I wrote a post on TRP titled the hierarchy of women. Please note, TRP is a male-space; we do not use feminine language. The goal of the post was to help men differentiate between women that they encounter, place them into a strata, and then treat them accordingly. I thought a post for the ladies would only be fair.
I. The Prince Charmings
These men are over six feet tall, dark, drop-dead gorgeous, endowed with broad foreheads, possess chiseled jawlines, rock six packs, make over $1,000,000 annually, are friends with socialites, are physically strong enough to push you down with one hand, are tender enough to warmly embrace you when your emotions get the better of you, have eyes for you and you alone, never cheat, possibly have slept with other women but committed only to you, masters of the culinary arts, can fix the car, do the dishes, do not put up with your whining yet genuinely listen to you when you are in a time of crisis, value you not for your body but for your intelligence, charisma, and personality all while being amazing in bed.
These men have Ivy League degrees, work in a prominent STEM field and are CEOs. Naturally, they are knowledgeable enough to explain Einstein’s theory of General Relativity to you in a simple, easy to understand manner, yet they are also connoisseurs of the arts. As they walk you through art galleries, they distinguish Rembrant from Degas. Donned in three-piece tailored suits, at home in their mansions, they play Bach’s Cello Suites perfectly. While you sip their champagne from their wine collection, they proceed to play Mozart’s Piano Concerto No. 21 in C major on their ornate grand piano.
These men sweep you off your feet and leave you breathless when they waltz with you in the ballroom, and excite you when they rock-out at the disco. They have a library full of classics and a dedicated theater room. They live in area with sprawling gardens and nature, yet are only an hour away from a major city.
These men are willing to kill if it means protecting you. Their bodies are toned and rugged, capable of besting any man, woman, or any other being that gets in his way; however, he is skilled a diplomat capable of eloquently resolving conflicts without resorting to violence.
These men also enjoy giving oral.
These men do not exist. However, a good goal to have is to think of the man you are in a relationship with as your prince charming. If you are honestly able to convince yourself of this, then you really do love him.
II. The Marriageable Men.
These men have just the right amount of alpha and beta traits. They can lead, they are responsible, they know how to manage finances, they know how to manage you, they take the relationship seriously, and they are not afraid of commitment. While not necessarily possessing the genetics of the roman gods, these men are physically attractive. In addition, they have amicable personalities and are not a burden for you to put up with.
You feel at ease with these men. They do not mess up; they act in such a manner that you do not resent them for the actions they take. You find it easy to love these men because they are loveable. They are like prince charmings in some ways: some are rich, some are tall, some have a pssion for science, others a passion for the arts. The difference is they have, one, two, three, or more flaws, major and/or minor, that you are able to overlook and forgive.
These men do not pester you for sex all the time … because they keep you attracted so the chemistry does not fade. You want to sleep with this man. They do not laugh at your mistakes, yet they maintain your attraction towards them by making you feel like a woman. These men are just the right mix of alpha fucks—as they are physically attractive and possess important alpha traits—and beta bucks—because they are caring and are financially able to provide.
Getting a marriageable man is not difficult, but it does require work on your part..
III. The Alpha Fucks
These men are attractive, or as you women would say, “cute.” They are confident, attractive, and tall. You notice them while you do your grocery shopping, when you are at the gym, and when you are simply walking outside.
But why would you want a relationship with these men? Some of them are broke. Others have just too much alpha—they can be confident and assertive, but they do not care that your aunt just died. They do not have the time nor energy to listen to your problems. Chances are, to them, you are a plate.
They are not ideal relationship options, although highly dominant women will feel feminine with alpha fucks. It is possible for a strong alpha fucks/weak beta bucks man to be relationship material for high dominance women if he does not fail any important requirement for being in a relationship with.
IV. The Beta Oribters.
These are the men you friendzone. You know your friends that are just so gosh darn nice? The same ones you just cannot help but feel like are not relationship material? These are them.
Beta orbiters try to win a woman through their wallet, by listening to all of women’s problems, by being an emotional tampon, and by always being there for women. But those things turn women off.
Beta orbiters are too needy. They lack confidence. Even if you step back and let the man be a man and lead, he will not fare well. You almost feel like a mother when it comes to these men because they are not self-assured and seek guidance from you. You dominated them, grow to resent them, and feel contempt toward them. They are emasculated and do not know how to be masculine. They are not relationship material because you do not feel a shred of attraction towards them.
V. The Invisible Men
These men are about 80% of the male population to you (give or take 5%). They are not attractive. They are short. They have no ambition in life. They do not know how to treat a lady with respect and equality, and they certainly do not know how to make a woman feel like a woman in bed by acting dominant and treating her submissively.
These men are a mix of betas and omegas. The betas here, as opposed to the beta orbiters in strata four are not even on your radar. You have never met them, you do not even know these guys’ names. You appreciate (or do you?) the men at the cash register, the garbagemen, the boilermakers, the coal miners, and the construction workers. But none of them are relationship material. Some do not make enough money. Others do not want a family. Others just are not attractive enough. Others are attractive, but they do not want to support your dreams of becoming a painter. Some men want to, but they do not want to help pay for your student loans. All in all, these men are too problematic.
The omegas are on a whole other level. Not only are they short, fat, and unattractive, these men are really invisible to you. Why? Because they do not even bother with women. They go play video games all day. They cannot for the life of them attract a woman. They go in front of a woman and stutter and twiddle their thumbs and do their best to muster “D-d-do y-you want, uh, um, to um l-like go on a d-d-d-date with me” and the poor woman cannot help but feel her vagina dry up like the Sahara Desert.
My advice to women in relationships is that they should try to think of the man they are in a relationship with as their prince charming. Of course it is not true, but doing this will help limit hypergamic tendencies. For single women, of course you should look to LTR and/or marry quality men. Do not settle, at least not for the sake of settling. Improve your SMV and MMV so you can get a guy in the second strata.
TL;DR Prince charming doesn't exist, marriageable are almost perfect but have flaws, alpha fucks can be unstable and have trouble committing, beta orbiters aren't your first choice, and invisible men are completely unattractive. Also read the post.