Decided to use the "shut the f up" tactic together with the Surrendered wife strategy. Turns out I've been quite obnoxious lately. Honestly, I had no idea just how many times I was commenting on what he was doing (and I've always tried my best to be respectful!). Decided to actively work on improving our sex life (anybody else with a small kid in here? You know what I mean) and already on a diet, going to buy new lingerie this week.
Honestly, this has been a great start of the year so far! Wish me endurance. Thank you all.