Just a quick post. Your voice matters. I was thinking of this watching hairstyle gurus on YouTube. I'll watch an entire channel if she has a calming voice, it's like ASMR. Don't even care if I like her or the styles. It's relaxing.
Then I'll go to a channel with great styles, but the guru's voice is shrill, loud, and whiny. Like she's always dissatisfied. I immediately lose interest.
My first bf woke me up to this. He said you should pick someone whose voice you like since even if you don't hear all they say you like their voice. I was too young to get yet about how guys don't take in every word we say in long monologues so I thought it was odd but I get it now.
Women are taught to be outspoken and speak up so much these days that a lot have falsely developed a shrill and challenging tone. No one wants to hear that all the time. It's not your real voice, so learn to get in touch with your real tone and be confident in that.