FIELD REPORTHusband spoils me to a shopping day 😘 (self.RedPillWomen)

submitted by bambiliftsweights


I’ve been practicing TRP for about 6 years now.

Husband just posted this to his Instagram story.

Never in it for the perks but they are such a nice surprise bonus!!

Hope this encourages someone - it’s not always easy to live the TRP lifestyle but the intimacy IS always worth it!!

Love you all!!! Xoxo

[–]teaandtalk4 Stars 48 points49 points  (4 children)

I'm glad it's making you happy! Personally, I feel that the RP lifestyle is 'worth it' even when I don't get given expensive shopping trips ;) PS: put your phone down, Bambi, you're out with your husband! :)

[–]bambiliftsweights[S] 10 points11 points  (3 children)

HAHAHAHHAHA that’s his biggest complaint - I’m soooo addicted to my phone and I’m trying to work on it! Maybe I’ll start leaving it at home when I go out wit him!!!

[–]scallopkidEndorsed Contributor 7 points8 points  (1 child)

Yes leave it at home! I have this same problem. I've moved the charger from my night stand to the kitchen so that I don't use my phone before bed or first thing in the morning anymore and I've deleted apps that I spend too much time on or don't add value to my life. If you have an iPhone, check out the app Feedless if you use Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram a lot (I haven't used it because they don't have it for Android sadly). I also put my phone in another room for dinner and when my boyfriend and I are watching a movie together, and often don't take it with me when we're out together.

[–]bambiliftsweights[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love the idea of keeping my phone in the other room, it’d prompt me to read so much more!! Great tips, thank you so much!!!

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[–]cocovioletta 11 points12 points  (1 child)

Ooh girl, I peep that Lululemon. 😎

Just a small anecdote: the only kind of shopping my SO genuinely delights in being dragged to are yoga pants, swimsuits, and lingerie. Go figure!

[–]bambiliftsweights[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hahahahaha yeah and I’m sure he has an opinion on all of them, am I right?? πŸ˜˜πŸ˜„πŸ€—πŸ˜‰

[–]LawyerInTheMaking 18 points19 points  (2 children)

Damn, can your husband spoil me too? Lol jk, good for you. Keep doing what you’ve been doing and I’m sure you’ll get more days like that.

[–]bambiliftsweights[S] 8 points9 points  (1 child)

I’m sure he would, lol, he’s a great guy! And honestly, it’s not about the material things for me, I love the intimacy and feeling like he thinks I’m worthy of having nice things, if that makes sense?

[–]LawyerInTheMaking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol it does. I think I remember gift giving be a love language thing (I’m not 100% sure on this) so as long as it’s not a simple β€œI want this, you have money, buy me it because I want it” type thing then it’s fine

[–]Pixie03103 Stars 17 points18 points  (7 children)

Hmm. Lotta people making nasty assumptions. πŸ˜•

I don't think there's anything wrong with a man being proud to show off / give things to his woman. It's not automatically "beta" to buy things for, or provide for, a woman. My fiance loves giving me birthday presents, Christmas presents, or having a chance to tell me go spend on myself. It gives him pride to see me happy and cared for. And there's nothing beta about him.

Being a good woman can inspire a man to be a good provider. Basic rule of The Surrendered Wife! Be proud. <3

[–]ragnarockette4 Stars 14 points15 points  (3 children)

I also think it is a love language thing. Some people love to give and receive gifts. Others have different ways of showing their love.

[–]bambiliftsweights[S] 2 points3 points  (2 children)

My love language is receiving gifts!!

[–]ragnarockette4 Stars 9 points10 points  (1 child)

Me too! My husband is physical touch. He’s like β€œlet’s cuddle!” and I’m like β€œwhere are my diamonds?!”

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[–]bambiliftsweights[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think I missed all the mean stuff, the moderators are doing a great job!!!

I don’t think it’s beta actually, I didn’t ask for it and it was completely his idea.

I think he actually feels quite masculine being able to buy me nice things - we haven’t always had that kind of money so it was a milestone for both of us!!

Thank you for your kind comment, Pixie!!! I totally agree, it’s about alpha guys loving to give. Thanks for commenting!! πŸ’‹

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    [–]pearlsandstilettosModerator | Pearl[M] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

    RP women do not necessarily seek out RP men. Additionally, this is a sub for women's discussions. Let this go.

    [–]Rivkariver2 Star 4 points5 points  (2 children)

    Don’t forget to thank him for going with you while you picked things out! Guys show patience of Saints during that πŸ˜‚

    PS what are the brown and red bags?

    [–]bambiliftsweights[S] 6 points7 points  (1 child)

    Such good advice!! He was sooo patient - I always feel so bad!!

    And the red bag is Kate Spade, the brown bag is Billabong, I think.

    Such a lucky girl!! πŸ™ˆ

    [–]Rivkariver2 Star 1 point2 points  (0 children)


    Last week he went with me to buy stilettos, at home I realized they were too small, took me back again to return...I feel blessed πŸ˜‡ nothing wrong with letting him spoil you if he wants!

    PS don’t feel bad I usually make a lighthearted joke if he’s shopping with me about his patience and try not to be too long.

    [–]canyousmellechidna 10 points11 points  (1 child)

    Awesome!! I hope I one day have a man that’ll take me shopping!!

    I have a bunch of jewelry, given to me by my mom, that my dad bought for her. I gotta wait for a guy like this lol.

    Btw you’re so small and cute! I don’t feel so bad for having a thigh gap now.

    [–]bambiliftsweights[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

    I am super tiny, hahah! Don’t feel bad for having a thigh gap, I’m sure you’re gorgeous!

    And yeah, thicc girls are totally in now but I think all women are beautiful. Truly.

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    [–]pearlsandstilettosModerator | Pearl[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Be polite or be quiet.

    [–]fairydust91 1 point2 points  (1 child)

    Is that you?? Damn girl!!

    [–]bambiliftsweights[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Yes, thank you!

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    [–]bambiliftsweights[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

    Yes! I have had this post typed out and just got a chance to post it last night! Not sure how it affects the main point of the post, though?

    [–]LuckyLittleStarModerator | Lil'Star[M] 0 points1 point  (5 children)


    [–]bloobird08 1 point2 points  (4 children)

    Ok but she put β€œjust posted”, as if it was very recent, so you have to see why it raises an eyebrow to some? It’s an Instagram story post, they expire within 24 hours, so it does seem a bit odd.

    [–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child)

    Maybe she screenshot it

    [–]bambiliftsweights[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    I did screenshot it, lol. I was on my honeymoon when it happened and didn’t get a chance to actually post it until I got home.

    [–]likeaprometheancurse 1 point2 points  (1 child)

    Why does it matter?

    [–]bloobird08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    It comes off like a lie which makes catfishing more likely. I guess it doesn’t matter, it’s just.. disingenuous if it’s not her and she’s just posting some random’s insta story.

    [–]lol_throwaway303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    That’s so sweet!

    [–]PumpkinSubEndorsed Contributor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Thats awesome! Its such an amazing feeling when your man goes out of his way to make you feel special.

    [–]sweetsalsita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    What a sweetheart!!!

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      [–]pearlsandstilettosModerator | Pearl[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      Do not insult the community and it's members.