorable.

[–]Spunkdiver 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You know why we're in this mess to begin with, right? Lack of shaming abhorrent behavior. A good crucifixion will put up a good example for the friends and your date as well.

[–]ElCthuluIncognito -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not my crew, not my problem

[–]causeandcorrelation 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed. The competition will always be the competition. When the pupil is ready the teacher will be available. Ie the red pill; teaches how to compete. There will always be the fineline between letting men fail on their merits within gynocentrism and letting a competitor back onto the game. It's a courtesy to let him know. Not every cad is required to be the paragon of anothers relationship. Though were a man is trying to protect his life, it is courteous to help, not required. The game remains.

[–]RPBulletDodger 8 points9 points  (0 children)


Only a bloopie beta white knight would vouch for this bitch.

It was none of your business up until the drunk cunt made it your business, and as for her sister that you're (fingers crossed) fucking, she had better not be anything more than a plate.

[–]AfterC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd tell the dude, OP. Not because you have any malice. But because its funny AF. She's probably done it before, too.

[–]Cookiest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely agree

[–]jackandjill22 0 points1 point  (0 children)


[–]tacko276 115 points116 points  (6 children)

I vote blow it up. It's fucked up that they put you in this situation in the first place.

[–]TrenGod37 17 points18 points  (4 children)

He's not in anything. If he responses then he is.

Ignore it. Go about your own shit. If you see him in person say something. Otherwise. Don't get involved

[–]tacko276 22 points23 points  (3 children)

I don't disagree. But damn the fact that they are asking him to cover is pretty fucked up

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222 34 points35 points  (1 child)

It's for this reason I would say something. If you hadn't involved me I wouldn't say a word, throwing me under the bus to lie for you without consulting me first? Fuck that and fuck you.

[–]TrenGod37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who gives a shit tho OP said he barely knows them.

I'd say I'm not getting involved in that shit show. And wouldn't say shit unless he came up to me

[–]TrenGod37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is but that's not his problem.

[–]ioncehadsexinapool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True. If he covers he's just enabling her fucking bullshjt

[–]GuestsGetGreens 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Blow it up. She threw you into her drama by saying you'll vouch for her. That's bullshit.

[–]Modbsutansalt 51 points52 points  (8 children)

One option is to drop truths while giving yourself an out:

She went home with some guy. I was pretty buzzed at the time and I didn't think anything of it as I assumed it was a friend of the family or whatever. Although now that I think of it, um... I'll shut up now...

Gives him enough info the paint an accurate picture, and is just weasely enough to get out of any hot water the gf might throw at you.

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev 33 points34 points  (6 children)

I agree with this, but, really, homeboy already knows he just doesn't want to admit that he knows...that's why he's blowing up the OP's phone.

[–]_MysticFox 2 points3 points  (4 children)

Lots of us have been there. It isn't as clear as you make it out to be. Give the dude a hand, why not

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev 1 point2 points  (3 children)

Give the dude a hand, why not

Because it's not my business to police someone else's marriage. As I get older, I see increasing wisdom in the "Somebody Else's Problem" approach, and that bitch is definitely Somebody Else's Problem. You may think that you are Striking Back in the Name of JUSTICE!TM but really, there's no good that can come of this on your end.

Do what you want, but as for me, I don't need to inject myself into someone else's drama. If you do talk to the guy, then you are "Joe Friday" and it's "Just the facts". She was with you from x o'clock to y o'clock and you didn't see her after that. She has to be pretty desperate to try and get you to cover for her without asking you first - evidently the husband doesn't trust the sister AT ALL - so she's down to her last strike anyway.

And let this be a lesson to the younger guys. The husband in the case thought he'd "won" when he married a model. Now he's trying to convince himself she's not a ho' by calling up guys he doesn't know, hoping they will give him the "right" answer.

[–]_MysticFox 0 points1 point  (2 children)

You don't think the guy would've returned the favor somehow?

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev 0 points1 point  (1 child)

You don't think the guy would've returned the favor somehow?

How, exactly? Nobody is ever grateful to someone for giving them bad news. This is so common that we have a saying about it: "don't kill the messenger."

[–]_MysticFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't think of bringing bad news to someone in that way. I'm probably doing that in my regular interactions too. If you're always supposed to bring good vibes doesn't that become overwhelming sometimes for both the giver and the receiver? You always have a positive spin on things so it could get annoying

[–]RPmatrix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but, really, homeboy already knows he just doesn't want to admit that he knows...that's why he's blowing up the OP's phone.


