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My girlfriend of 1 year cheated on me. Where do I go from here? (self.asktrp)

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Hi AskTRP..

Both me and my girlfriend are 19. We've been together for one year now, it's been pretty good and it was quite serious (she's moved down to where I live for University (or at least she will be moving down in just 1 week))

However yesterday morning I get a text off of somebody telling me that she's cheated. I confront her and she comes clean and tells me it was a one-time thing which she regretted immediately. She says her ex boyfriend showed up at her door one day and kissed her when she answered, she says she kissed back and they went to her room and fucked.

The second I heard this, she got blocked off everything and all the passwords to things we share (such as Netflix, Spotify etc) were changed.

She's been creating fake accounts the past two days now trying to get in touch with me. This doesn't bother me too much because I can just block them.

The thing is, I'm hurt like hell right now, it's probably not very "alpha" but I'm hurt and I'm upset and I'm angry and it sucks.

Right now I'm at work, alone and wishing I could catch a break for once. (Not after a pity party, life's just been absolutely shit to me and I've had to fight and claw harder than most 19 year olds could imagine just to get anywhere close to a normal life)

I don't really know what to do, I feel crazy upset and angry and I don't really want to be at work right now. But I don't want to be laying around at home just moping about either.

I guess on the bright side she has to deal with 4 years of living in my town and who doesn't know a single person now.

Sorry for my rambling anyway, I just needed to type this somewhere and maybe ask for advice, this isn't the kind of thing you can tell your friends about. It hardly looks good to them if you've been cheated on. I think If anyone says "hey what happened to your girlfriend?" I'll just shrug and say "didn't work out"

Anyways, does anyone have any advice on what I can do to feel better and maybe get back on track? How do I deal with her when she messages me next?


[–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen 101 points102 points  (15 children)

If you cut a rotting limb off, the stub will hurt in the beginning and you will also have phantom pain every now and then for the rest of your life.

However it still was the right thing to cut it off before it kills you.

Allow yourself to feel hurt, even mourn her for the next one or two weeks, but suck it up then.

Congratulations for having more courage than many other people, especially your age have. Try to canalize the pain into something useful like shredding it at the gym.

As for her, just keep ignoring her. She is craving your attention now and the less she gets it, the more it will drive her crazy. Understand that nothing else will make her go nuts as completely withdrawing yourself from her. Bath a little bit in knowing that you are giving her back a little bit of her own medicine.

Also read this: http://a.trp.red/4d

[–][deleted] 15 points16 points  (9 children)

I've been lifting already for a few years (I'm almost 200lbs now! Almost smashed my goal!) but I think I'll use the anger and raw emotion now to absolutely kill it at the gym (Gonna get that Jinder Mahal transformation haha)

Thanks for the advice, I'm going to keep ignoring her and hopefully she'll see me when she moves down here in the street or up town and thinks "Oh fuck I made a mistake losing him"

Will get onto reading that now, thanks for the advice :)

[–]obama_loves_nsa 14 points15 points  (1 child)

After a while you'll stop caring if you see her again. You'll also score a much hotter babes later too.

If you could pick the hottest chick on earth and bang her what does she look like? You'll land those types soon and forget you were ever with this one.

Enjoy the ride. Also enjoy not being forever attached to a cheating pile of dog shit when you could have blindly been cucked for life raising another mans bastards

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's exactly it, I plan on doing better the more life advances.

I'm glad I got out when I did, it could have been much worse. (Like you said, another mans bastard)

[–]LordThunderbolt 7 points8 points  (6 children)

Whatever happens, DO NOT talk to her or think you can get even by pumping and dumping her one last time. Just move on with your life

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's the plan, I'm going to just keep on ignoring her, blocking her and forgetting about her, her loss.

[–]Jazpur -2 points-1 points  (4 children)

Why is pump and dump bad? Just curious for the future if it ever comes to it.

[–]LordThunderbolt 4 points5 points  (2 children)

Because you're giving her attention again.

