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Red Pill=End of enjoying porn? (self.asktrp)

submitted by incognitomamsito

I've been transitioning into Red Pill since the start of this year and I recently had a revelation while watching porn...

"I am watching something a woman will never do for me in my current state."

"If I was involved in that situation, I'd be the loser orbiter outside in the car waiting to drive her home after the guys had finished using her"

Almost as soon as I had this thought I lost 95% of my interest in porn, it's like I'm torturing myself by watching something I can't yet have. Like being a starving kid in Africa watching a cookery show on TV.

I'm not a supporter of NoFap(no disrespect to anyone who is) but this has certainly reduced my masturbation frequency (which I needed anyway)

Did anyone else have a similar reaction to porn after finding Red Pill or am I over-thinking this?

I'd really like to read peoples thoughts on this.


[–]the_Milkweed 10 points11 points  (12 children)

/u/yourshadowscholar has quite the ways to go. Read the sex God method bud. Sex is not like porn, no you're not watching different porn then us. There are hundreds of different fetishes, it's all acted out and dramatized. Either you're obnoxiously blind to the fact your sex is not like porn, or you're delusional while fucking these broads.

You say your sex is like porn? What type of porn? Specific? Foot fetishes? Clowns? What?

Or maybe it's just generally the same, shallow and pretentious sex. Not quite sure, I know I've tried a lot of things. But the only sex I've had that I could compare to porn has been with one night stands and/or hate fucking my exs, later to find out they gave me the clap.

Lol you ought to clarify because this is bullshit. Wonder why you're getting downvoted /s

[–]Sepean -2 points-1 points  (6 children)

After TRP it is very much like porn.

Most of the time she'll wear fishnet stockings and a garter belt, and the sex is just suck, fuck, suck, fuck, suck, fuck, cum in pussy or mouth.

Regularly it is spiced up with something: she wears pumps, a ball gag, a princess plug in her ass, restraints, or collar and leash. Sometimes gagging (she can't deepthroat properly) or anal.

She's 14% BF, I'm 10% and buff.

I also get a minute of fellatio whenever I want during the day.

Except for a lack of threesomes and ass to mouth it seems like porn to me.

[–]Tom_The_Human 1 point2 points  (4 children)

ass to mouth

You're missing out.

[–]Sepean 1 point2 points  (3 children)

Yeah. My wife has major cleanliness issues, unfortunately.

[–]1Reddthrown 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He was sarcastic. I don't get the appeal at all.

[–]SwimmingToTheSurface 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Uh, how do you deal with that, and what do you mean... that is kind of an open ended statement?

[–]Sepean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol. What I meant was, she has major issues with things that she thinks aren't clean. She never sits down on public toilets for example. Anything that's been in her ass she treats like it is coated in acid until it's been rinsed.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Real is definitely a lot like porn to me as well, including threesomes. Spun plates for long enough that I found 2 that wanted to be with another girl and made it happen. Just a numbers game really.

[–]YourShadowScholar -2 points-1 points  (4 children)

I don't know...I watch porn where guys eat girls out a lot, or deep throat porn.

Every woman I've ever been with loves being eaten out and taking my cock deep in her throat.

Most of them orgasm from penetration, and love getting fucked more than I even like fucking them.

I like to roleplay various kinky shit, too. And I've always found women are happy to be my roleplay partners.

And a decent amount of women seem to be into anal, too. Which is fine, as I'm not that into it.

Idk, the most basic porn I watch is like women stripping, then a guy eats her out, then she sucks his cock, then he fucks her, and she orgasms a bunch of times from alternating between fucking, sucking his cock, and being eaten out...and then he cums in her mouth, or creampies her.

Seems like that's how most regular sex goes to me.

I pretty much exist with women purely off of how many orgasms I give them... seems like a brag, but not really. I'm just kind of a degenerate that does nothing else for women other than make them orgasm.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (3 children)

I pretty much exist with women purely off of how many orgasms I give them...

Which you know to be true, how?

"you're the best sex i've ever had" - is often a farce, something she thinks you want to hear.

Not to say you cant make a girl cum, but it's like building a house on shit foundation.

[–]YourShadowScholar 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Nah, I never hear that bullshit. I usually get told at the end of relationships, or just find out from ex's that the only reason they were with me so long was my sexual performance. It's usually obvious beforehand anyhow...had perfect relationships just end when I got medical conditions that inhibited me from performing sexually regularly.

