Just thought I'd describe the events for the last girl I hooked up with, I'm sure many of you will share similar experiences (especially at College like me where AWALT).
Went on a date with this girl I matched on tinder.
As soon as she walked in I knew this was a girl on the CC.
Throughout the dates there were subtle shit tests and her testing my frame. We were teasing, there was energy and we quickly stopped off at hers where her lesbian friend saw me and text her "you've got to sleep with him tonight". Definitely a compliment coming from a dick-hater.
After I fucked her at mine I got the "Will I ever see you again?" "How many girls have you slept with?" "You're definitely going to pump and dump me". I instantly caught on that she wasn't asking me what I wanted, she was telling herself it to fulfil her fantasy.
She went back to hers and she text me first, I replied and went to bed. I was busy for the next day and we text a couple of times but not as much as predate. I made a big mistake texting "Hopefully I'll see you again" which dried her up like a desert. She replied "yeah may be". I waited a bit and said "Revs (a bar) Tuesday 9" which she text back saying "I'll let you know".
"I'll let you know" may as well be translated to I'll review my options with other guys. You may say I was quick to write it off but my philosophy is 'If Harry Styles asked her out, she wouldn't say "I'll let you know"'. I'm not angry at this girl, in fact it was good experience that the date went as smoothly as it did, she ended up naked in my bed and it was hardly a big surprise I'd never see her again because it was so obvious she was out just for the cock and fun. I didn't reply to her last message, what's the point?
I've always been prone to oneitis so my protocol now is whenever it doesn't work out with a girl I dated (1 or 5 dates) I put down immediate radio-silence, delete her number and any connection on social media. If it hasn't worked out, it hasn't worked out and time is my currency and I'm not spending time looking at her life online.
I woke up this morning to a text saying "You unmatched me on tinder, how very rude". I chuckled. It was rude that she said "I'll let you know" instead of "I enjoyed seeing you but I'm not that interested". It also raises the question why was she looking at my tinder profile again... I'll never know. One thing is I'm glad she replied saying that, because she'll never get an answer from me and that'll drive her crazy.
On to the next girl at University. I'm going to try and put more effort into my real-life game. Tinder is good but it really is only hook-ups and I'd have more chance finding a girl who isn't on tinder, on a night out, where I'd have a greater chance of getting some girls who I regularly hook up with, not just the one-timers.