The best/unexpected bits of RP truth you've received from women? (self.asktrp)

submitted by life_is_amazing100

Background: I was out with a potential plate last night and she dropped a rare bit of introspective thought and RP truth in the form of "I don't actually wanna get married, I just want a wedding"

I was actually shocked to meet a woman who had the introspection to realise this little bit of RP truth about herself and it got me curious as to what other rare/unexpected RP truth's you guys have heard from women?

[–][deleted] 60 points61 points  (19 children)

This is the very first bit of RP I ever heard.

As an almost-20 year old college student, a girl I really cared about (and liked sex with) broke up with me on the phone. She said to me:

"there's guys you date, and there's guys you marry. Pem, you're a guy for marriage; and I just don't care about that now."

It would take me another 22 years to figure out what she was talking about.

[–]life_is_amazing100[S] 28 points29 points  (2 children)

Dam, the whole female riding the cock carousel then settling down with a beta post wall explained perfectly in 2 sentences.

That's actually poetic.

[–]Senior ContributorOmLaLa 12 points13 points  (1 child)

Agreed. I'm posting that on a wall somewhere.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)


This is my earliest memory of hearing anything I could describe as a RP truth. At age 19, almost 20.

That's sad.

[–]JesstheJaffa 7 points8 points  (15 children)

As a chick though - ive been told the reversal.

'The chick you fuck. The chick you marry'

'The girl you introduce to the parents, the girl you dont introduce to the parents.'

Its funny seeing the other side.

Clarification: funny = interesting. Not amusing.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (1 child)

It had honestly never occurred to me that a girl would just want a fast fling, some laughs and some sex for a few months (which is what that was).

I grew up being told girls were all looking for husbands.

And yes, Jess, guys do look at girls that way. "Is this a fuck, or is this a girl you take home to Mother?"

[–]JesstheJaffa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hmm i cant speak for all women but some of my female circle wanted flings. Im guessing for similar reasons men would: Focus on career have fun before settling down building experience so they'll choose the right guy.

The third point may need clarification but the general impression is 'date and get to know what's out there so you choose the right person and don't marry young and get divorced'.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (4 children)

True. Men get an upgrade. Women get a downgrade.

The chick men fuck is all ass and tits. It is objectification at it's finest. The same shit women complain about every now and then. Getting used and being seen as ass and tits. It bothers them and they will tell you it is disrespectful. Can't deny it. They want to be seen as more and that would be the wife aka 'The chick you marry'.

The chick you fuck = Some woman willing to put out. An outlet. The chick you marry = More than that. More respect.

For women it is AF/BB. They settle for a provider having spent their sexual best with guys giving them the tingles.

The man you think of as fun = Guy with Alpha traits. Tingles. The man you want to marry = Beta provider nice guy traits. Safety net.

[–]JesstheJaffa -1 points0 points  (3 children)

Actually 100% not the trend in my life or a few of my friends. We upgraded with the guys who we decided were long term because they were the package - attractive, considerate, compatible with interests and goals.

Not saying that trend doesn't exist on a macro level, perhaps more in the states. I just haven't seen it.

[–]redadactyl 1 point2 points  (1 child)

hypergamy at its finest.

[–]JesstheJaffa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um no. That would require a comparison to myself which i haven't done. Also ew. With universal access to education anyone can earn a spot at a top uni or a good career, no one pays attention to family background in that sort of caste mentality. You know, its the aussie battler, fair-go idea, kinda like the American Dream before people used it as an excuse to be selfish and create an unfair playing field.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough. The underlying point I was making is that there is a difference between the men that women simply want to fuck and the women that men simply want to fuck. They cannot be equated. No low quality male has ever been that man women 'only want to fuck' which is why it is almost always a good thing while even these women are women men will want to simply fuck and not marry.

[–]life_is_amazing100[S] 0 points1 point  (5 children)

That's interesting, but the only downside to that is that most guy's nowadays don't have that classification of girls unless they've been told that she's an outright slut. So that whole dynamic will be witnessed far more by men than women, How many times has it happened to you and under what circumstances?

[–]JesstheJaffa 0 points1 point  (4 children)

I've seen this mainly in casual conversations and popular culture with one exception where it was directed at me, but by a man I rebuffed so I basically classify that as a generic insult.