Let's just say...I am the kind of guy women use to get off. I've had much different experiences than 99.9% of males I imagine. If that's what I wanted I guess I'd lead a super happy life.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Pretty similar experiences to you. Not sure why the downvotes. Read sex god method, spun plates, now girls are recommending me to their friends. Had one girl who wanted me to teach her girlfriend how to eat pussy. That was a nice ego boost.

[–]ARUKET 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's funny that the OP of this comment thread called the user out and told him to read the Sex God Method, when anyone who has read it will know that the author suggests lots of rough extended fucking to give vaginal orgasms, and domination with manhandling, commands and verbal abuse, which are all very common elements of most porn. Perhaps HE should re-read the book?

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[–]YourShadowScholar -1 points0 points  (36 children)

What porn are you watching exactly?...

My sex life has always pretty closely mirrored porn. I don't know what is so unrealistic about porn? I assume I must be watching different porn from the rest of you.

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    [–]YourShadowScholar -3 points-2 points  (25 children)

    What is unrealistic in your porn?

    [–]sissybumlegs 8 points9 points  (18 children)

    Obnoxiously large dongs, for one. I used to think I had a tiny penis, although it's actually pretty average, because of the unrealistic penis-size standards perpetuated by the porn industry.

    [–]YourShadowScholar -4 points-3 points  (17 children)

    How big is your penis exactly?...

    [–]sissybumlegs 8 points9 points  (16 children)

    A bit under 5 inches. Which is pretty bang on average.

    [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (4 children)

    On how many occasions are you fucking numerous HB9/10's all by clicking "next video." The entire act of watching porn is like a movie or video games, meant to take you into a different reality, one that you aren't currently living.

    By all means if you're going to tell me at any minute you have your choices between an asian, a redhead, a black girl and a blond, all HB9's or 10's, all ready to have sex with you at the drop of a hat, then sure porn is realistic for you.

    [–]YourShadowScholar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    That's a flawed understanding of reality imo. When you watch a porn video you don't cease existing.

    [–]YourShadowScholar -3 points-2 points  (2 children)

    No HB10's do porn. lmao

    That is the weirdest way of looking at porn I've ever heard.

    No one attains that in real life, so by your logic we should all quit now and just watch porn?

    [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

    by your logic

    If anything my logic would say to not watch porn, since the faked videos will.never match what your realistic expectations for sex should be.

    [–]YourShadowScholar -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    I guess it depends what you want out of life. Personally, I'm a hedonist. I just look for whatever gives me the most pleasure in life. So to me, your logic says that watching porn is infinitely more pleasurable than normal sex, so you should just never bother with normal sex.

    I'm not sure what you are looking for with sex... if you are looking to procreate, I guess yeah, you would never want to watch porn.

    [–]Freddy_Fedora 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Well my gf doesn't like anal because it hurts her too much. We tried a few times and seeing shit on my dick wasn't all that enticing. Where as with porn it's more appealing.

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      [–]YourShadowScholar -1 points0 points  (1 child)

      So people mean literally like they think porn i unrealistic because they film it?

      [–]moresmarterthanyou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      i agreed with all ur responses

      [–]11NV0K3R 0 points1 point  (3 children)

      I was wondering about this too.

      Honestly don't look at porn much, fap once a day maybe, but honestly it's just to the chicks over at GW or GWP.

      If anything, it gives me reassurance that attractive women exist (I live in a shit town, HB7 is like max you find here in the wild) and sets a goal to strive for (as in, if I were to associate with a woman, I'd want it to look like that).

      [–]YourShadowScholar 0 points1 point  (2 children)

      How could any town be that horrible??

      [–]dickbroom 1 point2 points  (1 child)

      Get out in to middle America and you'll find many are. Mine is similar. By age 20 all the good looking chicks have either moved away , been locked down, or been knocked up.

      [–]RPAlternate42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      Or are fat.

      [–]Sepean -4 points-3 points  (6 children)

      After TRP my sex life is pretty much like porn. No threesomes, no ass to mouth, but other than that, it's like porn.

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        [–]Sepean -5 points-4 points  (4 children)

        No, not like sex was before TRP. It's like porn. She does what I want, wears what I want.

        If you think porn-like sex is unrealistic you need to alpha up.

