Hi!! I mostly lurk here, but post a little on my main account. I've been browsing this forum the last six months or so, and have been with my SO for over two years. My thinking naturally lined up with much of what's here, but actively reading has definitely helped me to remain more present and cognizant in my relationship.
Anyway, I'm dating the best man ever. Fit, hard working, successful, hilarious, and treats me better than I ever could have imagined.
We both worked our tails off this year, and are splurging on a nice trip out of the country at the end of next month. We have been emailing back and forth a ton lately - travel arrangements, bikinis he likes, forwarding restaurant menus, etc. anyway, I guess his big fingers goofed because he accidentally (??) forwarded me an email chain involving some guys at the office.
They were all planning a guys night out, bitching about their SO's not letting them have any fun (one actually said "ugh women are the worst"). His response was "sorry fellas, think I'm gonna sit this one out since my girl always has dinner on the table at 7 and just texted me a pic of some lingerie, looks like we might be a little tied up." Following were several men basically saying "yeah yeah, we know you like her, shut up" and variations of. So I know this isn't the first time :)
Ladies, if you're with a great man TAKE CARE OF HIM. I always have food on the table, the place is clean, and I look put together when he gets home. I also do little things, like taking his dry cleaning, or scheduling appointments for him. My man is busy as hell, but because I help him through the week, he has more time to relax on the weekends. Without fail he always takes me out on a sweet and thoughtful date night every weekend. I help him take a load off, and he loves showing his appreciation.
Anyway. I love this sub & how it's helped me find immense happiness in my relationship, thought I'd share something silly and happy :)