[–]TrenGod37 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'd say use this but ONLY if you see him in person. Like I said before. Otherwise. Ignore it

[–]jb_trp 44 points45 points  (0 children)

We need to call people out on their shitty behavior. Sadly, women often get a pass from society for a variety of things. Don't be a beta white knight and tell it to her husband straight. He asked you as a man, you tell him as a man. Covering for this woman only enables her BS.

[–]fitalt47 43 points44 points  (1 child)

Are you a liar? A man is asking you for the truth, what are you going to give him?

[–]Aptote 11 points12 points  (0 children)

for sure, give the man the truth

[–]SoloAlbum 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Please tell him. He already knows in the back of his mind, and he's going to find out eventually anyways. Save the dude some time and heartache by jump-starting the inevitable.

[–][deleted] 21 points22 points  (27 children)

She didn't even asked you, right?

What if you were in the place of the husband? Wouldn't you be interested in the truth about your lovely wife? Wouldn't you like to have the chance to look for a better woman if you knew your current one is not worth your unique time?

Tell him the truth.

Also, the girl you are dating is involved. So, you should observe her actions closely. What is her opinion on this? Could be a big reg flag.

[–]Jenk3383[S] 42 points43 points  (26 children)

My girl is encouraging me to lie. Big red flag indeed.

[–]zboo1h 35 points36 points  (3 children)

Begin preparations for departure. You are in a relationship with someone who will stab you in the back at the very first opportunity that benefits them.

[–]wanderer779 21 points22 points  (2 children)

blackmail the model to fuck you. then break up with the gf. Then tell the husband anyway.

[–]SiulaGrande 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YOOOOO this guy is smart, i'd for sure do this if i didnt give a shit about my relationship with any of them

[–]Chemlab187 12 points13 points  (3 children)

Had a similar situation. My wife and my friends wife went out while he and I went fishing. Next day my wife tells me that they met up with friends wife's new boyfriend at bar, and that I cant tell him.

I told him that same day. He didn't believe me until the following week when he caught them together.

We both got divorced shortly thereafter.

[–]StudntRdyTeachrApear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is why I still lurk. You can never be reminded enough...

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's exactly why I told OP to soften his seriousness with his girl.

[–]zboo1h 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good on you lad.

[–]8008bumbs 3 points4 points  (3 children)

Red Flag? For all women being the same? I wouldn't say make preparations for departure, just let this be a reminder that THIS is what women do. You should never forget it and assume she will be gone tomorrow anyway.

Also I just noticed something kinda interesting, almost everyone here thinks you should tell the guy what happened (so do I) because its helping a fellow man. But your girlfriend is telling you to lie, I'm sure her friend is telling her to. So the girl is trying to help the other girl. Its just how it works.

I wouldn't immediately assume that she would cheat because of what she is saying. Judge her by her actions not her words. Tell the man the truth and see what your girlfriend does after that.

There is a high probability that she will respect you more for doing the right thing even when she is saying do the opposite. If she gets genuinely butt hurt, then judge her, that is the red flag.

Edit: Keep us updated!!

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    [–]8008bumbs 0 points1 point  (1 child)

    Why would you even waste everyones time replying with that?

    [–]failingtheturingtest 4 points5 points  (1 child)

    This is more important. She encourages unfaithfulness and lying. It's going to blow up either way. You might as well set your boundaries and make it crystal fucking clear.

    If it were me, I'd tell my gf I will cover for them. Tell her to arrange for us to meet (him, his wife, my gf and me). I would then ignore the man and the wife and explain to my girlfriend in front of both of them that asking me to lie for her friend to cover up her bullshit story is abhorrent. I detest dishonesty and trying to include me on a scheme to cover up what I can only assume is infidelity is not only fucking stupid (and I don't date stupid people), but makes a mockery of my own standards. If they want to cover up the fact that his wife hit it off with another man and went home with him, they should have asked someone else. Then leave.

    It does him the favour of putting it out there in a way that is fucking hard to deny. And gives the slut no time to prepare a cover story. There a few times when I feel that burning bridges is worth it, but when I do, I make sure to napalm them.
    Crush your enemy, absolutely.

    [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    "There a few times when I feel that burning bridges is worth it, but when I do, I make sure to napalm them.
    Crush your enemy, absolutely."

    Gold. Saved. Thanks.

    [–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (4 children)

    Oh damn sorry man. How is the status? Serious or "just" a plate? Do you have another bitch on the side as a backup?