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          [–]Sepean -3 points-2 points  (1 child)

          Of course we don't have industry lighting in our bedroom. Is that really what you think of when people talk about porn-like sex?

          I think of what kinky stuff you do, the submissiveness of the girl, the dirty talk.

          And what is with the "pornstars have perfect bodies" spiel, only fat acceptance advocates talk like that. Almost all pornstars are average girls or worse, and even the big stars are rarely fit and beautiful. Very, very few quality girls would be caught dead doing porn.

          [–]tomysotomayorfuxboys -2 points-1 points  (1 child)

          use your imagination as MrEiffel said

          Why? Should I also stop watching action movies and use my imagination instead?

          [–]1RedPillJax 6 points7 points  (2 children)

          I still enjoy porn from time to time, but I only beat it once a week if I'm not getting laid. I enjoy small doses of porn here and there, the same way I enjoy going to a car show and seeing all the American muscle sitting in the sun.

          I used to watch a ton of porn and slap my dick around literally all the time, back in my betafied relationship and even in my prior more natural RP phase before finding and swallowing the pill. It definitely made me feel insecure, made me want things I thought I couldn't have, and wasted a hell of a lot of my time. When I found TRP, I pretty much nixed it all together.

          Now, I'm spinning a plate who could literally be a porn star, and is game for absolutely anything I can think of. I worked on raising my SMV to much higher levels than previous, and being able to enjoy the fruits of my labour like this keeps me motivated to keep lifting, tightening up my game further, and raising my SMV even higher.

          If the reaction from it is I am watching something a woman will never do for me in my current state, I would use that as motivation to get to a state where broads will be begging to do those things for you.

          Until then, I'd recommend cutting it out completely until you start getting some more action.

          [–]incognitomamsito[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

          Currently working on increasing my SMV, lifting is progressing, frame is coming along, game not so much but I'm aware of it now (I wasn't before)

          It'll be a while before I get the "pornstar plate" but like you say it's something to motivate me.

          Working on reducing the dick beatdowns to maintenance levels rather than hobby levels

          [–]1RedPillJax -1 points0 points  (0 children)

          It'll be a while before I get the "pornstar plate" but like you say it's something to motivate me.

          I'm so fucking glad you phrased it that way.

          If you put in the work, you'll get it. Like you said, not a matter of if, it's when.

          [–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (9 children)

          Porn has no basis in reality. If you want to masturbate, use your own imagination.

          [–]incognitomamsito[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

          Any tips for how to switch to imagination only?

          [–]CliffordTheBigRedPil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

          Keep limiting masturbation until a slight breeze turns you into a diamond. By that point the stimulation should feel good enough you don't event need imagination.

          [–]YourShadowScholar -5 points-4 points  (6 children)

          Speak for yourself.

          All of the sex I've had resembles the porn I watch for the most part.

          What is it in porn that is unrealistic to you?

          [–]StarDestinyGuy 1 point2 points  (5 children)

          It depends on the porn you watch though.

          If you're into the much crazier stuff (ex: hypnosis porn, hentai, etc.) I highly doubt your sex will resemble that in any form.

          [–]YourShadowScholar 2 points3 points  (4 children)

          Ok...but hopefully if you are watching that shit, especially in the case of hentai, you realize it's pure fantasy, like not even remotely possible in reality right?... How can you possibly complain that porn is unrealistic when you are choosing to watch demons with penis tentacles violating prepubescent girls in all of their orifices? o.O

          [–]StarDestinyGuy 2 points3 points  (3 children)

          Of course I realize that and I wasn't complaining that it was unrealistic.

          My point was simply that many, many types of porn (not just the extreme example of hentai) are completely unrealistic.

          [–]YourShadowScholar -1 points0 points  (2 children)

          Which other ones?...

          I would say even more tame stuff should hopefully obviously be fantasy...like watching mother and daughter stuff. Obviously you know that mothers and daughters don't all go around fucking the same guy all the time in real life.

          Is that the type of stuff people are talking about?...

          [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

          Like the ones where the dude fucks like 3 or 4 girls at a time.. Or the male strippers who go around a room full of women letting them suck his cock.. Or the big ass swinger parties... Or the ones where a dude fucks a girl with like 20 other girls in the room watching. Shit, I watched a porn once where a guy fucked something like a 100 girls in a row. There is a lot of unrealistic porn out there and you know it. Stop posting like a dumbass.