[–]life_is_amazing100[S] 0 points1 point  (3 children)

That's a huge difference between men and women, it was said to you as an insult by someone who was butthurt at you rejecting them to get back at you while the whole AF/BB dynamic is ingrained into women so when it's said to a guy its not used as the response to a rejection but as the rejection itself similar to a LJBF rejection.

[–]JesstheJaffa 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Why would a woman use that for a rejection if they aren't looking for a long term relationship?

[–]life_is_amazing100[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

A great explanation of the LJBF rejection: http://therationalmale.com/2012/11/29/friends-like-these/

If on the other hand you mean using the AF/BB as a rejection it's explained rather well here: http://therationalmale.com/2015/07/20/that-was-then/

[–]JesstheJaffa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How about the 'you are making me feel really uncomfortable and since your larger than me and im already scared, im not taking the risk of ending up dead in an alley'. :P

But ty, happy for reading material.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (1 child)

But with men it isn't a 'time' thing. Men at every age and at every phase in their life are ready and willing to meet/date a woman who could be "wife material". We don't feel an inante need to spend our youth fucking as many hot women as possible...we will do it when/if we can't find a "good" woman, but we won't shut down 'wife material' because it isn't "what were looking for right now".

[–]JesstheJaffa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've seen the opposite of that. 'I'll fuck around and settle when I'm thirty and have kids'.

[–]103342 22 points23 points  (6 children)

One time I said to a girl I was kinda dating:

Me: "I really believe in love you know".

She: "Ah? Really?"

Me: "Yeah, I want to meet the perfect girl, and marry her"

She: "You will never find that girl"

Me: "Why?"

She: "Girls only care about themselves, they are selfish."

I swear to god I'm not making this up.

[–]life_is_amazing100[S] 2 points3 points  (5 children)

Solipsism at its finest lol. I'm surprised she could be so upfront about her selfishness

[–]ckp2906 0 points1 point  (4 children)

Can you explain your understanding of solipsism? I think i might've gotten it wrong. (Not native english/american)

[–]life_is_amazing100[S] 0 points1 point  (3 children)

Solipsism: Being self-centred or selfish. Here are some great articles that demonstrate the solipsistic thinking of women:



[–]ckp2906 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Thought it was more the lack of acknowledgement of others reality or "being".

[–]life_is_amazing100[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Your right, but when it boils down it is the quality of being selfish to the extent that you can only perceive your view of the world. Women are both selfish and solipstic (in the sense that they assume dating works exactly the same for men and that men want the same imperatives as them securing commitment instead of sex with as many as possible and will do the exact same actions as them to get what they want e.g. "lying,stealing,manipulating").

It's one of the reason's that you always hear women complaining "why do the men I meet only want sex!! what's wrong with them?!?" because they just can't comprehend that men are naturally inclined to want to have loads of sex rather than be in a committed relationship to the highest quality "alpha-female".

[–]ckp2906 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah thanks, the example sorted it out for me.

[–][deleted] 17 points18 points  (5 children)

I was once at a family gathering and my aunt, a 40 + woman who is past her prime years but still a very positive and upbeat person, asked me if I have a girlfriend. When I said that I didn't because I didn't know how to talk to or approach them, she told me:

"Girls never know what they want and it doesn't really matter what you say, but rather how you make her feel."

[–]life_is_amazing100[S] 4 points5 points  (3 children)

All about the feelz, how have you applied this advice to your game?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

I haven't gamed a girl in almost a year because I need some serious self-work, but I have used that kind of information when dealing with women. Whenever a girl, even if it's my mother or older sister, says something with a lot of emotion towards me, good or bad, that means you're doing something right.

For example, whenever my sister throws a temper tantrum at me because I don't do something that she wants at that current point in time, I just shrug it off because in reality, women hardly ever mean what they say when the feelz take over.

[–]RedPharaohRising 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's worse when they hold that grudge and make passive-aggressive bitchfight comments.

[–]Senior ContributorOmLaLa 35 points36 points  (10 children)

"[Beta] told me you're fucking a bunch of other women."


"Like [Mutual Friend] and [Mutual Friend]."



"...Aaaand I'm okay with that."

"That's just great. Congratulations. So proud."

"...But when you fuck them, you have to think of me from now on."

"That's stupid."

"I'm demanding it."

"You can't demand that. You can't demand anything."


"It would make me feel better if you at least said you would."

"...so lying makes you feel better?"



"The Moon is made of cheese."

"...feel better?"

"(laughs) Strangely, yeah."