    With the new info you provided there is more or less "another option":

    You don't need to tell him now... You lie about the sister and more importantly you NEVER ever under ANY circumstances promote the girl you are dating. You are just casually dating/fucking. There is no exclusivity and never will be. She will lie to your face and she will backup that with the help of her sister.

    After several weeks passed, you should definitely hook up with her sister. Both of them are not playing by the rules and so are you.

    [–]Jenk3383[S] 2 points3 points  (3 children)

    Getting serious but I've been treading carefully. Pretty sure there was some overlap between our current relationship and her previous boyfriend.

    [–][deleted] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

    Your instincts and your gut are already on alarm-mode. Give yourself some spare time and reframe your relationship.

    [–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

    Either of the red flags you've mentioned would be enough for me to demote her to plate tbh

    [–]Questionnaire7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    Think with the head on your shoulders

    [–]RPmatrix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    My girl is encouraging me to lie.

    of course, it's her sister

    Big red flag indeed.

    Indeed it is ... This is a classic example of the RP saying as she's not your girl, it's just your turn

    [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (5 children)

    That's pretty weird.

    I mean I'd just ignore the dude.

    Not your problem and I see no upside to getting involved.

    [–]third-eye-brown 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    Principles. Don't lie and compromise your principles to cover some hoe's ass.

    [–]sixseven89 0 points1 point  (1 child)

    you gain the trust of the husband

    [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    He doesn't know him. And most likely will never. Since that dude is either a pussy or will be not with the girl anymore.

    [–]htbf 0 points1 point  (1 child)

    How is it weird? Cheating girl lying and her sister lying for her is weird?

    [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    No a guy you don't know blowing up your phone while you're supposed to be covering for some goofy girl you barely know.

    [–]LordThunderbolt 17 points18 points  (4 children)

    Ask her for money if she wants you to cover for her. You don't know the bitch like that, she can never be your true friend anyway. Tell her you'll play along for $400.

    [–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

    This guy knows what's up. "For 1,000 and some pussy, I'll say whatever you want me to say."

    [–]Pluglord 2 points3 points  (0 children)


    [–]RPmatrix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Ask her for money if she wants you to cover for her. You don't know the bitch like that, she can never be your true friend anyway. Tell her you'll play along for $400.

    haha! That's a wonderfully creative and brutal solution! everybody gets what they deserve! lol +10!

    [–]BlueBlus 33 points34 points  (0 children)

    She made her own choices and decided to ask you to lie.

    Its ultimately up to you.

    [–]Gerstlauer 10 points11 points  (0 children)

    You're already involved.

    Blow that shit up in the woman's face. If she hadn't involved you, I'd say stay clear, but she's dropped you in it, and expects you to lie for her.

    [–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

    Blow it up. Don't tell me you're actually considering furthering some hypergamous snake's lie. Have some self-respect and show her she's not entitled to making other people wade through her own shit. How the hell are you considering being her puppet?

    [–]TRP VanguardWhisper 11 points12 points  (0 children)

    Don't bro knight.

    Also don't lie for strangers.

    If asked, here's what you say.

    "No, that's not what I saw."

    "No, I'm not gonna say what. You wanna know, you ask your wife. Then you check her story. But I'm not gonna get involved. "

    [–]bob13bob 14 points15 points  (2 children)

    i'm one of the pro morality guys on here, so always push honesty. In your case you have another reason, making you cover for her devalues and borderline disrespectful with you.

    [–]third-eye-brown 2 points3 points  (1 child)

    This exactly. Lying devalues you as a person. Man up and act according to your principles and deal with the consequences.

    [–]wont_tell_i_refuse 6 points7 points  (1 child)

    The real winner in this story is the "some guy". Lift and maintain frame and you can be that guy night after night.

    [–]eaeulis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    the truth

    [–]Docbear64 4 points5 points  (0 children)

    Normally I'd say it was none of your business but she made it your business when she said you'd vouch for her. I'd tell the truth , stupid move on the chicks part.

    [–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

    "oh she is married?"

    [–]Gotterdammerung1488 4 points5 points  (0 children)

    Blow it up and ghost the stupid whore's sister too because obviously this is a family of stupid slutty bitches.

    [–]InformalCriticism 4 points5 points  (0 children)

    This is kind of an off topic question; you're asking for moral license from a group of guys who have come together with the understanding that the best way to learn about attraction is to treat it with cold, calculated amorality.

    That being said, the amoral thing is to remain neutral. You don't need to do this chick a favor, and you don't need to do her husband a favor.

    If you want to do your bro a solid, yeah, tell him. If you can somehow somehow work this into a future lay with his model wife, work your magic.

