Going out with a Prostitute. (self.asktrp)

submitted by kidkidkid123321

So I got some girls number, she ended up being a prostitute. I told her I don't pay for sex, and that I don't need to. I then asked her out. I'm going to take her to a bar. She's super sexy. In my mind all girls are whores to begin with so her being overt in that she's a sex worker kind of doesn't phase me. Should I be cognizant of anything (other than making sure I wear a condom)? Any advice?

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[–]room_303 22 points23 points  (15 children)

Most people don't know what they have and carry no symptoms, condoms don't protect you from many sti/std's.

[–][deleted]  (14 children)


    [–]room_303 10 points11 points  (6 children)

    You could carefully vet your girls

    No man can carefully (successfully) vet any girl, period.

    [–]TheBlackAlistar 28 points29 points  (4 children)

    Waterboarding begs to differ

    [–]room_303 3 points4 points  (1 child)

    It does and would, before the meetoo social media female bias police showed up.

    [–]AlexanderTheBread 5 points6 points  (0 children)

    Disguise it as BDSM. Problem solved

    [–]Ricklogical 1 point2 points  (1 child)

    This guy fucks

    [–]Anvilplunger69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    They’re all dead most likely, but sure

    [–]Ricklogical 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    The amount of time it takes to really know anyone requires some sacrifice and really by the time you really know, it's too late.

    Best you can do is minimize your exposure to risk by keeping them at a distance as long as possible.

    No red flags could mean they are playing you, best to slowly meet her entire social circle before considering upgrading at all.

    Any woman that wants to rush is a few bangs away from breaking and it's better that way. A good plate spins itself and accepts many of not all of your requests. Maybe not the first week, but certainly within 4 months.

    It is always true, even years in you can be fucked. Really important to learn as much as you can about anyone before trusting them, and never trust anyone with something you aren't willing to lose.

    [–]Throwaway-242424 3 points4 points  (0 children)

    The big one you want to avoid is HIV

    The chances of picking this up as a straight male who makes reasonable precautions is pretty minimal to be fair.

    [–]resnine 0 points1 point  (4 children)

    How does everyone have herpes? You mean a certain KIND of herpes, like a cold sore. Not like hsv1 or hsv2.

    [–][deleted]  (3 children)


      [–]resnine 0 points1 point  (2 children)

      There is this girl I am talking to on Tinder, she tells me this "I have hsv1 and two strands of hpv." I am like fuucccckkk

      [–]moltenw 2 points3 points  (1 child)

      At least she told you.

      [–]resnine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      Indeed. She keeps telling me how she wants to "fuck", but... I don't want your fkn STD.

      [–]hb8only 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      if she is really a hoe, she would persist on protection

      [–]DeontologicalSanders 79 points80 points  (13 children)

      Only that you saying all that makes zero difference. She's still a hooker.

      Be aware that she's going to string you along, smile at you, laugh at your jokes, flirt with you, tease you, get you alone and hard as granite, and only then start negotiating payment for services rendered. Prepare to leave with blue balls.

      [–]packetdata 28 points29 points  (1 child)

      Yes,this is what will happen,even strippers do this.

      [–]babybopp 10 points11 points  (0 children)

      Or steal yo shit while u asleep

      [–]Self-honest 21 points22 points  (5 children)

      Yeah watch out for her pimp hitting you up for cash or an ass whooping after the fact no matter what.

      [–]MuhTriggersGuise 15 points16 points  (4 children)

      Lol yeah a pimp being ok with some dude fucking his girl for free doesn't happen. Existence of said pimp won't be evident until the deed is done.

      [–]Self-honest 11 points12 points  (2 children)

      OP pay attention

      [–]babybopp 4 points5 points  (1 child)

      Dude might find himself in a situation where a pimp comes into his house after she lets him in. Don't fuck a prostitute if you haven't talked about money. You will still owe her the money after OP. They don't give pussy for free worse if they have a pimp. Get his ass robbed or something.

      [–]friendandadvisor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      This. Chick goes along, fucks OP like a champ. OK. Three days later, he gets robbed, burgled, etc...

