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Anyone feel like in order to truly live the lifestyle of fucking attractive women as an adult, you have to design your entire life for that purpose? (career and everything) (self.asktrp)

submitted by diditwithoutdeal

It seems like the older guys (really mean any guy who is no longer in a school setting like college or high school anymore) I know who are out with hot girls and with a different hot girl every other month are the ones who designed their entire life for that very purpose.

Guys who took up a job as a club promoter, bartend at a nightclub, decided to photograph models for a living, or just dedicate their life to a profession where they are constantly interacting with good looking women.

On the flip side it seems like doctors, accountants, and most white collar professionals I know are struggling even though they make good money. Occasionally I meet one with a gold digger wife or one who has LTRed a hot girl but that is about it.

From what I am seeing, the guys in adulthood who get hot girls are those who designed their entire lives for that very purpose and decided to forego a good career and everything just so they could get hot girls.


[–]untitled1 16 points17 points  (1 child)

I never planned my entire life around getting women. My career has me interact with mostly men. But choosing to live in an apartment downtown above a bar has definitely helped.

I lift, dress well, make decent money, and have fun hobbies. Girls message me first on Tinder. That's enough for me.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Logistics bro. Loving it. How easy is life when you live alone near the bars!

[–]LLL3peat 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Women want to have fun. That's it. When you turn attracting a woman and making things due your job, it's the vibe you put out...

[–]JackGetsIt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It feels that way because the average salary isn't good enough to produce the lifestyle for what the average women lusts for. Regardless of career.

Most girls will drop the club promoter for the doctor any day of the week but not for the reasons the doctor wants. The people that spend a lot of time around women have positioned themselves as chad and not providers. This works because of the AFBB dichotomy. You too can do this with the right game and enough time with women. It's all about mystery.

[–]trpjnf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like part of the reason you don't see guys with white collar jobs fucking babes is because their job is part of their sexual strategy. Their life plan goes something like "work hard in school, get [white_collar_job], find a wife, buy a house, start a family, etc."

And guys who have these types of jobs are so focused on getting this type of lifestyle that they settle as quickly as possible. They're approaching 30, start dating a girl that's a few years older than them, and she's about to hit the wall. She wants to get married, because she realizes she's a ticking time bomb, and they think "oh boy! Someone wants to marry me". But if they knew the game a little better, were less willing to settle, or didn't want to get married so fucking bad, they'd gravitate towards a more RP lifestyle.

I guess what I'm saying is this: white collar jobs encourage a BP lifestyle (though there are RP men in these jobs), whereas being a club promoter, bartender, etc. encourages (perhaps requires) a RP mindset.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Women rate ~80 percent of men as being below-average. What do you expect?

[–]1oldredder 2 points3 points  (1 child)

yes, absolutely yes: if you are aiming for money you will have not much free time, and if you are aiming for pussy you have to remove most of your non-pussy-fucking time for work or research or learning or hanging with friends because there's no time to be half-assed with both.

[–]4TBhdd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, I made a similar post about this previously on why it seems that every financially successful guy I know is out of shape. Go figure.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not true AT ALL.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know who are out with hot girls and with a different hot girl every other month are the ones who designed their entire life for that very purpose.

Yeah. Contact with girls doesn't happen by accident.

On the flip side it seems like doctors, accountants, and most white collar professionals I know are struggling even though they make good money

This is because they are following a beta path.

There is another option: live your life, be attractive, don't be a beta, don't use money to get girls, have a hobby or something else you do that brings you into contact with women.

[–]foggydew42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the flip side it seems like doctors, accountants, and most white collar professionals I know are struggling even though they make good money. Occasionally I meet one with a gold digger wife or one who has LTRed a hot girl but that is about it.

This is mostly out of choice. It is easy to get plates but harder to get one night stands if you are in this profession. Girls will also push hard for an LTR if you are making six figures. There is also a high percentage of beta dudes working as doctors or accountants.

[–]blackedoutfast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not true at all.

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    [–]SpinPlates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    If you want to smash 9.9s then absolutely. You are correct OP.

    [–]ravenhiss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    You don't have to design your whole life for that (imo that's a bit of a shallow life) but if you want to interact with attractive women, you do need to have part of your life air marked for that.

    It is possible to become efficient enough at it to start dedicating less time to it, so that would be my goal.

    [–]TheHedonisticQueef -4 points-3 points  (3 children)

    Lemme hit that weed bro

    [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    why so many down votes? I support your hedonistic ways

    [–]LordThunderbolt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    You know I really that