I've noticed that I have a problem. Getting laid is a pretty big source of validation for me, and when I'm not getting laid regularly I can sometimes slip into some more beta characteristics. I don't think it's a matter of pedestalizing women, but more of an insecurity thing. I tend to feel shitty about myself if I'm not having sex, even though I generally do well in that spectrum (I almost always have at least one plate). Has anyone had similar feelings and overcome them?