In this video (4:31), Cassie Jaye of the Red Pill Movie fame, describes how feminism kept her from seeing the privileges she enjoyed in her own 5+ year relationship.
(paraphrased) For the first 2 years of the relationship I was a hardcore feminist. I would argue that both of us worked, so why should I be responsible for housework on top of that? I came to realize that I was choosing easy, enjoyable jobs while my boyfriend worked in much harder conditions, longer and less desirable hours, but for substantially higher pay. THIS was his contribution to the household.