          [–]YourShadowScholar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          I don't enjoy any of it, and don't watch any of it, so haven't come across any of the porn you're talking about.

          If people want to complain about knowingly abusing something they know is based in fantasy by selecting fantasies...tha'ts their fucking problem. They are the dumbasses.

          [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children)

          they wont do it for you NOW, but they will if you lift and maintain and build your frame

          [–]incognitomamsito[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

          This is what I'm thinking, this is what I'm working toward.

          [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          I had oneitis from an ex with fake tits... so yeah that ruined porn for me for a while as well. There I was beating off while she was getting fucked by chad who she tossed a marriage down the drain.

          Eventually after finding this sub and working out I began to be more attractive and thus attract more attractive women. Now about a year later I am with a nice little hottie who is younger hotter and way better than the ex I had. Life is good, and all it took was about 30,000 reps.

          [–]RedPillMat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

          I haven't masturbated in over one year and I don't watch porn, made sex better for me, i have no regrets.

          [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

          Stop reading news stories about politicians because you'll never be a politician the way your life is right now. Stop watching profesional sports because you'll never be a professional athlete the way your life is right now...

          See where this is going? What you've done is known as "proving too much." Stop being such a goddamed pussy and watch porn if you want to. Don't let the modern Puritans get you down.

          [–]incognitomamsito[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          I'm a guy who currently makes CGI porn as a hobby, so I'm no puritan.

          As for your other point I do see where you're going but it's not entirely accurate.

          Never be a politician? Sure, but I could join a political party at grass roots level.

          Never be a professional sports player? Sure, but me and my buddies could go play football in the park.

          Never get pornstar sex? Couldn't go out my front door right now and get any type of sex at all

          The above isn't written to start an argument or to evoke sympathy, telling you how is it.

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              [–]Sepean -2 points-1 points  (7 children)

              The incentives that girls have to perform in porn, how is that any different to the incentives she has to perform in your bed? If you're high value and you demand submissiveness and kinky stuff, you'll get it.

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                [–]Sepean -2 points-1 points  (5 children)

                Some men can get girls to fuck them pretty much however they want. High SMV and demand it, that's all there is to it. If you don't want to hear that, your loss.

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                  [–]Sepean -1 points0 points  (3 children)

                  I'm here to help new guys.

                  And I have done it. I'm not a celebrity, I'm not rich, I don't have a model face or much charisma. I just read the TRP stuff, did what it said, and I hold frame in bed. I want porn-like sex and IDGAF what our culture says about how to treat girls or how real sex is supposed to be.

                  You're doing the new guys here a disservice by perpetuating the myth that you can't have great sex.

                  [–]incognitomamsito[S] -1 points0 points  (1 child)

                  If you genuinely have a high competence level in red pill and hang out in asktrp to help new guys then I for one appreciate your presence.

                  [–]Sepean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  Let me tell you this: What you want is absolutely, 100% possible.

                  The shit girls do on camera for some cash, they will do for you and to you too. Get your SMV up high; you might not be able to get it up so high she'll submit to you the first time, but over time her emotional dependancy will grow on you.

                  If you haven't read Sex God Method, do it. Summary here http://www.rsdnation.com/node/124628 , but read it in full.

                  Now let me ask you this. You're a high value man, she's in love with you, and you're fucking her real good. Do you think that keeping you and keeping you happy is worth more or less to her than the $3,000 a pornstar gets (and let us not forget that with you it doesn't get taped and released for everyone to see)?

                  From there, it is just sticking to your standards. Once she's hooked, you expect her to follow instructions. If she doesn't, say she's not meeting your expectations, put on your pants and leave. You have to respect and enforce your standards; she won't. She might give you shit over it, but she'll come around. Let's not pretend that a collar around her neck and a dick in her ass is more unpleasant than deadlifting.

                  And just to make sure: learn how to prep her properly and take it slow. The girls in porn have a lot of experience and there is prep outside of the camera. Lots of lube, take it slow, warm her up. Read guides on how to do it.

                  Some tips that aren't covered in Sex God Method iirc:

                  Anal: After you've penetrated her, your dick should aim at her navel, not her spine or it'll hurt. She might not know it and if she tries to move up and arch her back, tell her her to go low and hollow instead (let her do it wrong and then you show her you know what you're doing and how you take care of her, it's a great moment for some SGM dirty talk). If she's uncomfortable getting fucked, get her to ride you so she can control the pace and depth and get used to it.