    All said and done, if you're asking what we each would individually do, fuck this girl's life up. She shouldn't be married if she's not done riding dick, and that dude doesn't deserve to be tethered to something that is more likely to bring him herpes than any sense of joy in life.

    Just do whatever you want man.

    [–]zboo1h 4 points5 points  (0 children)

    If she hadn't dragged you into it I'd say leave it alone.

    Blow her the fuck up.

    [–]TheBiss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    It's just your integrity at stake... do with it as you please...

    [–]flam3srock 3 points4 points  (0 children)

    If you lie you're an accessory to her cheating. Either ignore, or tell him the facts as you know them - that her story is bullshit, she went home with some guy. If your girl gets upset drop her. Don't lie for pussy.

    [–]IGiveFantasticAdvice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    I tend to move towards the "this isn't my problem" camp, but the sister has just made it your problem. Blow it up, but first dump your current GF and let her know it is because she condones this shit and will probably do the same to you given the chance. She'll probably leave you anyway once you out her shitty sister.

    This isn't a family you want to be involved in.

    [–]TrenGod37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    Ignore it. If you barley know both. Don't get involved.

    Don't stick your nose in shit.

    [–]askmrcia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    I would tell the truth. Fuck it.

    Just say you saw her leave with some guy. You wasn't sure why the guy was, but it looked to you that they may have well each other. . Not sure where they went but you just assumed he dropped her off home or something. Leave it at that.

    [–]Bear-With-Bit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Understand the first rule of communication: If you reply, you continue the conversation.

    [–]TheDreadnought1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Tell him the truth. She involved you in it without asking and the guy is asking you the truth, why cover up that whorish behavior of a slut? Just so you can get a few more dates with her huge red flagish sister?

    If the guy has any balls whatsoever, he may drop her and even try to be friends with you. And I'd prefer a good friend than a hoe, anyday

    [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Generally you can only lose by getting involved in other people's business like this.

    If you do tell him you have to be ready to end your own relationship because it's highly likely you will be blamed for leaking this info.

    From a personal perspective you gain nothing by doing this, but if you want to help this guy out then be ready to pay for it.

    [–]trpjnf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Tell him. Also be careful of the girl you're dating, apple doesn't fall far from the tree

    [–]sixseven89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    why the fuck would you lie for her?

    said I would vouch for her

    Throw her the fuck under the bus.

    [–]Greekzack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Tell the husband. Update us also. :)

    [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Would you want someone to tell you if you were the married sisters husband?

    She is trash, let him know.

    [–]suxxos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Say you were drunk and don't remember anything. Geez, this is none of your business.

    [–]drqxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)


    If you were the husband would you want to know?

    [–]Unlucky_Leader 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    This is a harder path, it will be tougher. The advice is blowing it up, that means that a loud explosion is going to happen (yelling). A building may collapse (marriage). Personally, I think you should pick one and stick the fuck to it. Just choose...either lie like it's the most important lie or blow it up like it is the most important thing, be active and good luck.

    [–]kasper138 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Tell him the truth. You didn't go with her therefore you don't even know what did or did not happen. Assume he's his friend. "yea she got a ride to your friends house, that's all i really remember."

    [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Do it to hurt her, not to help him

    [–]CuntyMcFagNuts69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Blow this fucker up.

    [–]Mudpielol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    I don't lie for people I don't know.

    [–]Spunkdiver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Why would you lie for that hoe?

    [–]Kommanderdude 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Don't be a bitch dude. If your gf is cool with her married sister whoring it up then she willl have no problem whoring it up herself. Tell the dude the truth. Blow that shit up and move on with life. Never vouch for a bitch.

    [–]omega_dawg93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    op, do what you have to do, but if YOUR DATE is quiet about her MARRIED sister's behavior and provides cover for her...

    what makes you think the married sister isn't helping your girl collect extra cum? those two sisters are likely slutting it up, big time... seems like standard protocol if she's going home with STRANGERS.

    [–]Phaz30n3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    And KaBOOM!!!

    [–]SocietalEngineering 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    How useful is the sister to you? You do her this favor, you can leverage it in the future. What do you need her for?

    [–]neuronpulse2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Tell your girlfriend you have to tell the guy the truth because you'd want another man to do the same for you and its just fucked up to lie to his face etc. then tell the guy what you know, then see how your girlfriend reacts. If she's pissed and breaks up with you, you're better off like others are saying, shows her character if she's gonna leave you for being an honest man and lookin out for another man she's not someone you should want to keep around (for anything serious anyway.) If some miracle happens and she understands why you did what you did and sees it as a sign of your character and thinks more highly of you because of it, she may be worth another shot. Any girl who condemns you for telling the truth about a cheating situation is bad news. I'm a girl and I have four sisters and I can't imagine even considering lying if this happened and my sisters husband or boyfriend asked me straight up if my sister cheated. No way in hell I could out-right say no and I sure as hell wouldn't tell my fiancé to lie. She's more than likely bad news.

