I found out 2 months ago my husband had an affair. He was seeing another woman for three months. Throughout that time I didn’t notice because I was working so much, and when I did speak to him, it was to yell at him or talk down to him. I was so stressed, he wore all of that stress.
I don’t blame myself for his cheating, he could have come to me first, but by reading about rpw, I could see that I was to blame massively for the state of my marriage leading up to this.
I have changed jobs so I don’t have to work so much, changed the way I approach him when I am unhappy, I have even started losing weight. This other woman is done with and he keeps talking about how happy he is.
Just wanted to say thanks to this sub.