                  Deepthroat: Get her to make a fist around her left thumb and squeeze it. Try it yourself and see how it suppresses your gag reflex. Lube with taste is your friend. It helps if she constricts her throat like a yawn, not relax it; it feels counterintuitive, but it opens the throat up. Teach her it with her on top from a position much like a 69, with her chest down low so her head bends back: she has more control so she'll be calmer, she can easily keep her teeth out of the way, and the angle and the curvature of your dick is optimal.

                  [–]Sepean -1 points0 points  (0 children)

                  If you want porn sex, real sex is porn sex.

                  [–]elevul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  Before or after TRP I never cared. Porn is entertainment, see it as such and don't worry too much about it.

                  [–]wont_tell_i_refuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  Personally I jack off to one type of woman. So I quit porn, and I pedestalize those women less.

                  [–]mty_green_go 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  Idk unless you are only dating prudes or fatties my sex life is pretty close to porn. I don't watch extreme fetish porn or anything ...

                  [–]Myrpl 0 points1 point  (1 child)

                  Let's say I minimized the moments of self-indulgence and applying my non-satiated instinctive urge to fuck girls I meet (day game ftw) led me to hold eye contact for periods of time I wouldn't even dare to imagine myself doing.

                  And that's probably one of the many things that magically changed in my daily interactions with girls. I come across more... sexual, if that makes sense.

                  [–]incognitomamsito[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  I have noticed those behaviours in myself at the 3 day mark.

                  [–]frogstud 0 points1 point  (3 children)

                  The OP's title is misleading. The OP's title is questioning if a man becomes red pilled then could he not enjoy porn. However, the OP's post was about how his reality doesn't line up with the fantasy of porn. Analogously, does know that you can't be a super spy like Tom Cruise reduce the entertainment value of a Mission Impossible movie? Probably not. if you're the average person.

                  TL;DR OP's title is misleading. Porn not matching reality = end of enjoy porn

                  [–]incognitomamsito[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  I think almost everyone who read what I wrote understood that what I am saying is that red pill knowledge led me to realise that the porn was not matching the reality hence the end of enjoyment.

                  I do accept the title could be interpreted as misleading, that was not intentional.

                  [–]Sepean 0 points1 point  (1 child)

                  This is utter bullshit.

                  OP said "I am watching something a woman will never do for me in my current state", and getting girls to do for you what they do in porn is totally possible.

                  Becoming a spy is generally not possible, and even if it was it wouldn't be anything like Mission Impossible.

                  Why is this thread so full of people who think you can't get girls to girls act like pornstars in bed?

                  [–]frogstud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  You're right in stating the correct title; however, I never questioned whether it was possible to get girls "to do want they do in porn" (like various sexual acts and what not). I argued that porn is a fantasy. I really should of defined fantasy in porn and movies as the result of directors, actors, and movie staff to make porn and movies into a ideal or dream like scenario.

                  You're argument is flawed because, omg.....,I just read the OP's post...and he changed it.

                  Nevertheless, you can become a spy. Just because something is possible doesn't mean it is significantly probable like 'getting girls like a pornstar`.

                  [–]tomysotomayorfuxboys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  You're overthinking it. I like looking at attractive women's bodies. Porn makes it easy for me to do that. Commercial porn is fake anyway. They pay women and men to engage in specified sex acts on camera, in specific positions for good camera angles. Porn is like the WWE of sex. If you get some money and a camera, contact a pornstar or agency, and write up a contract, you can have sex like a pornstar too.

                  [–]RPAlternate42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  I watch far less porn since RP. Part of it is a SIGNIFICANT increase in sex with the wife and part of it is that I know how much of a time suck it is; I find I'm spending more time looking through porn rather than at it and fapping.

                  Now I masturbate less often (the wife gets all my sweetness I can muster) but when I do, I want to get it over with fast (time is valuable) so I watch one of a few go-to videos that I know help get me there fast... usually a quick wank in the shower in the morning.

                  [–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

                  I decided to watch some porn yesterday and it looks like TRP broke it for me. First, gym broke vidya for me, now it's TRP fault I'm unable to enjoy porn any longer.

                  First, the girl was totally shitty. HB 3-4 blonde slut. The guy was WAY better, ripped, masculine. WTF? Why would such well-built, ripped man fuck such ugly girl?

