METAWhat's new on RPW (self.RedPillWomen)

submitted by pearlsandstilettosModerator | Pearl

Happy Summer RPW! We’ve been working on a few things behind the scenes over the last months and I’d like to update everyone on the goings on.



We’ve opened the chat room

Reddit has a new chat feature to go along with the Reddit Redesign. We know that you guys have been clamoring for a space to talk to one another. We’re thrilled to finally have this chat available! This is entirely new to us so we’re starting with one public chat room for the sub. You will find the link below. Down the road, we can consider invite only and topic specific rooms based on the desires of the community.

RPW Chat Room

While the sub rules still apply, we’re currently keeping it open to all and mildly moderated. If there are things you like or hate, drop us a line in modmail and let us know your thoughts. This is a new feature for all of us and we’re still figuring out how to make it work best for you guys!


The Wiki update has begun

We’re diving into the massive endeavor that is our Wiki/Sidebar. Discussions for this have been going on behind the scenes for the last year and seen several changes to the mod team in the process! Over the last few weeks, we’ve gotten the introduction pages started and you can now find all of the required reading on the Wiki as well as the sidebar.

The main piece of the Wiki is going to be The RPW complete guide to getting a man and holding him for life. This includes topics such as: physical characteristic, internal traits, deciding what you are looking for, girl game, vetting & dating, becoming intimate, and RPW relationships. This part of the project is our biggest undertaking and while a good deal of it will rely on great posts of the past, we are also looking for people who are interested in helping us write new content.

This is the current guide which is very much a work in progress. If a topic sparks your interest, or you have a contribution that we missed, let us know in the comments or in modmail.


Frequently Asked Questions

We’ve compiled a list of questions that pop up on the sub on a regular basis. Every Monday beginning next week, we will put out one of these questions for the community to answer. Here is a past example.

Take your time and give your most thoughtful answers. Our goal is for these posts to make their way to the Wiki to help new users.


Posting Schedule

By popular demand, we’ve added monthly threads about all things RPW. We’ve combed through old posts for topics near and dear to the hearts of our members. These threads come every 5 days and are designed to focus on aspects of self-reflection and improvement over the course of a month. The schedule is as follows.

  • 1st Monthly Goals and Simple Questions

  • 5th Homemaking: Tips, Tricks & Questions

  • 10th Gratitude: What are you thankful for

  • 15th Own Your Stuff

  • 20th Self Care: Tips, Tricks & Questions

  • 25th Mega-Meal Thread


Men’s Perspective Posts

One of our goals for RPW is to foster an understanding of the rougher sex. In this vein, we are adding a once per month thread for the men to weigh in with their perspective on a variety of relationship & marriage oriented topics. TRP will always be the most unfiltered view of men’s locker room talk. As a woman reading that subs, it can range from insightful to downright brutal. We are excited for the opportunity to peak into men’s heads about the topics that are important to women. We believe that understanding the male perspective is an integral part of forming long term, healthy relationships.

These monthly threads will cover such topics as:

  • What do men consider red flags

  • What do you wish women understood about men

  • What can a woman do to make you feel supported? Respected?

If you have any questions you’d like to submit, add them below in the comments or send us a message in modmail. We have a set of questions ready to go but we’d like to really focus on what you want to know about men and from men.



As you can see, we’ve got a lot going on. We’re closing in on 25,000 members and are so excited and happy to have you all with us!! Our goal for RPW is that it be an open and thriving community where all likeminded women and a few good men can meet and grow and guide each other to be our best selves.

With anything in life, you get out of it what you put in. We are working hard to give you a frame work to get the most out of RPW but we’re always happy to have suggestions from our members. Many of these new features were developed in response to your comments and requests. RPW is what you make of it.

We hope you enjoy the new features. Happy Posting!!

[–]loneliness-incEndorsed Contributor 7 points8 points  (0 children)


Edit - holy shit!!! There's a goldmine of RPW information on this page! Dozens and dozens of articles, written by a variety of contributors.

Very notable is the many posts written by Ms Sadie Dunham who's account is no longer active but who remains a RPW legend.

[–]carrotriver 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yay!!! Thank you, ladies. I'm looking forward to it!

[–]Wolfssenger 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm glad men are being acknowledged without ruining the inherently female nature of the sub. It's certainly a difficult balance to keep, but there are a considerable few of us lurking about, and I appreciate the effort. Good work ladies.

[–]AnnaAerials 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great news! Thanks mods

[–]WhySoOverHeated 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is amazing!! I was worried that the sidebar would be "forgotten" in the redesign, but wow, you guys are doing a great job and I am so excited!! 👏😍

[–]KittenLoves_Endorsed Contributor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This all looks so amazing! The chat room is such a lovely idea, and I've been happily perusing the new and improved sidebar with great pleasure.

I also noticed that I appear a few times in there... Ladies and gentlemen, please be patient and respectful as you queue for my autograph. ;)

[–]redpillwomanwannabe 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Hey is the chat working? It goes to a broken link on mobile.

[–]pearlsandstilettosModerator | Pearl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From the desktop it's working. Here is the link https://s.reddit.com/channel/2602291_6ce2fea8cf8170a9c2bba1230e8adf55f19bc768

It's something Reddit is still rolling out so it is possible there is a problem with the mobile that I'm not aware of.