"...you're so fucking dumb."

"And YOU'RE a fucking prick!"


TL;DR- Last night I learned that girls can say some dumb shit sometimes.

[–]life_is_amazing100[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm surprised to hear her admit it lol. Most of the women I know always go on about the "truth" being of utmost important and how I should always be honest even though they blatantly lie through their teeth.

It wasn't until a few months ago when my older bro told me to take out the trash in the morning and I got into an argument with him because I didn't want to that I realised just how manipulative and good at lying women can be. My mother directly said to me "you should've just said that you would do it, you know the next morning he's not going to get up early enough to enforce it so play along with what he's saying but just don't do it". AWALT

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child)


What is this?

[–]Senior ContributorOmLaLa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

sometimes they'll actually leave you if you refuse to validate them.

I've lost some good plates this way. So harsh but so true.

[–]afroose 11 points12 points  (3 children)

I have a lot.

One girl talked me about a guy she met then she showed the text to one of her friend and told how she interpreted those text to her friend, I did heard a bit . The first text was " I had fun last night, can't wait to see you again " she said " Look at him he is all nostalgic, he did dream of me " then he asked her out using this " Hey maybe we should hangout ? " she didn't answer right after ( I think waiting an 1 hour after this text is a test that he failed ) so the guy sent another text saying " Sorry maybe I was too sudden " she said something like " Hell yeah you are too sudden, look how horny he his, his dick is about to explode " . there is more but for her niceness = needy, I knew about TRP but this shit was hard to hear.

One girl once, told me that my friend X should have a hard time with women because he was too nice and people were comfortable around him.

There's a lot more but here are the sentence I heard from girls:

  • " Yeah my boyfriend is ugly but there were a lot of girls around him so I was attracted "
  • " You can cook, you are nice and caring , Perfect husband material ! "
  • " Yes I'm with X, but you know I don't really like him "
  • " I can't be with a man whose life is centered around me "
  • " he is ugly but he looks masculine "
  • " He beats me but I love him " ( I laughed so hard )
  • " Yes I should tell him clearly that there will never be anything between us, but you see he is nice, we went to restaurants together and all I want to keep him as a friend " ( obviously he did pay )
  • " Yeah I have a boyfriend but I keep talking to guys, It's good to feel desired Haha " * shows some shirtless pictures of guys who text her all day long *
  • " When I go to club I don't bring any money, I charm a guy in the queue he pays for me and my friends then when we are in I look for another guy to pay me drinks. "
  • " You re fine and all but I don't see myself with you now maybe later okay ? "

[–]life_is_amazing100[S] 6 points7 points  (2 children)

  • The power of pre-selection
  • Beta bucks
  • Using him for his security till she can branch swing
  • Wanting a man who's more focused on himself than her
  • ?
  • lmao
  • exploiting his feelings for her for money
  • attention whoring (needing external validation)
  • this is so true, my female acquaintance's in uni could go to a club without their purse's, and leave; drunk, in a cab, with a kebab.
  • Saving the beta bucks for when she hits the wall.

Wow you've basically gotten a master course of RP truths from these girls.

[–]afroose 3 points4 points  (1 child)

Yeah but I was thinking " There are not all like this " . They made the pill so easy to swallow.

The one you didn't understand just mean manliness attract women, feminine women attract male. I was talking to a friend about a guy who could get chicks while being ugly af. Women and feminist in general encourage men to be girly they say that they want emotional men, this bitch told me that being ugly is ok only if you are manly.

[–]life_is_amazing100[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, I see what you mean. I know quite a few guys who embody masculine traits such as the want for freedom, danger, adventure, stoicism who aren't the best lookers but still manage to secure quality poon without the help of pickup or TRP.

I agree with you Our fem-centric culture and feminism really are poison for men, women are trying to make us more like them without realising that all this does is kill attraction.

[–]G4RRETT 9 points10 points  (1 child)

Just today, a girl I've been seeing for a few months texts me: "I actually like you being a dick and not so romantic so dont change :)" I immediately thought of this sub haha

[–]life_is_amazing100[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

lool straight from the horses mouth, keep up the good work brother!

[–]Endorsed Contributorstickfiguresk 7 points8 points  (3 children)

I met a pretty lady and things were pretty clear that we were about to go back to her place to fuck. Before we left the bar, she emptied her baggage on me so that I'd be prepared for what was at her place. With a vacant, numb look in her eyes, she told me she was still technically married, and her roommate was actually her husband. And she had a boyfriend. And she'd been unemployed for a long time. In fact, her husband gives her an allowance and he's been paying for about half of our drinks, and the charge for the uber she was about to order was also going on his tab.