[–]Jazpur -1 points0 points  (1 child)

yeah but its not the same

[–]LordThunderbolt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's the exact same. By acknowledging her existence you validate everything she stands for and devalue yourself, your time, and your dick in the process. Know your value. The mere thought of putting your dick in that set pile of sewage trash should make you want to vomit.

[–]louiseack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PREACH. Amen. She didn't care about you at the time and If I cared about a guy I'd never even dream of fucking someone else. She doesn't care about you, she cares she can't control the situation. Cut it out

[–]AssDefect20 0 points1 point  (2 children)

You are giving CONSTRUCTIVE,NON PATRONIZING ADVICE?

Wow,I guess I am a pretty positive influence on you.

Feel free to message me if you have additional questions.

[–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Did I shit in your palace or why the hate?

[–]AssDefect20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love you man.

[–]jackandjill22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea.

[–]1walawalawa 21 points22 points  (3 children)

The second I heard this, she got blocked off everything and all the passwords to things we share (such as Netflix, Spotify etc) were changed.

This right here is the perfect Red Pill response.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (2 children)

Glad to hear I got that bit right, I worried I may have dropped frame when she kept making the new accounts to talk to me and I kept telling her to fuck off.

[–]1walawalawa 10 points11 points  (1 child)

No, you held frame. That is just the mark of a crazed woman scorned and unable to be accountable for her fuck-up so needs the validation...or your disappearance to make you out to be the bad guy.

Mine immediately tree-branched to different guys like I would react. Then she blocked and deleted me---probably her way of ensuring in her mind that I couldn't contact her---even though I never tried.

After a 7 month absence she suddenly came out to my club where I was djing---parading orbiter. I ignored, had a blast anyway.

Point is... ghosting the minute she stepped way over the line will always ensure she couldn't have me...

[–]jackandjill22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, great.

[–]refusewool 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You did the right thing by cutting her out of your life. If you ever cross paths with her, don't be mad, be indifferent. Nothing will make you look better than remaining unfazed. As you say, you feel hurt and upset. Whilst this isn't the most 'alpha' reaction, you are young and most likely inexperienced with this kind of thing. Understand why you feel that way but keep your head up when you're out in public. Learn not to over invest and if it ever happens again you will have better control of your emotions.

Edit: Personally, if I ever found out an LTR had been cheating I wouldn't confront her. I would withdraw from her and demote her to a plate at best. Maybe continue to fuck her whilst you find new plates or potential LTRs. Cut things off calmly with no explanation when the time is right.

[–]notmyusualreddit 14 points15 points  (18 children)

You're already off to a great start. The next part you'll be dealing with is trying to not take it as a straight personal hit to the ego. I got cheated on once and started wondering if I could ever stop it from happening again if did this or did that, or became someone high value enough. Reality is, you can't.

Steve McQueen was a rich, famous, good looking with a good body, cool actor and race car driver. And his wife still cheated on him. Johny Carson was rich, famous, good looking for his age, loved by all of America, clever and funny.. and his wife cheated on him.

People are crazy. And especially women are crazy.

Be glad you learned this lesson early. Enjoy the time you get with someone, don't invest more than you're willing to lose, and that's it.

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (17 children)

Thank you, this sort of stuff is really helping.

Would you believe her excuse for cheating was "I regretted it immediately but I realised it was something I had to do to finally get over him!"

I feel like I've not only dodged a bullet, I've dodged a fucking nuclear warhead.

[–]notmyusualreddit 13 points14 points  (10 children)

Shes a weak spontaneous impulsive person. AKA, a woman.

You're going to start getting a lot of heartfelt crying voicemails soon I bet. Don't believe a single word in them. If you look at my post history and sort by top, my #2 post is talking about how my exgf left me a sobbing voicemail for 17 days straight, everyday never missing a day. I later found out she fucked another dude on day 5 and 12 of those voicemails.