      [–]RedPimpin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      there is a difference between pimps and thugs

      [–][deleted]  (4 children)


        [–]TheRedPillMonkey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

        Agreed with this.

        [–]DeontologicalSanders 0 points1 point  (2 children)

        A hooker can be counted on to act no differently than any other woman? Bit of a reach.

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          [–]DeontologicalSanders 2 points3 points  (0 children)

          Nah. You're the one asserting that regular women and actual prostitutes will be just as likely to try to get men to pay them money just before having sex. It's up to you to back that one up.

          [–]remo_williams1 58 points59 points  (3 children)

          Be aware that she is a psychological dumpster fire.

          [–]rigbed 33 points34 points  (2 children)

          Doesn’t sound different from most women

          [–]babybopp 5 points6 points  (1 child)

          Yeah but most women probably haven't been peed on in a sleazy motel and ended up catching a nasty std while simultaneously been robbed of their nights earnings.. lol an escort told me this happened to her.

          [–]rigbed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          Was it an STD for life

          [–]GrahamBaby 140 points141 points  (14 children)

          When you’re kissing her, try not to think of the hundreds of cocks she’s sucked with the same lips.

          [–]ElijahBurningWoods 67 points68 points  (2 children)

          "Every girl is a whore"

          When you’re kissing her, try not to think of the hundreds of cocks she’s sucked with the same lips.

          He probably thinks that of every girl.

          [–]thotimusprime70 19 points20 points  (0 children)

          No homo tho

          [–]rebuildingMyself 15 points16 points  (1 child)

          Or at least the dozens she sucked that week

          [–]MuhTriggersGuise 8 points9 points  (0 children)

          You misspelled "day". It's worse when you know she hasn't even brushed her teeth.

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            [–]ravenQ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

            Depends if you care about magnitude

            [–]sumethreuaweiei 8 points9 points  (0 children)


            [–]yesbuthereswhy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

            Bro hahah

            [–]neoda1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

            the Prostitutes that i know off dont suck dick with out a condom on it so technically if she is the same type of Prostitute she isnt really kissing the cocks literally.

            [–]TonytheNetworker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

            I read this comment and immediately thought of some skank with the thousand cock stare.

            [–]room_303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

            Yeah but that's the same as trying not to think of mans own LTR, plate, mother, sister, aunt, grandma.

            [–]Tuplad 50 points51 points  (0 children)

            Don't talk about her job.

            [–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 54 points55 points  (9 children)

            I'm going to take her to a bar

            Don't associate with a woman who exploits men for money. She won't respect you, it will end badly. She'll be looking for a way to exploit you. Relationships with prostitutes don't go well, and she's unlikely to be the "just casual sex" type.

            In my mind all girls are whores to begin with so her being overt in that she's a sex worker kind of doesn't phase me.

            Well no. Most don't directly charge men to jizz in her. Most women fuck alphas and exploit betas. Prostitutes exploit everybody. I think your reasoning is just a justification.

            She's broken - the thousand cock stare is one thing, but she'll have the million cock stare.

            [–]thegreattot 18 points19 points  (3 children)

            Thank god for endorsed members I was starting to become very disappointed.
            Don't put your dick in crazy there is no female more broken than prostitutes and strippers plenty of decent looking girls at barns and nobles fellas.

            [–]MuhTriggersGuise 5 points6 points  (2 children)

            I don't want to fuck no woman from no barn man

            [–]thegreattot 12 points13 points  (0 children)

            Country girls are the best bro. The only other guy they've been fucking is their brother .

            [–]friendandadvisor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

            Yep. And, the nobility went out with feudalism. That guy should read a book.

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            [–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 6 points7 points  (0 children)

            Yeah..... good perspective.

            [–]thegreattot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

            Depends on what kind of girls your associating yourself with obviously if you're dating twin peaks waitress, ex strippers , and club girls you're gonna run into a few hoookers it's not that difficult of a thing to vet for.

            [–]The_Nosiy_Narwhal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

            What he said. I've been their done that they are completely not worth your time.

            [–]RedHoodhandles 16 points17 points  (0 children)

            Now that's some scarcity mentality..

