Why do girls end up going on a dick/hookup spree with other guys after they are dropped/ghosted by their “chad?” (self.asktrp)

submitted by Joeatomic

What’s up guys, I’m currently a sophmore in highschool and I ended up ghosting this one chick (HB:8/10) who had serious oneitis for me. I ended up finding out she hooked up with one of my friends (SMV 4.5/10) several times and is now trying to get back with her ex LMAO. I just wonder why do they go on “whore mode” after not being able to get their oneitis, and will even hook up with low value men?

[–]wawakaka 57 points58 points  (12 children)

how a woman feels about herself is based on the people around her. so when she gets dumped she feels flawed and she will seek out any way to feel better about herself and usually its drinking and sex. sex is an easy way for women to self medicate because for women, sex is everywhere and she can get it as easy as ordering a pizza.

[–]blister333 5 points6 points  (11 children)

Which is funny cause if it’s so easy for them, why do they value it?

[–]MillionaireSexbomb 19 points20 points  (8 children)

They value power, and the power choosing who they fuck has over dudes. It’s a tool

[–]wawakaka 5 points6 points  (1 child)

Sex is the only real power women have and they will exploit it...it's their AMEX BLACK CARD

[–]blister333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahah great analogy

[–]Borsao66 72 points73 points  (0 children)

To their credit, women have been sold a line of bullshit too.

After being railed by Chad, she's on her own unicorn search as well, plus having some guy bang her boosts her ego after getting dumped.

[–]1redhawkes 57 points58 points  (3 children)

They use sex as a validation tool.

[–]Morphs_ 5 points6 points  (1 child)

My ex literally did this. 23yo with an N count > 60. Guess her poor upbringing made her crave a lot of validation.

[–]Rhynocobear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second this interpretation. Makes them feel like you are wrong for leaving, because clearly they are good enough. Very similar to why men do it.

[–]FlyingSexistPig 19 points20 points  (1 child)

Because they crave the validation that sex gives them. Sex with a lower value guy isn't as satisfying, so they need more of it to get that same feeling they'd get with Chad.

It's pure addiction behavior.

Ever play a video game, lose, and want to play again just so you get the high from winning? But if you won the first time, you'd just be done and go do something else? Same pattern.

[–]Borsao66 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There's more to this excellent analogy.


[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I just wonder why do they go on “whore mode” after not being able to get their oneitis, and will even hook up with low value men?


[–]Two_kids_in_a_coat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Same reason we go on a pussy spree. It took me 11 chicks to get over my oneitis.

[–]Morphs_ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I guess that's their female version of GFTOW. In the end, women want sex just as men. Sometimes it's in the form of quality, other times in the form of quantity.

[–]gorilla_bro 5 points6 points  (1 child)

young and dumb.

[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

...snd broke high school kids.

[–]StickguyMB 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's funny how they'll use a bunch of sex for validation, yet they still manage to be picky and chosey.

I guess they just have so many guys to chose from.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty self explanatory

[–]Rollo_Mayhem3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

quite frankly, who's cares? The fact that you are thinking about this is suggestive... you jealous possibly? Next.

[–]inhiarashi 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Doesn't sound like she's doing all that much whoring around.

She banged someone that's probably been in the wings waiting for quite awhile and jumped on the opportunity and then she didn't have anyone else [because she's a social tool] so she went back to the ex.

Sounds like she doesn't know many people so she went where she trusts without fear of letting strangers in.

Most people live in a little bubble with only a few dozen different people. Smaller the bubble, the less of a whore a woman tends to be.

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    [–]inhiarashi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Quality hurts women more than men I think. She will bang him till a better branch comes along to swing to.

    Depending on how available she seems it might never happen. Some women go back and forth between two men for awhile, until one of the men loses interest.

    Again it matters how social she becomes. Most people are naturally distrusting of new people, so it is more difficult to find a new branch to swing to.

    [–]1walawalawa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Here's a story that puts it into perspective.

    Two girls I ghosted continue to hang out at places i go to. In both cases it's 100% ghosting---nothing, walked away never contacted.

    They constantly try to get my attention---in one case the girl tries to hit on my friend.

    My friend trolls me by dancing with her. Then laughing saying "You're still in love with her! Hahahah" kind of thing.

    No, but when I ghost someone I don't want to be reminded of them in any way.

    So i leave. That's the point. They want validation of some kind...ANY kind.

    [–]Mintyytea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Are these commenters all women? Cuz if they're not, don't listen to them because they can't read people's minds. Saying how a woman feels about herself is ___ because women are __, __ creatures is dumb if you're a man who's never been a woman.