Plate saw me out with another girl. (self.asktrp)

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I was out at the club last night with this chick from tinder. Apparently one of my other girls was there and saw me without me noticing. She sent me 6 texts in a row that I didn't see until this morning.

11:37 - "U were here and didn't even say hi??"

11:47 - "Where r u"

12:09 - "Fuck u then have fun with tha bitch"

12:19 - "I'm done with u. Have fun w/that girl"

12:20 - "Delete my #. I'm deleting ur now"

12:32 - "Wow"

Ended up hooking up with the girl from Tinder. Responded to the texts with "what?". We've talked about me seeing other girls before and she said it was fine. She said she just didn't want to see them, but I didn't even know she was there so I couldn't really do anything about it.

She just texted me a fucking novel and said she doesn't know if I use protection with the other girls so we're done and she deleted my number. "Nice mtg u"

I'm just sitting here chuckling to myself.

I haven't responded and don't plan to. Should I just let it go?


Well, that lasted for all of 4 hours. She just invited me over to hang out tonight. LMFAO

[–]RedEyesBlueShades 59 points60 points  (7 children)

"Let's have a threesome, I think you'd like her."

[–][deleted] 22 points23 points  (6 children)

She'd probably cut my dick off lol

[–]RedEyesBlueShades 50 points51 points  (1 child)

Not if you state it as directly as I wrote... That's not a question, no smiley faces, no apologetic tone... In short, no beta insecurity.

You're dead serious.

At worst, she tells you you're a dick, she's not that kind of girl, blah blah blah. At best? You'll buy me a beer later.

[–]WeOutCheaLA 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly, you have to believe it if you ever want her to believe it..

[–]Luis_McLovin -3 points-2 points  (3 children)

why did you respond with "what?" that's such a bitch response

you should've stuck a better frame or not broken out of the one you were in

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (2 children)

You're a faggot

edit** Love ya, dawg. It's all fun and games on here. No reason you should be downvoted for an opinion.

[–]Luis_McLovin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

look at me i'm edgy

[–]E_mail_7114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuckin delicious response my friend

[–]therealbucknasty 29 points30 points  (6 children)

Don't even respond to her, seems like you've dodged a bullet on this one. One plate crashes to the ground as another begins to spin. Just keep on slaying.

[–][deleted] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah, fuck it. I guess I did. She's always trying to play mind games and it's not even worth it

[–]orezavi 11 points12 points  (4 children)

I bet 10-10 she's going to return if he remains silent.

Edit: for grammar.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (1 child)

Yep. Came back quicker than usual haha.

[–]QuagOnGin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The rule of the boomerang. Haha!

[–]DwightWolftail 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She did !

[–]WontonSoup77 2 points3 points  (0 children)


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[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (4 children)

She always texts like that. It's fucking hilarious. She once sent me "Thnx 4 mtg me 2nite. I had a gd tm".

And yeah, she always does this shit. I just respond by turning the dread back on her. So far its been working but this shit isn't worth it.

[–]Cesare_MA 7 points8 points  (2 children)

Wtf does mtg mean? I googled it and only found magic the gathering.

[–]Burlaczech 10 points11 points  (0 children)

"i had nice time playing magic the gathering with you" - wrong sub i suppose

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In her mind it means "meeting". I was just as confused as you were.

[–]menial_optimist 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Nice brag post. Its obvious this was a good thing. If your plate was actually a plate there's nothing really more to do. She saw you with other women, she was obviously jealous and threatened at your ability to pull other (attractive) women. She probably had a few drinks in her. She's probably a plate who didn't think she was a plate, and may have thought you guys were headed directly for a LTR.

The funny thing is, she's freaking out because she saw you with another woman at the same club, but she herself was at the club without your knowledge and who knows who she was with.

Same situation reversed she'd be laughing with her girlfriends right now about how much of a little dicked controlling beta you are.

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yep plates crash. She will crawl back to fuck you again before too long.

The distance between hate and love for a woman is a very thin line.

[–]mrHappyPotatoe 10 points11 points  (2 children)

Ha. I like crazies. They spice things up. I'd go for it. Tho it'll get really dark and scary real fast when they start threatening to kill them selves and you have to run and search for them in middle of the night under the bridge and carry them back home. And along the way you injure you leg and can't walk right for 3 months cause that bitch was god damn heavy.

Hmm. You are right. Dodge the bullet if you can.

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I like em too. I followed up. Probably a bad idea but she's good in bed so I figure there's nothing to lose.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahah i'd like to know this story fully.

[–]TehJimmyy 5 points6 points  (1 child)

Upload this to trp with title how girls react when men apply their plate strategy. Hilarious

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Done. I spiced up the title though

[–]wheresMYsteakAt 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Ignore the question, respond with logistics. Standard TRP game. Don't let the "dodged a bullet" crowd scare you. This is very very mild crazy and you know the pussy is good. Expect her to try to make you jealous. If you hold frame after that she will be dripping

[–]TheRiseAndFall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

> very very mild crazy

Wow, the world sure has gone downhill. A few years ago this was a clingy basket case.

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev 3 points4 points  (2 children)

Practice Tip:

Girls can convince themselves of anything. They can gaslight themselves. So I have open LTRs. Or I sometimes put it this way: OLTR1 and I have an "understanding", by which I mean that she "understands" that she's not going to understand that I see other girls. It's a coping mechanism for her.

That said, if she ever saw me with another chick, she would Lose.Her.Shit. Because, in her mind, she can think what she wants, but confronted with reality? It would be ugly.

So either don't give a shit, or be more careful.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I really need to be more careful. This is the second time this has happened with her. And I was with different girls each time.

[–]Westernhagen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heh you need to stop being so predictable. There's more than one club in your town, right?

[–]Cunt_Robber 2 points3 points  (2 children)

Soft next. I predict a bunch of drama is around the corner if you entertain her novels and crazy texts. Ignorance will send the hamster spinning. She will either contact you again to reestablish her plate status (she feels in competition with the other girl) or she'll go out and fuck a rando to make herself feel better. Or both. Whatever happens, don't forget your ability to walk away or your frame.

[–]vicious_armbar 0 points1 point  (1 child)

deleted What is this?

[–]Cunt_Robber -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Soft next means you dont contact her and let her come to you. Show that youre willing to walk away and let her decide whether to call your bluff or not. Make the hamster spin. Waiting three days and then contacting her if she hasn't contacted you first won't get you anywhere.

You soft next her to subtly punish her and let her know she overstepped her boundaries. She is aware of what she did, and she will understand the message. This way, if she wants to come back, she must enter your frame. Or, if she doesn't, sheMll never contact OP again. Either way, OP maintains his frame and moves on.

[–]brooklynisburnin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd be extra careful about pregnancies from now on.

[–]MilleniumForce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL that shit is hilarious. Her inviting you over the next day is fucking classic TRP material