Just move on and enjoy your new independence. Having fun with young girls at parties is too much fun to be tied down with one chick when you're 19 anyway.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (9 children)

Thank you, yeah that's the thing, she claims because it was "months and months ago" it doesn't count, and that "it only lasted 1.5 hours at max" - I actually screenshotted most the stuff she said because I'm 99% sure it would go viral, the excuses were that bad.

She was telling me about how she needs me, and how I'm her one, and giving me all that bullshit, my only response was "Well clearly that wasn't going through your head when you brought your ex up to your bedroom" then block.

Poor girl has been making new instagram and snapchat accounts up trying to beg me to talk to her or at least "be her friend"

I've told her I won't be anything to her because I don't have time for her.

Like everyone's said, if I see her in public, I'll nod my head and say hello, I won't act upset or angry or show any form of negative emotion towards her (who would that benefit?)

Same goes for social media, I've nuked all trace of her from my social media and I'll continue to not put anything up that could indicate I'm feeling sad hurt or lonely (again, who does that benefit?) She religiously stalks my social media anyway, probably hitting the refresh button as we speak.

I'll enjoy the independence, I actually have a couple of old plates who would jump at the chance if I hit them up, life is looking good, dodged a bullet! Thanks for all your help and advice :D

[–]dontbedenied 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Man you've got a great attitude. I'm proud of you and you are an inspiration to me. I am still shocked at the things women will say after they cheat. I appreciate these reminders of how AWALT.

[–]LordThunderbolt 2 points3 points  (3 children)

Your social media should always be set on PRIVATE

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

How come? (In terms of the ex-gf, not in terms of security or data)

[–]LordThunderbolt 1 point2 points  (1 child)

All off the above. Nobody needs to know wtf is going on in your life, especially not people you don't even know. Dio you walk around in public talking really loudly about your achievements and what your last meal was? Off course not. Well that's what social media is, it's you broadcasting a bunch of shit that nobody really cares about. The Herbert's advice here is to get off social media and delete your accounts.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The reason I keep my social media (and keep it public) is that it's going to be extremely useful for my career in the future (not my current one, but a hobby I wish to pursue into a career)

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Lol at her thinking that the fucking only lasting 90 minutes is a plus! Yeah she immediately regretted it but went at it for 90 minutes. Geez

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know right? It's crazy the way there minds work...

You realise you've now told me that you spent an hour and a half having a fuck fest with your ex boyfriend.

How can you beg for me back and expect me to get back with you after telling me that?

Good riddance to her, I dodged a bullet.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

This response betrays your original post. So you did maintain contact.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, she kept making new accounts to try and talk to me and each time she'd say something new.

She was promptly blocked each time, pointless listening to someone who cheated

[–]Kellermann 5 points6 points  (1 child)

Regretted my ass. She should have regretted it before she fucked him

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yep, she's clearly just hamstering, she regrets getting caught.

[–]Westernhagen 4 points5 points  (2 children)

Would you believe her excuse for cheating was "I regretted it immediately but I realised it was something I had to do to finally get over him!"

Translation: I regret I got caught and now I'm trying to spin it as "no big deal" so you don't next me.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (1 child)

Oh yeah, completely.

I'd bet good money that she's cheated multiple times on me, and her ex-boyfriends too.

She had the cheek to message me this morning on a new account she'd created asking for the Netflix password.

[–]Perpetual_Protege 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Asking for the password? I'm a lurker here but holy shit. She has quite the audacity. Keep it up man.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women just say anything.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (1 child)

Wow, good on you man. Especially at that age 90% of guys would take her back, or "stay friends". You did the right thing. Don't worry about feeling bad, that just proves you're human. The "Alphas don't care" attitude is sort of bullshit, you'd have to be a psychopath not to care if your LTR was ending, so go ahead and don't feel guilty grieving, but don't let it consume you. After two weeks or so, start forcing yourself to do things when she gets into your mind and it's better if you try not to be alone. Go out with friends a lot right now. I'm proud of you, you'll be fine.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words.

Yeah there was no chance I was taking her back or staying friends with somebody whose cheated on me.

