I have seen a few threads where a new-to-TRP lady will talk about how her boyfriend/husband never tells her what she wants for dinner, and how he should be making the decisions in the relationship. I, too, got hung up on this early on in my RP experience. He's a busy guy, if you know what types of foods he enjoys then just handle it for him. Run your home ladies.
Last month I found a website I'm already in love with. It's called Gathered Table. It plans your menu for you and then you can customize up the wazoo. You set your preferences based on family size, cooking time available to you, and dietary restrictions. Also, you can import (pretty easily) all your favorite recipes and blog posts. I took about an hour and moved my entire "recipes I've tried" pinterest board into my Gathered Table account. Every Friday (you set your day) I get an email saying my weekly menu is ready. I move it around a bit based on our calendar and then I show hubby and ask if he would change anything (he doesn't) and print my shopping list right from the site.
It's pretty nifty - Thought I would share.