Moved into a place a week 1/2 ago with a Chinese female roommate. Thanks to TRP, I'm pulling more girls than I ever have before, and brought one back to the apartment last night. We fuck for a little over an hour or so and by the end it's 4AM due to the time change, and then I get this the next morning:
"As a roommate, i feel uncomfortable about you bringing dates back to our apartment. I hope that is not asking too much. Like I am ok if you bring a friend over to hang out. If you are considering starting a relationship and bringing your gf over we should also talk about that and have a meet and greet or something. I am not trying to dictate or judge at all, I just want to let you know my expectations and if it's different from yours, then we need to resolve it. :) "
Now keep in mind that her boyfriend was also there this weekend, and it's expected that he'll be there 1-2 times a month, so expecting me to never have anyone over is a bit hypocritical.
Right now I'm planning to sit down with her and go over what my expectations are, which are that I take full responsibility for anybody I bring over to the apartment and into my room. I'm ok with setting a cutoff time for fucking, but I'll be damned if I'm going to put my newly-burgeoning sex life on hold because it makes her feel "uncomfortable." Women trying to control men's sexuality. Fuck that noise.
UPDATE: All she basically had to say was that she didn't like have random people over at a frequent rate. I told her that's how dating is these days, and made no promise that I would decrease the frequency at which I'm seeing girls. All that got was a "well, I need to sit and think about how I feel about this." By the end of the conversation, she conceded not to have a hardline stance on "no girls" coming back. When I said I would take full responsibility for who I bring back, that seemed to ease things. I suspect it may be she just doesn't like that type of lifestyle and/or is jealous that she isn't getting any on the same degree of frequency, so I think this probably won't be the last of it.
I did say that I would only use our place as a last resort and would be more considerate about noise/how late I'm having girls over. Had a long talk with her afterward about relationships and her career, situated myself as more of a friend and built some rapport with her. Sounds like she's going to be single soon anyway, so then the shoe may be on the other foot. We talked for awhile about life, relationships, and career. She was telling me about her old ex-boyfriend who was "perfect" and would've said yes if he had proposed. I asked her why it ended- "we weren't intimate anymore." Pook was right, perfect is boring. Current BF is a betabux that lives in SF- he came down and visited the past weekend and I saw him just sitting on the bed in her room while she was on the computer.
TLDR: Going to keep bringing girls back, told her i'd let her know if i'm doing so and would take responsibility of them and not be fucking too loudly at too late of hours. It likely isn't 100% resolved. Probably not gonna renew the lease with her at the end of the year though if we make it that long.