I'm starting to think most of my grieving is done, I'm feeling relatively good again. (Although, I've been with enough girls to know that this is the trick, your emotions are a rollercoaster)

I'm rarely alone these days anyway, I was at the gym yesterday morning even whilst she was explaining to me how she'd cheated on me and how it was a mistake etc. Visited some family members later that day and then finally went out with a few friends for some drinks that night.

Social-life wise, the only time I'll be alone is when I fancy a quiet night in after work and don't feel like being social, so I think for the next few weeks or so, I'm going to go out as often as possible to remind myself that I have friends who care and are a joy to be around and that life is good.

[–]nummas 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well you seem to have handled it well considering. Immediate blocking and such. It's going to hurt for a bit, nothing to be ashamed of there. Just do not contact her or reply to anything she says. Soon enough she will get the hint and leave you alone. You just need to look forward and focus on your future. Go hang with guy friends, focus on work. It will pass.

[–]bonerpotpie 4 points5 points  (2 children)

Good for you bro. You've crossed a river many, many, many of use here have crossed and you did it clean, keeping your respect for yourself.

Just remember, there's a lot of stone cold alphas here (at least self reportedly), don't try to be too cool all the time. Remember you're allowed to mourn the ending of this time in your life, and its okay to feel. TRP doesn't expect robots.

You are not allowed to let those feelings master you, you are to use them to push yourself harder, run faster, take a shot with the next girl, etc.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Yeah that's how I've been kind of looking at it, I've accepted that pain is a natural response to this kind of thing and that it needs to be embraced.

I plan on using this as nothing more than a moment in my life that bettered me and taught me a very valuable lesson.

[–]bonerpotpie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bingo. I came here after splitting up with my wife of 7 years. A few years later I'm thankful for the best lesson I've ever learned.

[–]TheStumblingWolf 3 points4 points  (2 children)

Don't be concerned with "not very alpha". Be concerned with where you are in your journey right now and make the most alpha choices for your future you can. That's all you can do. If you make a choice you regret, just make sure you don't repeat it.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Thanks, that's actually amazing advice, making the most alpha choices you can.

Thanks for that :)

[–]TheStumblingWolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're welcome. The way I see it - people make the best decisions they can at any given point, with the tools they have available. No reason to lament over the past. Just make sure you increase the tools you have for the future if you identify a situation you need a new tool for.

[–]JohnFapWick 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There's nothing wrong with being hurt. You are a human and you had feelings for her. You did the right alpha thing. Recover and fuck another girl. Don't look back.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (1 child)

ahahaha went to her room and fucked LOL that's a 20 minute "accident"

[–]TxnyMontana 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First of all, you're young dear OP, this will happen to you thousand of times so get used to it. At your 19 years old your mind should be in fucking so many hot chicks as you can. Don't get stucked in a LTR yet.

Second, shit happens men and it's ok to feel bad, but as i can see, you're taking this straight. First, you cutted all contact wich is ok, and most people can't do that so you gotta feel proud about it.

My advice? relationships and cheating depends of the point of view. With the right mindset, you will embrace that your path, is not about this girl, or the next one, or the next. It's about you. So start developing skills and a lifestyle wich is attractive not to the girls you date but every girl out there! Lift, read, work, get some cool hobbys. You get the point.

Cheers!

[–]cazzah123 2 points3 points  (5 children)

Just keep reminding yourself, the moment you fuck another girl or 2 you will feel better.

Going back to her, even just sex, makes the process longer.

Best way to get over someone is get under someone else

[–]1oldredder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Best way to get over someone is get under someone else

must be a younger-kid thing. Honestly once you're older it has no such effect.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (3 children)

Already got that in the cards, got 2 plates lined up for this week and will work on a couple more when I'm not busy at work or with friends.

Thanks for the advice, I was quite worried about posting here and I've been met with nothing but help and support.

[–]cazzah123 5 points6 points  (2 children)

Because we all go through it. Even when you think your the baddest red pill alive, some girl comes along and knocks the wind out of your sails.

