We get a lot of women coming here saying things like, "I love RPW but I don't believe in all of it!" or "You all say to do X, Y, and Z and he's not happy and I'm not happy" or "my husband isn't responding" or so on and so forth.
Here's the thing about RPW. Yes, we have lots of theories about a lot of things regarding sexual strategy. Quite frankly, we don't really care if you believe any of it, all of it, or none of it. What we do care about is your happiness and self improvement as women and you having a fantastic relationship. So here is the beginning and the end of it.
Find a good man and defer to him. Advice on the internet be damned.
If you take nothing else away from this subreddit, take away this. At the end of the day, the whys of it all don't really matter if you are happy and a good woman to a good man.
*For those who read this and think, "Why do you think it has to be this way for everyone!" We don't think that. Do what you want, but this is what this subreddit is about. You can go elsewhere for that line of thinking.