            [–]shady_nasty_mf 31 points32 points  (1 child)

            I've plated 2 prostitutes in the past and I know men who keep this as friends so let me share some insights:

            • They have a high sex drive and are a lot more adventurous in bed, take full advantage of this.
            • Although you aren't a John (a man paying for a prostitute) she'll have a transactional mindset when it comes to sex and intimacy. The more you see this behavior the more she's losing interest in you.
            • She'll also want you to foot all the bills.
            • They're all batshit crazy and broken mentally in some way. The longest you should consistently keep them around is a weekend for a fuck fest and send them home. Keeping them at your place for a week is a great way to invite all the craziness in their life into yours. It's very fucking hard to keep frame while being enclosed with a crazy bitch for days or weeks at a time.
            • They lie a lot about their vast sexual experiences. This isn't unique to prostitutes but be aware that she's done just about everything this to done within her first few months on the job.

            As for your approach, I'd skip the whole going to the bar move and just invite her back to your place and initiate sex the moment she walks through the door by slapping her on her ass, telling her you want to see her sexy body under her clothes, or kissing her on her neck. Skip the whole song and dance routine. She doesn't need it, to her sex is no big deal, like saying "hello" to stranger as she walks by, she is a whore afterall.

            [–]Kabuki431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

            Wow now that's some detailed insight

            [–]chim_city 12 points13 points  (0 children)

            What could go wrong here?

            [–]Ivabighairy1 11 points12 points  (0 children)

            Now THIS is going to be a train wreck!!! Pass the popcorn please!!!

            [–]Redpillswole 10 points11 points  (7 children)

            Lol you're stupid, you think you aren't going to pay some way for a girl like that?

            [–]juaracam 2 points3 points  (6 children)

            Any relationship with any woman is some kind of prostitution in a way or another

            [–]MuhTriggersGuise 3 points4 points  (2 children)

            That's like saying fighting an MMA champ is just like fighting any other guy, because in either case you'll get punched. AKA fucking retarded.

            [–]juaracam 1 point2 points  (1 child)

            No it's not the same thing, I said in a way or another. Prostitution is a word that has become demonized by the same cucked society that we all despise. Do you think the multiple married women are such because they love their husbands? Do you think LTRs exist because girls love their husbands? Every woman just bases her instincts on resources and how it benefits her, and I believe she will leave you for a richer or more goodlooking guy if she has the opportunity. AWALT & Hypergamy are what it is

            [–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

            Very true. It comes down to red flags. The less there are the less likely you'll have to deal with bull shit that ties up your resources and time. There's ALWAYS risk. It's up to men to educate themselves on the warning signs to analyze that risk effectively. At the top of the list of factors that add the most risk? Sex Workers and Single Moms

            [–]Redpillswole 0 points1 point  (2 children)

            Then every relationship with anyone is some form of prostitution.

            How does the Chad the girl wants to fuck because he's sexy and charming but 0 money = prostitution?

            [–]juaracam 1 point2 points  (1 child)

            Genetic fitness and strength=potential ability to provide physically for resources and resistance to adversity. Money=resources. You can call it prostitution or transaction, as long as you get the idea. This is red pill not purple pill.

            [–]Redpillswole 0 points1 point  (0 children)


            [–]Endorsed ContributorAuvergnat 9 points10 points  (1 child)

            Gentlemen, this is the future of male/female relationships in the West. The complete normalization of prostitution and its acceptance by a blindsided male population.

            We've witnessed the normalization of women pairing up with a beta and cuckolding him by fucking alphas on the side ("polyamory"). Now this is the opposite strategy you'll be seeing more and more: banging one alpha, while fucking betas for a direct exchange of resources on the side.

            [–]Kabuki431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

            Home run

            [–]Straightfromthemudd 17 points18 points  (1 child)

            Keep an eye on your wallet and belongings.

            [–]ghosts_of_me 5 points6 points  (0 children)

            Yep. I know a couple of prozzies who are hard core kleptomaniacs.

