I can't live the way you guys do, i just can't. I read some of the things here and on the main sub and agree with them, but there's such a disconnect for me.
So many posts here are filled with hate, cynicism, bitterness, and distrust. It's not a healthy way to live. It seems like most people here have such a negative view of women (call it "true" if you want, it's still not positive). You can't trust women, women are manipulative, women don't ever love, women will leave you instantly, you can't be vulnerable and honest, etc.
I don't know how you guys do it. How you live and act with such strong negative feelings. Day after day these bleak thoughts and opinions on others and the way the world works.
Any idea of romance is gone. Any idea of love is gone. Any enjoyment of being in a real relationship is gone. Any positive views of women are gone.
I understand where you guys are coming from, but i have no idea how the hell someone could embrace everything in full here and be happy, no matter how much they say they are.