I wasn't terribly surprised by any of these things individually, though I was surprised that there was SO MUCH. I expected a mess, but her expression is what surprised me. It said, "I'm depressed because everybody keeps enabling me to be a monster."

Another instance(not from women): after shitting where I ate, 6-7 years ago, and then having that situation go nuclear, my boss pulled me in the backroom to have a talk. Him and another guy sat me down, "Stick, we have to tell you something. Now, when I say this, I'm not talking about your sister, or your mother, or anything like that... but all women are whores. All of them."

Heh, right?

"No, stick, this isn't a joke. I'm serious. All women are whores. Every one of them. Except your sister and your mother."

I knew he was right, but couldn't give up hope so easily. That took another 3-4 years.

[–]Endorsed Contributorbalalasaurus 8 points9 points  (2 children)

I'm depressed because everybody keeps enabling me to be a monster.

Even without verbally communicating it, she still shifts the burden of responsibility away from herself.

Funny thing is, I've read a few fat people stories lately and the correlation between hamstering and fatlogic is actually quite intriguing.

[–]life_is_amazing100[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've only recently begun realising the full extent of this responsibility shirting, no matter what "it's not my fault because no one stopped me"

I've given up with trying to show fat people that have fat logic the error of their ways, too many ppl will tell them "your fine just as you are the world is wrong for not liking fat people" to force them not to change, but the few who see through this bs and actually make a change good for them!

[–]Endorsed Contributorstickfiguresk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I expect that from all women. They're like children, after all, but especially in the presence of a male(role model?) That doesn't stand up for himself. I kinda felt bad for her. Her life would have been more productive if her husband wasn't a maximum cuckold.

I gave her a side hug, kissed her on the head and fucked the shit out of her two rooms down from where her husband was sleeping. I've been with more wives than Larry King and I have no sympathy for men that stay with these whores.

I should leave business cards: ask why I fucked your wife on r/askTRP.

[–]TRP Vanguardnicethingyoucanthave 15 points16 points  (3 children)

A buddy and I once picked up a semi-famous chick (on TV, but not a big deal) and her friend, who was also her roommate. The roommate told me that famous chick brings home a different guy every night, and that she (roommate) gets a laugh out of sabotaging them.

"How?" I asked. She says that she tells the guys to really dote on famous chick, and treat her really nicely. She says that she's seen it over and over again where a guy will pick her up by being an asshole, but then if he's nice to her, she loses all interest.

She even gave me an example. She said that a guy was in their kitchen one morning, and he asks her to tell famous chick "bye" for him, because she was still asleep. Roommate hands guy a post-it and suggests that he leave her a cute message on the fridge. He does. Famous chick wakes up and sees it and goes, "ugh!" and throws it away, and then never replies to any of the guy's texts.

[–]life_is_amazing100[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Telling guys to show beta traits to turn her off, that's actually evil lmao.

[–]IGoYouStayTwoAutumns 9 points10 points  (1 child)

This is actually really useful advice. If a girl you're into is dating (or just hooking up with) a total douchebag (we've all been there), the last thing you want to do is point out (out loud), "Oh my God, that guy is so gross, what a total douchebag..." (As you'll just get her even more attracted to the man.) Instead, say, "Oh my God, yeah, I LOVE that guy!! He's such a NICE guy, isn't he? So sweet. Really. Totally reliable, you just know he'd be there for you in a pinch. Kinda guy that would've stayed up all night to help you with your Calculus homework back in school, you know? Such a sweet, nice guy..."

Guaranteed: she'll break up with him the next day.

[–]btharmony 16 points17 points  (1 child)

Girl I was interested in plating tells me "guys are dumb, but women are manipulative" She's always been upfront about irrational female tendencies. So +1 to her

[–]solbrothers 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Louis ck said "guys will fuck shit up. Girls are fucked up".

[–]MeatCurtainRod 9 points10 points  (8 children)

A girl I was FWB with a while back had a lot of honesty going from her. She told me things like: "girls get off one of two ways, if she doesn't want to be with the guy then he needs a large cock, and she'll get off eventually. Or if she is really into him, then his penis size doesn't matter and she'll get off."

