Summary: caught 4.5 year LTR texting her coworker. she reveals they wanted to get to know each other. many messages and pics were exchanged via snapchat(idk what they were tho) many texts were exchanged as well. i read them and they were extremely flirty and inappropriate.
been in a LTR for 4.5 years. our lives are basically interconnected at this point.
but my sweet little princess (lol) has been what seems to be an intimate conversation-based relationship with a co-worker. but who knows...maybe she was getting banged during lunch.
i'm not new to TRP
bare with me as i try to explain. this happened a few hours ago. still trying to process.
It all started with SnapChat app on her phone and her points on there were racking up rather fast--for those who don't know you rack up points by sending or receiving pictures or messages to your friends on there. the pictures /messages aren't saved they only show for a few seconds. I noticed at the beginning of the week that her points were racking up fast. i found it weird.<---- the "tingle" #1
i obviously don't mention it or make a big deal about it.
week goes by. everything is as usual. we're good.
yesterday throughout the day she mentions that she is going to a concert with her friend today. its pretty last minute to tell me but i just say "cool, have fun". <--- tingle #2
we hang out with some friends have some drinks, we get back to her place around 2am and get ready for bed. she steps out to the bathroom and leaves her phone.
curiosity got the best of me and i checked her messages and snapchat. (many trp'ers are against checking phones, many aren't. i'm part of the trust but verify camp)
her and a coworker have been having EXTREMELY flirty conversations via text the last few weeks. implying that what they are doing is wrong. only the lord knows what pictures were sent on snapchat since i couldn't view them.
i also find out he is going to the same concert today too. (coincidence? i think not)
i put her phone where it was. she walks in i start to get dressed again and she asks me where i'm going. i say "i'm going home and this relationship is over. you know the reason why"
she begs me to stay and hear her out. wouldn't let me leave by physically blocking the door. i could have easily thrown her ass across the fucking living room but i stopped myself. don't want some accusations.
the guy is super corny but whatever. in classic woman fashion she reveals that he was giving her a different type of attention and that his family comes from money. lol. dumbass. that the messages were "only words" and that nothing was gonna happen and nothing physical ever happened. "they were just getting to know each other."
i want to point out that i never blatantly made it seem like i checked her phone. i lead her to confess to me what she has been doing.
anyway, the obvious answer here is to drop her. right?
the kicker, we're leaving on a vacation that i set up with a whole bunch of friends on thursday. hah. i'm still planning to go as i'm the one that set everything up and i've been looking forward to it forever now. should be fun.