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THEORYRed Pill is power. Here are some (amazing) benefits of taking TRP as a woman (self.RedPillWomen)

submitted by cristiana33Endorsed Contributor

Intro: Men need TRP. Women technically don't. Blue pill women get commitment/validation without needing a special strategy.

We can pretty much do well for ourselves even without red pill, but I think it comes with amazing benefits for us as individuals so I made a list.


Simplified view of the world.

How simple are we really, as humans? Well.. Wait. Blue Pill wants to answer this one.

Blue pill: We are complex individuals, each of us is unique, everybody likes something else, nothing is simple and we re nothing alike.

There I was, out of college, understanding absolutely nothing about what was around me. Social interactions were weird, I was anxious, I was browsing tumblr and calling myself a feminist.

The bluepill system loves creating confusion and ambiguity, I simply did not understand what was expected of me and how does everything work. I was confused and scared.

TRP lays us some universal rules by which us, as humans, think and behave.

TRP says we're not that damn special. We're mammals, we have instincts, we have needs. We're weak, but by accepting weakness we can build strength. Redpill is all about the factual, observable reality.

Post-TRP I understood my place as a woman in society, what I am valued on, I understood why I was attracted to "douchebags" and not "nice guys". I understood why girls I considered "stupid and boring" (I was jealous of them) were getting guys that would not look at me twice.

I made sense of things in retrospective. Look back on your teen/young adult years through Red Pill lens, isn't it all just so simple?


Reduced social anxiety

Maybe this deserve its own post but I will say this: I dropped out of college because I could not handle social anxiety. Since I started reading TRP I have no social anxiety anymore & here's how it worked for me:

I was hyperventilating reading on TRP how men rate women on scales from 1-10. In my tumblristic world men never did that. I had no idea men rate women like that. I was disappointed.

To me personality was the most important thing men valued in girls. "C'mon, there must be some mentions about strong women around here!"

Mindblown.

I realized the lies. I realized that my social anxiety didn't matter. Its source was my inability to meet imaginary expectations in terms of "my personality." I was stressing that I was boring and that I was stupid.

Should I be witty? What should I say?

I don't want to seem dumb, nobody likes a dumb girl. Oh, I must seem fun and bubbly!

I realize no matter how stupid I am or how boring I am, it just doesn't matter. My role as a woman is not to lead the conversation and be the witty entertainer. If you have social anxiety focus on looking good and polished and getting rid of bitch face (if you posses it). Now relax. Nobody is going to judge you, disqualify you or criticize you based on anything else.

The lesser you speak the better, it makes your word valuable.

Don't ramble like anxious people do. Good posture and body language do all the work.

There's a reason guys at r/TheRedPill "envy" our privileged position as women, we honestly don't have that social pressure on us like they do. So make the most of this.


No anger, no pettiness.

Many women are angry and petty, aren't they? Most of them are feminists weirdly.

We here, at r/RedPillWomen seem to be pretty cool & collected.

When you don't try to change the world to fit your needs and you play by the ancestral rules you are much happier.

Bluepill tells you that you can change the world. Do a hashtag. Make a movement. Run a marathon on your period without a sanitary pad. You can change the world, girl!

Actually you can't and that creates frustration.

Look on body positive instagram accounts - those girls are rabid. They are angry, they post passive-aggressive quotes and surf the web for articles to be offended by.

Sounds exhausting to me.

A RPWoman knows for example that "f*ckboys" just follow their interest. Why be angry at biological instincts of mating with as many women as possible? Why be angry men are attracted to youth? If they weren't, they would have mated with old infertile women.

In this subreddit are in a much better place mentally then our blue pill counterparts. Ever since I understood the rules of nature I cannot be angered by petty things and so should every RPWoman.


The ability to make choices wisely

If somebody asked my N-count before TRP I would have lied about it saying at least 5. It's...way lower. I didn't want to seem like a loser.

Yes, I was that programmed. I was that beta that I believed a low N-count is detrimental to my value so I was willing to say that I slept with at least 5 men, even though I did not.

I'm sure even some BP women know that a high N-count is unattractive but I didn't. This is called "projection mentality". Because a man who sleeps around increases his value, I believed this applies to me also. Now you can see how easy you can make a bad choice while under blue pill spell. Imagine what kind of choices that mindset would make me do.

Luckily I took TRP in time and I maintained my integrity.

Blue Pill screws up your choices, your ability to discern things correctly and gives you a set of values that are not real in application. Riding the CC is one of blue pill's main attractions and we know how that turns out.

In a climate of confusion/ambiguity anything goes, there's no right & wrong (because everybody's different, right?).

On the pill the lines are clear and the hamster is silent - this always leads to better choices.


TLDR; There is so much more to RP than a sexual strategy. Read what I wrote in bold. We're lucky we're out of the matrix.