    I know y'all don't typically like girls commenting here ...hope I didn't break any rules I just couldn't help but chime in.

    Also, she's the one who blew up her marriage already, you're just saving them a lot of wasted time and energy trying to save something that's never going to be the same again anyway. Like some others said, he will find out, or she will do it again, or she will break cause of her guilty conscience.

    [–]asktrpthrow123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    I think you have your answer from most of the other responses. But just an FYI and fair warning to you, I hope you're not taking the girl you're dating seriously after this.

    Birds of a feather...

    [–]stro85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Men have honor. Tell the truth but not before you dump your gf. She is probably the same way.

    [–]Aptote 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    tell the dude the truth

    you are not blowing up their marriage

    [–]Oftowerbroleaning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    If the sister you're dating is condoning this run like fuck after you tell him.

    [–]linso28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Think about karma man.. If you lie, dont be surprised if something like this will hit you back one day.

    [–]FlyingSexistPig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    I would tell another man the truth. He deserves it.

    [–]GunsGermsAndSteel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Tell the truth and you may gain a friend for life.

    Lie, and you'll gain a "friend" every time she needs something from you.

    EDIT: if you don't have the balls to tell him the truth, I'll do it. Just give me his number, I'll call him.

    [–]jetpuffedpanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Fuckin' plant the mine and watch it explode. No one deserves a cheating partner. Save him before he loses everything.

    [–]PurpleDrank88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Agree with the other commenters who said that the minute they asked you to lie, they made it your business. If they hadn't involved you then I would have said it's not worth saying anything and getting involved. But they're asking you to blatantly lie to a married man and tell him that his wife isn't cheating on him. That's fucked up and if they want to involve you in that manner then they should incur the consequences

    [–]1oldredder 0 points1 point  (0 children)


    It's not your business to inform men of their cheating women but it is your business not to vouch for a cheating bitch.

    If you have to speak to him you can say, honestly, you refuse to vouch for her and you want no part of their issues.

    [–]128bitworm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Blow it up coz it's the right thing to do.

    [–]nabosch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Don't lie on behalf of a cheating bitch, your honor is worth more. This guy will be hurt, probably already is seeing the receipts and all, ease his mind and help him in his decision. He'll thank you later.

    [–]krick3t 0 points1 point  (1 child)

    If you blow her sister up, you blow your relationship up. Who cares if she's slutting if up?

    [–]failingtheturingtest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Who cares about a relationship with a slit that wants you to lie for her cheating friend?

    [–]Endorsed Contributorleftajar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Well, let's consider the moral and the practical.

    Moral: don't lie for this woman. Or, in other words, do not allow some random ass no-morals-having ho to compromise YOUR morals.

    Practical: not worth getting involved in. Giant shit-show, ticket for one?

    I'd recommend to just ghost the whole situation.

    [–]GreenPiller -2 points-1 points  (1 child)

    Nope. You are about to open a huge can of worms.

    [–]empatheticapathetic -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    True. Ain't nobody got time for drama. Especially someone else's drama.

    Everyone's emotional reactions here are tell the dude, but he's not your dude. You don't know him. Just stay out of it.

    [–]SeamusAwl -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    "Um. I am sorry, what was the lie she told you again?"

    "Yeah, i was drunk and focused on her sister but i think that happened"

    [–]Bigspartandaddy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    Vouch for her, but find another way to tell him the truth. Maybe annonymusly. You shouldn't be carrying the burden of dishonesty but you don't have to loose the trust of neither of your date and her sister.

    [–]EGOtyst -2 points-1 points  (1 child)

    Depends on how much you value the relationship with the chick you're dating.

    [–]Thizzlebot 3 points4 points  (0 children)

    lol OP is going to be fucked down the line since the sister is a tramp and they are both liars. It's not going to end well and this was the easy way of seeing that she's like that without OP having to have it happen to him which it will.

    [–]1anonlymouse -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

    Just ignore. No answer is also an answer. He'll eventually figure it out. If you blow it up, he ends up screwed, because of no fault divorce. Let him slowly figure it out he can possibly prepare for a divorce on his terms.

    [–]marianasentmenudes -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

    They got kids?