I know, I know, we typically don't "believe" in divorce, but sometimes it's not up to us. Sometimes he goes through a midlife crisis and there's nothing you did or said wrong, per se. After 20 years, it's just... over. Sometimes you're 24, with three boys under five and you get a text message that he's leaving and your only real mistake was marrying before the two of you were old enough to know who you were and what you wanted. Sometimes, it's just bad vetting.
Sadly, sometimes he texts to say he'll be home in a few and two officers show up instead. You loved him and he loved you and you both worked hard at your marriage and now he's gone and you're alone.
So, to elaborate on a recently posted question, how prepared are you to find yourself alone at this point in your life? What steps did you take or would you like to take? What would you recommend to a SAHM or any woman, about preparing herself for the worst? Is it somehow disloyal to make such preparations?