I just have to get something off my chest. I hate our gynocentric society.
My husband is a great man. Full of self control, discipline and difficult to be influenced. He is a pilot by training, which means he does not solely operate on emotions, only logical reasoning. After we got married and had children, his drive to work harder increased. He’s given up a lot of hobbies but definitely not all and I wouldn’t want him to anyways.
For some reason, my support for him to pursue some of his hobbies/passion/career gets nothing but criticism (especially these last few days). Female acquaintances and even family members think he should have no hobbies and no free time because that’s just UNFAIR for me. I mean, the comments are NASTY! Mind you... that man pays for 90% of everything so I don’t have to work hard. Then they wonder why they’re in unhappy marriages and I’m the one getting XOXO from my husband.
Before finding RPW, I thought I was some odd ball for “allowing” my husband to have a life besides wife and babies. Now, I realize I’m actually a healthy minded wife.
Ok, done venting.