SELF IMPROVEMENTInvest in Yourself (self.RedPillWomen)

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Hello my fellow ladies!

I just wanted to come here today and tell you all that self love and taking care of yourself physically, emotionally, mentally, spiritually and financially will do wonders for you! When you feel happy with yourself, you will radiate that and people will want to be around you. And hey you may find Mr Right while you are enjoying yourself. not like that LOL. Couldn't help it.

Because a man wants to be a part of a woman's life that has all that. He doesn't want to give her a life, he wants to add to it.

Do something in the next week for you. Last week I got my hair done for first time in months... And let me tell you, I feel so great about myself! People are starting to notice because just by that simple act, my mood is lighter, I'm smiling and laughing more.

Because I feel confident with myself, people want to be around that! When you look good, you feel good!

But remember, it's not all about the physical. While you are working on your exterior, don't forget about what matters most: Personality. Read some books, teach yourself something new.. but most importantly be kind and have courage.*

Peace and blessings to you all!

*(Cinderella will forever be my favorite movie)

[–]allhailthebitch 11 points12 points  (1 child)

I totally agree with you! There is nothing more off-putting than someone who can do nothing but complain and self-criticize. Being able to say "thank you" when some gives you a compliment rather than "ugh no, I'm so ugly", or having the confidence to say "Man, I'm awesome!" Is such an attractive quality. The people around you will be more positive, and they will admire and respect you for it. Not to mention it's such an important quality to have in a relationship, if you can't love yourself, someone else can't love you and vice verse. Can't pour from an empty cup. Love this post!

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you.

I love the whole "can't pour from an empty cup" ! Will save that quote in my stash. Lol

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (1 child)

Cool post!

One of my life views is it takes individuals to make a family. Which means that before you become part of something bigger than yourself, you need to first be complete, a complete individual. Others serve to compliment you, not complete you.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love it! And thank you!

[–]AboveZoom 3 points4 points  (1 child)

I invested in myself tonight with a bottle of wine from the corner store. Hey, it counts.

But for real, what a refreshing reminder this is! My recent "invest-in-myself" has been a meditation class, trying out a new conditioner, and an eye exam with a brand new prescription for contacts.

It's the small things.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Thanks for the love!

What bottle did you buy? And you just reminded me that I need to schedule my annual! Smh

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[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for reading!

[–]NeedHelllp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Its easy to forget to do something that I like when I have to do so many things.