                  And then I saw it.

                  I did not see a woman any longer.

                  I saw a wild animal, trying to survive, renting her pussy and mouth for an undisclosed amount of money. Abusing her own body for food.

                  I was disgusted by that woman's decision.

                  That man, on the other hand, he looked pretty good. I'm not sure why would he fuck a girl in a porn movie - preselection, perhaps. Fucking a woman is nothing to be ashamed of, IMO.

                  But letting a random dick/hand/dildo exploit one of your holes? First one, made for love, made for sex, hardcore or not, but still, made for DICK, not for some foreign objects of fists or anything like that... second hole, made for shit, for dick - optionally, but not for 2m long dildos OR gangbangs... what the fuck.

                  Wild, useless animal, trying to survive. That's what I saw.

                  There's no porn for me any more.

                  ALSO, the whole sexual act was fit for camera, the whole sexual act between those people was made for display. There was no, I repeat, no similarity to ACTUAL sex, both in needs of man and woman AND in sexual positions they choose.

                  I believe pope John Paul II said something along the lines of porn not actually showing the whole image. Get it? Naked people, close-ups of sexual organs, but this is NOT the whole image.

                  Few hours before watching porn I was outside, flirting with a girl. I looked her straight in her eyes and it had more sexual power, more passion, more everything than that short porn flic I've seen after that.

                  There's no more porn for me, any longer. TRP for me means end of enjoying porn, but more important, it is a START of enjoying LIFE to the fullest.

                  Godspeed.

                  [–]Kyrile -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

                  Yup porn is garbage and to think there was a phase when I used to watch it.

                  Nowadays the only thing I occasionally like to watch is 14 year old legal age girls riding sybians.

                  [–]pbgswd -1 points0 points  (1 child)

                  It is good to think about what is really happening with porn. An industry supplants your sex drive with an illusion and then controls you with it.

                  [–]incognitomamsito[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  This is a very thought provoking and arguably accurate statement. Thanks

                  [–]ItIsMyPrivilege -1 points0 points  (0 children)

                  I often look at porn and just want to make that reality. I've had porn bed experiences with women and I want it again. I can't watch it because it seems fake and I've seen real.

                  [–]twinhed -1 points0 points  (0 children)

                  I'm glad it's worked for it. I don't have that big of a problem with porn nor do if "wish" it was me in the shoot. It's pure entertainment for me, I like to find and watch unique unrealistic things, I view it as wrestling.

                  [–]Freddy_Fedora -1 points0 points  (0 children)

                  Not really. I used to watch porn 6 times a week. Now I watch porn 3 times a week and have sex 3 times a week.

                  [–]AmericanHistoryAFBB -1 points0 points  (0 children)

                  Can relate. Porn used to feel amazing to me to watch, but after interacting with real women the curtain has been pulled back and porn is just..."meh, whatever" to me now.

                  To have a woman really deepthroating your cock like that and slobbering and really really enjoying ever last inch of your cock like she's worshiping Jesus, you really have to have your shit together and be like Chad Thundercock.

                  The way that porn depicts women in regards to sucking dick religiously is pretty unrealistic, hence why I try to limit porn usage and go for the real thing when I can.

                  [–][deleted] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

                  Why not just use it as a goal? I think you should focus on the future. I think it's kinda cool for anyone to experience that kind of sex, and so you should focus on the fact that you will some day have it.

                  [–][deleted] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

                  Lol, had the same revelation. But unfortunately I found cuckold and femdom porn and it ruined me because it related so well with my current self. Just stop watching it bruh. It's unhealthy.

                  [–]Shankar_ -2 points-1 points  (2 children)

                  Good.

                  I highly recommend trying NoFap for at least 2 weeks, because there are benefits waiting for you. Again, until you try it, you won't know what you're missing out on. Worst case, just fap really hard that 14th day and move on.

                  I truly believe everyone who is serious on self-improvement should at least go NoFap for 2 weeks.

                  [–]incognitomamsito[S] -1 points0 points  (1 child)

                  Can you elaborate on the specific benefits?

                  I ask as currently any longer than 4-6 days and I do need to do it for no other reason that to "vent the pressure"

                  [–]tomysotomayorfuxboys -1 points0 points  (0 children)

                  No fap has no benefits, other than sexual frustration giving you more energy, and fapping or sex feeling better after not doing it for a while.