[–]noodleworld 20 points21 points  (6 children)

I don't entirely understand your social anxiety point? Like, yeah, if you're an 8-10, sure. But if you see yourself as less than that, then it would seem like there would be extra pressure to compensate with a cute personality. Guys rate personality on scales just like they do for our looks, after all (at least the ones at my schools did). Finding the balance between hot and bitchy/crazy is crucial to them for anything beyond a casual encounter.

The other parts are spot on though.

[–]SuperSlavisWifeEndorsed Contributor 3 points4 points  (5 children)

Jon's explanation for the male ratings and non-physical traits is "1-8+". Basically, there is no true 0 because at that point a girl doesn't register as female to a guy's brain. But there is also no 9 or 10, because guys idealize them both and they are subjective. The 8 is your subjective best, the 1 is your subjective worst, both are within parameter of what you want.

Then we get the +.

The + is basically an infinite number of extra points a woman can gain by being WOMAN+. If you are above average in looks, sweet and kind and generous, a guy might call you a 6/8+2. So the end result is you can compete with an 8 who does not possess your personality, but not with an 8 who is also sweet, kind, and generous.

He literally ranks everything like that now. "The omelet is a 7/8+1. Good for an omelet, still just an omelet, but an extra point for green peppers." :p

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (3 children)

I love this! I really like all the points of your husband's you post here. He should blog.

[–]SuperSlavisWifeEndorsed Contributor 0 points1 point  (2 children)

I keep telling him this, but between being asocial and busy, he hasn't really got around to it. I even set him up a blog using a disqus moniker he used. But it's up to him in the end.

Welcome back, and congrats on the new arrival. How are you holding up?

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Thank you! I feel really good actually, no pain, no real lasting effects, eight days out. It's good to be back. I've been lurking the last week however I didn't want to jump back in until I was sure I could stay. I was here every day anyway!

[–]SuperSlavisWifeEndorsed Contributor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad to hear. :) Make sure to keep getting plenty of rest and eat well.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok I finally understand sigmas lol

I respect the detail of his system. He could take it further...

  • * is personality, because she shines like a star, # is physical, because pound symbol

Woman with above average in looks, sweet and kind and generous = 6/8+2*

I hope this makes him smile :)

[–]lyssavirus 9 points10 points  (7 children)

or you can be 34 like me and without real hope either way

[–]neon_prayers 6 points7 points  (6 children)

What? Change your attitude and change your life;)

It's never too late to improve yourself. Get yourself into a feminine frame of mine, work on improving your looks and health and fashion and be a positive energy and there is no reason that you, at the age of 34, can't find a mate.

Slowly immerse yourself in this sub. I started reading it a year ago and though I didn't realize it at first, it slowly transformed my mindset. Knowing the truth gives you a leg up. I'm the happiest I've ever been not just because of this sub but because I've been on a self improvement journey and I feel good about myself; men are drawn to a woman with that inner light one can only possess when she truly values and cares for herself; you can do that for yourself, too:)

[–]lyssavirus 2 points3 points  (5 children)

Well it's a little discouraging when all women I know are married or in LTRs, and there's definitely not an RP woman amongst them. I do my best and it doesn't really matter. By this age all the men who wanted to get married have already done it. Meanwhile, I hit the wall years ago, spent a depressed and anxious lifetime accomplishing nothing much and... now I guess I just complain on the internet. Lost my motivation, I guess.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (4 children)

How about looking for an older man? A man 40-45 probably has been divorced or in a LTR through his 30's and will be looking for a relationship and you're young enough to attract someone in that age range.

[–]lyssavirus 1 point2 points  (3 children)

Well, it's not what I always imagined... But I guess there's no real reason NOT to adjust my expectations

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

If you don't like it, you can always go back to being single. It doesn't have to be permanent. You could try to get a younger guy too, it's just that typically going 5-10 years older is easier than 5-10 years younger.

[–]lyssavirus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's true what you say.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don't like it, you can always go back to being single. It doesn't have to be permanent. You could try to get a younger guy too, it's just that typically going 5-10 years older is easier than 5-10 years younger.

[–]Ignored0ne 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Seeing people escape the Matrix always makes me happy :)

[–]loneliness-incEndorsed Contributor 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Awesome post!

What jumped out at me was that piece about the woman who ran the marathon on the first day of her period with no pad or tampon.

That's just disgusting.

She turned it into a whole issue of shaming and oppression. I wonder what's next, let's all pee and shit our pants to overcome urine and faecal shame???

Bodily functions aren't shameful, but there's a time and place for everything. Certain things are kept under wraps because it's inappropriate to display them in public. Period blood is one of those things. To turn this into an issue of oppression is nothing but absurd.