But this is the difference between men and women.

Women act whatever they feel.

Men look at how they are feeling, acknowledge it, ignore it, and do the right thing.

Right now your feelings want you to call her. But you won't. Because your a man.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (1 child)

Yeah I've definitely noticed that, girls really do tend to live in the moment. Aka "my boyfriend isn't here right now, but Chad is, better fuck him before this opportunity passes"

I'll never be calling or messaging her again, as far as I'm concerned, she had her chance with me and she blew it when she cheated. It's probably very arrogant (and/or) cocky but the way I view it is "I'm the prize" I find that putting the girl on the pedestal only makes it that much more difficult to game, whereas when you put yourself on the pedestal, they seem to be more attracted.

[–]-shamrock- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There is no arrogance in valuing yourself.

I dont know your exact thoughts when you say that you "put yourself on the pedestal". Some people here will go crazy and call themselves uberhumans or gods which is undoubtedly arrogant.

[–]1oldredder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it is alpha to punish betrayal. Just not to do so childishly. Ghosting / blocking is not childish. There was an era when that kind of behaviour got a woman banished for being a whore. She's got it lucky. Or other bad things which obviously we don't do in civil society.

Your real friends will not look down on you because a woman cheated on you. Anyone who does you should also ghost & block.

[–]fakeplastictrees87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Many men cannot do it even after she cheats. You are hero, and believe me you win here.

[–]anusbleach11111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude first and foremost give yourself a pat on the back for handling things so well, not a lot of people (especially at your age) are mature enough to handle that sort of situation the way you did, I commend you for that.

where do I go from here?

Wherever you were headed before that. You had your own goals before that happened, nothing changed except that she's no longer part of the picture anymore. Keep doing what you were doing, working towards your goals, except now that you're single go out and pursue other women whenever you're ready. If you want, tell your friends you guys just broke up and you want to go out together for a guys night out and get hammered and hopefully score.

What I would advice though is to reflect and internalize the fact that sometimes unfortunate things happen and realize that you shouldn't feel angry instead you should accept the circumstances of nature/God/fate etc. and trust all things will ultimately be ok and work out as nature/God/fate intended for you.

[–]sjdfhskdjfh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nice job on cutting her out of your life. You did the right thing, even though it hurts. You can never trust a girl again after something like that.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My girlfriend of 1 year cheated on me. Where do I go from here?

Up.

The thing is, I'm hurt like hell right now, it's probably not very "alpha" but I'm hurt and I'm upset and I'm angry and it sucks.

This is normal. You invested a lot in this girl.... time, energy, hopes for the future, plus the opportunity cost of what else you could have done with that time.

I don't really know what to do, I feel crazy upset and angry and I don't really want to be at work right now. But I don't want to be laying around at home just moping about either.

Right. Get on with your life. It hurts at first, but it's also kinda freeing. Stay productive, work on YOU. After a while you realise that the work you're doing on you and for you.... feels productive. And you realise that noone can take that from you.

I think If anyone says "hey what happened to your girlfriend?" I'll just shrug and say "didn't work out"

Just tell everyone she died. Seriously though.... yeah. Good plan. Cheating man? Man's fault. Cheating woman? Man's fault.

Anyways, does anyone have any advice on what I can do to feel better and maybe get back on track?

Keep living your life. This stuff happens, don't let it break you. Sure, it hurts and it's difficult, but doesn't have to stop you. The pain WILL fade, and the harder you work (on YOU), the faster it fades.

How do I deal with her when she messages me next?

Don't respond. You're right to ghost. She cheated, you owe her nothing. Any response she'll treat as a negotiation. End the negotiation now by not responding.

If you have zero shared friends and there are zero possible consequences, you can have some fun black knighting her. "Are you sorry?" Truly sorry?" "How sorry?" .... and if she apologises, just say "whatever". Or ask if she wants you back. Then stop responding.

