Hi RPW, I've been on TRP for 3-4ish months, and finally wondered what an ideal RPW would be like (I am a girl, and treat myself like a man)
I was reading a few posts here and became kind of uncomfortable to see submissive, feminine women; but then I recalled the most horrifically accurate way RPW worked in real life. I had a close friend in HS who was the embodiment of femininity. She did her hair and makeup carefully, took care of her fashion, and exuded confidence. It was insane, she was asked out by every guy. Like, three guys in her freshman year for homecoming (and turned them all down). These are people she's only know for a month! There were two guys in particular that had high SMV that at least 4-5 girls in my friend circle had major crushes on. (One of them was unattractive/masculine in her personality, no wonder he never noticed her). She dates him for a month and dumps him. One of the guys was seen crying over her in fucking public, where a month before he was singing her a song, with a guitar and a rose for valentines day in class. I used to laugh at how high pitched and sweet her voice is around guys, but then complain about why none ever wanted me. She would give me exactly the same advice here on RPW and I would never take it... but it works. Holy hell.
There was another girl I was jealous of because of her "looks" that must attract at least 5-6 guys in my social circle too. Not even close! I now recognize maybe 80% of her attractiveness is due to red pill behavior- sweet, soft spoken, kind, laughs a lot. She was graceful and took care of her weight; she looked small and demure.
Neither of these girls who had guys fawning over them had the traits my parents considered worthwhile in life for me (ambition, money, work ethic, intelligence, humor, etc) because! THEY! ARE! GIRLS! I guess that was why I never had any luck in the dating sphere in high school, and still don't now (but I don't mind) It's eye opening. Hindsight is 20/20. Sorry if this post is a little rude... It is insane. I used to make fun of my girl friends for their femininity but they were the ones in happy relationships. For some reason girls like me a lot, maybe because I am their "boyfriend" lol.