100% of the world population urinates and defecates. Yet, we keep that shit in the toilet and for good reason. Hint hint, the reason isn't shaming nor oppression.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (2 children)

My N-count is my N-count and I don't really feel embarrassed about it. It seems anti-Red Pill to care what others think. There are 3.5 billion men. You have to have abundance mentality.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Actually, what you said is masculine RP strategy. As women, we have natural abundance mentality.

Good for you that you're secure with your n-count and you have a boyfriend you are happy with.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Abundance for sex. Not abundance for commitment.

[–]FriedHayek 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Men need TRP. Women technically don't. Blue pill women get commitment/validation without needing a special strategy.

Women technically need TRP. Because those without are treated like cattle, just like hot girls at bars/clubs are the product. And since the majority of women want to be treated with some kind of dignity, she needs to dignify herself, to get her shit together.

It's much easier to treat an already self-dignified woman with dignity, than it is to treat a trashy woman with dignity. It's much easier to lead and assist any woman towards the harder and better long-term choices, if she is biased to choosing them.

[–]rprollerEndorsed Contributor 6 points7 points  (3 children)

Well said! I really liked how you described how Red Pill is about acting on observable reality. I respect that Blue Pillers try to change the world for the better, but I greatly disagree with their methodology.

Being a RPW in a BP world is hard. As they in TRP, "Think for yourself, but move with the herd."

[–]loneliness-incEndorsed Contributor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can change yourself. If you and I and many others make positive or negative changes, we can change the world for the better or worse. Feminism has succeeded in making many changes to society. I think where they're mistaken is in

  • Assuming it's possible to change human nature.

  • Expecting everyone else to blindly accept the changes they impose.

  • Shaming anyone who disagrees or who simply followed their nature.

Feminism rose in influence during a time when news stations had a lot more influence on the population. It was much easier for them to shape public opinion by choosing what to report, when to report it, how often to report on it and how to present the report. Those same news stations as well as newcomers in many new forms of media still try to influence public opinion, however, today the competition is much stiffer. First it was talk radio, then the internet and the phenomenon of shaping public opinion has become much harder. TRP rose through the medium of the internet which allows for more free thinking.

[–]Ignored0ne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BP has done very well in making the world largely worse for me, though I'm sure many of them intend well. Somewhere, they got lost in the anger and bitterness and decided that smashing things was worth it, for its own sake, because smashing.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

change the world for the better, but I greatly disagree with their methodology

I quite agree.

[–]dunamis_energeia 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"The lesser you speak the better, it makes your word valuable." It also gives you time to reflect about what you want to say, if you really mean it and if it really matters being said. You can never take something back after being said and it can come with a big cost. This is a valorous lesson in social and professional circumstances.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Really good post. Almost all points resonate with me. I wish I could dial it back 23 years and start over, wiser. I've made every mistake in the book. I've learned why BP doesn't work (even if it does for a long while ). That human nature is predominant and changing it hurts self, family, and society as a whole. The "classic girl" needs to come back. Even if your values are rooted religiously, they just need to be rooted. Thanks for this.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your last point resonates with me. I also always lied and made my n-count higher to look cool and liberated. It's actually quite low. Today I'm not ashamed of that anymore.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you ladies read Woman Power by Dr. Laura Schlessinger? She confirms all this and she wrote that book at least 10 years ago. It's the companion to the Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands. I see her as THE red pill.

[–]prettyredpill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"When you don't try to change the world to fit your needs and you play by the ancestral rules you are much happier"

This reminds me of something that really let things click in my head in therapy while complaining about my boyfriend. You can't change anyone else but you. The fact that everyone is trying to change the world to fit them, of course you're unhappy. You're fighting against nature and the entire world telling them that they need to change for you.

I have been so much happier in my relationship since I realized that I'm the one that can change, so I'm changing. I stopped fighting everything and just went with it instead. The results were nearly instant.

Stop trying to change the world! Be the change!

[–]IVIaskerade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with most of it, except the first part:

Men need TRP. Women technically don't. Blue pill women get commitment/validation without needing a special strategy.

Blue pill women get commitment/validation... from blue pill men. They get to have their alpha fucks and their beta bucks. They get to ride the cock carousel all they want. But are they happy?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this post!

getting rid of bitch face

This is me!! :-( I have resting bitch face and it is awful lol Idk when I'm doing it.

When I worked in retail I learned a trick from a manager and what she would do is repeat positive statements in her head when she was working on a task so she still looked approachable to customers and wouldn't have resting bitch face. What I have started doing is if my face is "resting" I will say to myself, "you are pleasant, you are radiant, you are positive," and I instantly feel my face become more pleasant. Its silly but it works for me.

The bluepill system loves creating confusion and ambiguity... TRP lays us some universal rules by which us, as humans, think and behave.

So true! If you follow red pill, you know where you'll stand in virtually any social situation or relationship. You may not like it but you'll know.

Why be angry at biological instincts of mating with as many women as possible? Why be angry men are attracted to youth?

Ah, harsh truths...

TLDR; I totally agree