Whatever it takes to feel better, but don't get too emotionally/ego attached to her jumping through your hoops, women won't do this for long before they sense that you like it and then she'll throw you a curveball.

[–]supersonic-turtle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely doing what you need to be doing, and it's wise to not mention her cheating, it hurts but don't stoop to her level. Your doing fine bro in a few weeks you will be your old self again. Work harder too, when your at work think about work when your at home think about how good you have it and are going to have it later.

[–]OvoAlex97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who just went through a similar thing not too long ago I'll try to give you what I wish I would've done. First, you did great by blocking her off everything and ignoring. I did the opposite (begged her to stay and stayed friends) and it wasted so much time I could've been doing something better.

Also lifting was probably the most important thing I started doing after. I lost 20lbs and have never felt more confident. I see you're already crushing the lifting aspect so keep at it.

All in all it may not seem like it but for me at least it was the best thing that's ever happened to me. I was a virgin when I got cheated on and now I'm getting more pussy than I could've imagined. I rarely ever think about my ex anymore and the same will happen for you. Good luck my friend :)

[–]BusterVadge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both me and my girlfriend are 19. We've been together for one year now, it's been pretty good and it was quite serious.

This always pains me to read. Lots of young guys here are wasting their best years on serious relationships. Women are more likely to cheat during these years because of many opportunities to branch swing.

[–]AVWA 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Great. Don't worry about it. Just keep yourself busy. Plus the usual, hit the gym, don't get on Facebook. You're 19, don't even trip, there are still a lot of 19yo girls in your future, you will get older but they will always be 19.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's the plan, keep myself busy, avoid social media (other than for plates) and get that sick tricep-bicep pump whilst wearing an extra smedium shirt (as the great Robert Frank would say)

[–]LordThunderbolt 1 point2 points  (2 children)

It's okay to feel hurt and betrayed man. You did very good by cutting her out of your life. Your next step is to begin developing yourself. Sign up for a gun memebership and start lifting. Find yourself a free program on the internet and follow it to the letter. Start dressing better, and get a better haircut. Start approaching other girls.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

I've already started lifting, can't get a gun membership (I live in England)

Dress and haircut wise, I think I'm fine (I've got multiple plates which I can hit up)

[–]LordThunderbolt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're doing very good. If she keeps on harassing and stalking you, you need to file a police report.

[–]Shaman6624 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pain and suffering can't be avoided. They are intimately connected with life in every way. You can't escape them.

You just get to choose which pain you want. Do you want to have the pain of staying or leaving. It will sting no matter what. Alpha just means that you make an active descision and choose for yourself it doesn't mean that you don't have feeling, also beta is not bad. It's bad if the 2 sides go out of balance

[–]justicecantakeanap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In response to the main question in the title: elsewhere

[–]hawkeaglejesus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she's moved down to where I live for University (or at least she will be moving down in just 1 week

She was always going to ride the CC anyway. At least you ripped the bandaid off quickly.

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[–]1oldredder -1 points0 points  (0 children)

doesn't actually work it turns out. All too often the attraction is killed or a fight happens and the guy mentions the ex, compares the new girl to her. doesn't work.

[–]drqxx 0 points1 point  (3 children)

Next.....

Silently move out.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (2 children)

She was nexted the second she confirmed she cheated, she was blocked on everything too.

Luckily we don't live together, she will be living just five minutes away in 1.5 weeks though, she chose to move down closer to me for University so she's now got to deal with spending four years in this absolute shithole town (it's really that bad) and that the only person she decided to come here for, she lost.

[–]1oldredder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let this also be an early warning: almost no woman is loyal enough to live with. I guess there's a few but it's like picking winning tickets. Good luck. Losing tickets are divorces and bankruptcy

[–]drqxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahhaha save money and leave the town. Fuck her. She'll hit the wall soon enough.

[–]I_Poop_On_Birds -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't even need to read ur sob story... if ur gonna ask for advice on TRP it's all gonna be the same... dump the bitch and move on