i noticed this wonderful post when it popped up in /r/bestof, i guess a few of you saw it too.
in short, a sexless shrew wanders into /r/deadbedrooms and complains that her husband, gasp, wants sex. she pulls the poor man apart, saying that if he's unhappy with their sexless marriage, it's his own fault for not appreciating all of the other things they do together. like church and BBQs.
/u/wonderfly11 (a woman) comes along to tell it like it is. it's a beautiful, clear reply and has been guilded 13 times at the time of this post. i won't rephrase it here, as you should really read it in full. it's nothing we don't know, but something that can't be repeated enough!