            [–][deleted] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

            I think you're too horny to think straight kid. I mean I have nothing against you wanting to hook up but this:

            In my mind all girls are whores to begin with

            Cut it out. If you want advice, all I can say is that you better don't get too invested on her else you'll end up very miserable. It won't phase you now but when you start to develop feelings for her, you'll end up crazy thinking about the many guys she'll bang over time. Pump and dump.

            Don't worry about STDs, prostitutes are workers, they know what they do and won't be stupid enough to let their only asset (their body) be unusable.

            [–]Viking_RnP 5 points6 points  (0 children)

            Why spend money on her drinks and food when you can just give it to her directly and be done with it?

            [–]Martysteiner 5 points6 points  (0 children)

            She might see you as an escape from the prostitution if you're wealthy.


            [–]suitcasecity 15 points16 points  (0 children)

            Make sure she doesnt have a dick. Who cares what her job is, do your thing.

            [–]packetdata 2 points3 points  (0 children)

            Keep her as a plate don't get too attached.

            [–]justicecantakeanap 3 points4 points  (1 child)

            Don't eat her pussy juices, no kisses, no mouth anything

            [–]blister333 3 points4 points  (0 children)

            I agree. In which case, I’d pass

            [–]hiddenpleasures123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

            No glove, no love. You might even want to consider bagging it for a blowjob with her. With all that being said, she will become clingy really quickly. She's a damsel in distress. If you treating her like a service. You're basically telling her that she isn't a prostitute in your eyes.

            [–]Endorsed Contributormonsieurhire2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

            She's a hired gun that you are using as social proof, and you can also potentially use her for opposition research. I guarantee that she will be looking to see what she can extract from you: money, meals, perks, time. Women that are prostitutes can have keen, well-developed commercial instincts.

            [–]thegreattot 3 points4 points  (0 children)

            No. Don't do it . Do not. Do it. Jesus bro , wtf?

            [–]TheTrenTrannyTrain 3 points4 points  (0 children)

            Nah, just game appropriately.

            [–]Ricklogical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

            Cool, then she can unwind and relax and not be fake around you. What a relief.

            Long term relationships with these women can be great networking, but not the type of LTR you would normally have.

            This woman is a pure tool towards a greater understanding of a world that would normally cost you money.

            Learn everything you can. Dont trust with too much of your personal life, if she has a pimp he will fuck you up for banging his chick without paying.

            [–]BusterVadge 2 points3 points  (2 children)

            Condoms don't prevent herpes. Inspect that pussy before you do anything to minimize your risks.

            [–]MuhTriggersGuise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

            They also don't prevent HPV, which can give you dick cancer.

            [–]i_Hate_us 0 points1 point  (0 children)

            <implying most women aren’t whores

            Only difference is she’s getting paid

            [–]nomba 1 point2 points  (2 children)

            Read the whole thread. What I took away is that it sounds like the only difference between a prostitute and a regular woman is that one gets a W-2 and the other doesn’t.

            [–]thegreattot 0 points1 point  (1 child)

            Lol depends . Do you feel like there is a difference between a girl who's fucked 20 dudes that she liked and judged to be worth fucking and a girl that will fuck literally anyone who has 150 bucks and has fucked literally 500 of those men.

            [–]nomba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

            One has more mileage on her. 😋

            [–]Throwaway-242424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

            Make sure you don't get robbed by her pimp.

            [–]resnine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

            So much risk here, even kissing her you can contract all sorts of shit. This is STD alert.

            [–]anusbleach11111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

            in my mind all girls are whores to begin with

            And go figure, you’re taking a literal whore out on a date, you played yourself.

            Is there a section in the sidebar that covers the notion of perception = reality? I could be wrong and this could just be a funny (pathetic) coincidence, but I can’t help but think into it.

            Best of luck to you OP.

            [–]bbm72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

            Would def read a blog about this. Keep us posted.

            [–]ThatKidinAfrica 0 points1 point  (0 children)

            Don't kiss them on the face.

            [–]hb8only 0 points1 point  (0 children)

            In my mind all girls are whores to begin with

            just say hallo to your mama for me 'k..? :D

            [–]TheBigLman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

            Sounds like you are desperate. Don't do it.

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            [–]TheIcePill -2 points-1 points  (0 children)