I started lurking at rpw a few weeks ago and started making changes on my relationship and how I was behaving.
I started cooking all meals, started using more dresses and high heels, spending more time doing my hair and makeup, keeping the apartment clean... My boyfriend of 9 years -who never notices anything - is really happy with this changes.
He plays videogames online every night after work and before I go to bed I always ask him what he wants for dinner (We eat whatever I cook for lunch but at dinner each of us have whatever we want) and his buddies can hear how attentive I am with him, he loves this. Last week, for the first time ever, he told me that he wanted to spend sunday night together. He usually goes out to ride his bike or out with his friends. Today he grabbed my butt and told me that when he comes back from the gym we were going to have sex - We've been dealing with a dead bedroom FOR YEARS! I am soo happy!
My mom raised my sister and me to see men like less than us. "The only use men have is for opening tight jars" she says. She gets really angry when my sister or I do something nice for our SO and I felt guilty whenever I did something to make his life at home easier. Not anymore! I am really happy with how things are progressing and I plan to keep doing them.