Sounds like to me this mindset is in direct alignment with how they think about guys they date or guys they marry.

[–]life_is_amazing100[S] 0 points1 point  (7 children)

if she doesn't want to be with the guy then he needs a large cock

Translation:If she just wants to have sex with him then he needs to be alpha and good in the sack

Or if she is really into him, then penis size doesn't matter and she'll get off

Translation:If she's decided his her BB it doesn't matter whether she enjoys the sex or not, he's not going to be getting much of it

[–]FrameWalker 7 points8 points  (6 children)

I think what this gets at is actually the psychologal aspect of sex. The physical simulation can get her off yeah but if you're mindfucking her she'll cum much faster. Game her hard so she sees you as the hottest man

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

You know it's funny you say that this one chick I didn't even really fuck her yet I was still kinda half way and stuck it in anyway 2 pumps and she came.

She literally told me, I just came check. She did.

I am thinking to myself well I cant really fuck this up now even if I'm terrible from this point forward in every sexual encounter I ever have; I 2 pumped a chick mission accomplished.

[–]DuncanMonroe -2 points-1 points  (3 children)

I think you missed the point, brother

[–]afroose 7 points8 points  (1 child)

I'd like someone to confirm the meaning of this one. What I understood is " girls get off one of two ways, if the guy is a beta he needs a large cock (living dildo), and she'll still get off. If he is a dominant alpha and gives her tingle his penis size doesn't matter she'll get off"

[–]RedditArgument -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Regardless of what was intended, this is the truth of the matter.

[–]FrameWalker -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The tribe has spoken ;) BB is very true. I think it's easier to make girls cum if you're in the AF role

[–]Terapia_Tapioco 4 points5 points  (3 children)

This is a fb chat I had last year with a woman I met once in a train two years earlier and had never met again. She keeps posting pictures of her in clubs and so on.

Acquaintance: "I would like to finally find a nice guy, where are the non-assholes?"

Me: "Meh, nice guys are not attractive"

She: "You're absolutely right, but I'm 40 already! Anyway, let me know if you happen to be on this part of the country, I would love to see you".

I hadn't even discovered TRP at the time (I had read No More Mr Nice Guy, though, so I had already started opening my eyes), but it was quite obvious what she was trying to do, even without knowing RP theory.

The RP truth is obviously the "you're right" part about Nice GuysTM not being attractive/interesting.

[–]life_is_amazing100[S] 2 points3 points  (2 children)

Ah, really took me awhile to digest that being a beta/(nice guys) never generates the tingles of alpha behavior

[–]Terapia_Tapioco 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I still have to fully digest it, to be honest.

I understood it at an intellectual level, and I see confirmations of it time and again, but I still catch myself being NiceTM sometimes.

[–]life_is_amazing100[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its a hard one to kick, making the switch from just being NiceTM all the time to being kind and rewarding people who deserve it. You've got to picture yourself as an adult looking after a child, if your nice all the time the child will just be spoilt but if your are only nice when they've done something that deserves it they'll appreciate it much more.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (2 children)

"Saying I love you", then leaving to south America to get drilled because she was into the culture.

[–]life_is_amazing100[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Dam, did you end the LTR when she said that or did you not find out about it immediately?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I betaed for a bit, giving her "hope". And when she came back to the states I deleted every instance of social media and number. And told her to fuck off cus I found better girls.

[–]CuntyMcFagNuts69 9 points10 points  (4 children)

Told LTR that if she wasn't meeting my needs I will go out to the bars and find a girl that would for the night (this was slightly after TRP became my life)

Her: I don't blame you, I would too

[–]life_is_amazing100[S] 2 points3 points  (3 children)

Damn! That must've been a cold wake up call. How did things pan out with your LTR after you made that ultimatum?

[–]CuntyMcFagNuts69 7 points8 points  (2 children)

Had awesome sex. This was during a really rough time when I wasn't getting laid and she was holding all the strings. Sex like once every two weeks. Now I get it when I want. I use dread when needed

[–]life_is_amazing100[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Good for you man! I'm always weary of ultimatums like that, for me personally dread tends to work better when I just demonstrate rather than explicating but in your situation it seems like it was a quick and effective fix.

[–]CuntyMcFagNuts69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's true. It's all about knowing when and how to use. It's like an A/C unit. People think just throw the biggest unit on your house to get it cold fast when in fact that can cause mold and cost you huge. Size of dread is everything. That was when I hit the wall and was basically, I'm done if you don't quit your shit, no more masturabting and being told no for sex.

