I'm on a throwaway for obvious reasons.
My girlfriend went away with her friend to east asia over the last month. We've been dating for about 4 months and she made the plans before we started dating. I was skeptical about letting her go but she has proven to be trustworthy as far as i can tell.
Last week she sends me a fb message saying that something has happened to her. In the following days she trickled out information about her being in the hospital and needing to fly home. I call her today and she tells me that she has been raped. She says that a british man (we're UK as well) spiked her drink when she was out. She says that she was talking to a group of them and her friend was busy wheeling another guy so she was isolated. She tells me that she woke up in her room at the hostel the next morning (they were in his room staying at the same hostel). I ask her if she is going to press charges and she tells me that it would be too traumatic and she wont (red flag). She has had a rape kit performed back home. I'm not sure how to proceed with this one and trp has been an important source of guidance for me over the last year so I was hoping some of you could help.