I use light dread when she brings up guys or points out what other people have that I don't. Works wonders

[–]D_Man_Loves_You 5 points6 points  (2 children)

After I found this sub I probably cried in my shower for 3 straight days. I had floods of memories of past relationships and encounters with girls that I just totally read wrong. Or actions I didn't take because society had raised a good lil' beta! lol. Or why a girl that I was crushing on suddenly wasn't interested in me anymore. It's all explained here (in /r/asktrp).

Probably my favorite line, and easiest to read, was: "Do whatever you want to me."

(In the context: I was a musician who hosted an Open Mic at her favorite watering hole. Of which she had a huge crush on one of the bartenders. He was playing his game tight and it was frustrating to her. So she would punish him by getting with me. Was totally confusing at the time [I didn't mind or care to find out why], but now I know why she did it.)

[–]Mans_Right_To_Choose 1 point2 points  (1 child)

"Do whatever you want to me."

Did you?

If not, I'd have cried for three days too.

[–]D_Man_Loves_You 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course.

[–]Zeparic 8 points9 points  (0 children)

"Women are stupid." -Her

[–]Diabolo_Advocato 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her: my friend was interested in a guy and he was always paying for her. Then he all of a sudden stopped talking to her and she was upset. I told her that he didn't enjoy being treated as an ATM. If he is dating you and paying for everything then that is basically a girlfriend tax. I don't want to be a tax.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Looking back the one that stands out for me was this one. I was stealing this guys girl. This guy I knew fairly well. (yes yes I'm an ass get over it) He got her based almost exclusively on scarcity and his ability to get pot and play some pretty mediocre guitar.

She starts cheating on him with me and sending photos and shit (without being request just bam thinking of you photo) I actually got in shit at work cause she sent one to my company phone. Of course my boss was only doing the shit to CYA after we left the office he pretty much did the south park style "Niiiiicccccccceeeee."

Anyway back on track.

I said to her after we fucked. "I want to to go home and touch yourself thinking about me."

"I already do."

I grinned at her and she then pops out this little gem.

"When I fuck (boyfriend) it's not the same, I just lay there like a rag doll thinking about how much better it would be with you."

Then looked at me for approval like a puppy that thought it did something good.

Being pretty BP I naturally grinned and shock my head a little.

Beta Billy get shit, I'm throwing her into new positions every 5 minutes.

When the after relationship was on the rock we were still fucking but she was less frisky I only now realize I was becoming beta billy #2.

[–]daygamer69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Girls telling me that they think marriage would be very boring because they'ld be riding the same dick every night.

[–]animalpoo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I became temporarily homeless .... Which permanently ended the relationship

[–]djthiago1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A classic. This girl at my school is going to marry some dude she told me she doesn't like because she "dreams of a wedding". Addionally, last guy that dumped her got sued by her for "psychological damages" because he left her close to their wedding day. She won.

[–]vorverk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was druknenly talking to my sister about some of the TRP stuff once. Solipsism, CC, AF/BB, marriage, logic based on emotions etc. She agreed to most of it (some hamstering in between). At the end she said we guys shouldn't know about this stuff anyway and we shouldn't talk about this stuff. They know much more about themselves than they'd like to admit.

[–]NPIF 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My main is a wealth of these. The most recent one was the other day. As we're laying in bed post-coitus we started talking about sexuality and personal preferences and she asked me if I was initially attracted to her because of her low N count.

Now she knows my reddit name and has read through my posts. Interestingly enough she agrees with most of what I've written. So I answered her by replying that while it's certainly a positive aspect of who she is, I think the absence of bitterness that comes with avoiding the CC is what really makes her more attractive.

That's when she said the following to me: *"I don't think I would have been as attracted to you if you had less partners."

I pushed a little deeper into this and asked her "If I had only 4 or 5 sexual partners, would you still find me as attractive?" her reply? No.

Why is this? Because preselection is 100% real. Women want to know the guy they are after is wanted by other women. It's partly a competition and ego thing, but more so than that it's basic biology. Every woman wants to be with the highest quality man she can find, and if you're the guy that has 4-5 women who want your dick at any given time, your plates and/or ltr know they have to work that much harder to keep you around and invested.

Girls like to chase far more than being chased. The key is to be worth chasing.

[–]exilesoul 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is fucking gold