Over the course of time since I discovered TRP and later, RPW, one theme seems to keep recurring - confusion and debate as per what TRP or RPW is really about, who is more/less RP and what is more/less RP. I will add my thoughts here (or at least part of them). I welcome your thoughts, discussion, agreement and disagreement in the comments.
What is TRP?
The Red Pill is the understanding of human nature. Particularly male nature, female nature and the nature of inter-gender relationships and interactions whether big or small. TRP is amoral. It's all about understanding human nature and nature is amoral (which is not the same as immoral). You alone can chose how to live your life. You are responsible for your choices because nature does not negate your power to chose.
Men and women have different needs, wants and desires. Often times, the actual things we need, want and desire are the same, but their order of preference is different. Our hierarchy of needs are often opposite (but not opposing).
The specific sub called TRP veers from pure RP philosophy with its obsession with casual sex. RP philosophy teaches us about human nature. It isn't a religion, there's no right and wrong. it's amoral (as linked above). But human beings can't remain objectively amoral. TRP sub chose to travel down one path, RPW chose to travel down a different path.
What is RPW?
The path traveled by TRP (which I will try to minimize discussing), is a path which uses its knowledge of human nature to exploit nature for personal gain with little to no regard for anything other than ones self. Some women have been doing this for generations, using their sexuality to get ahead in life in many ways. Men recently figured out how to manipulate the game for their own benefit as well. This is what you'll see over at TRP if you care to look there. While these strategies may be effective for men to gain casual sex, they aren't what women need or want in the long run, just like (most) men don't want to live their entire lives only chasing casual sex. Life of this sort feels empty after a while.
RPW takes an entirely different approach in its understanding of the very same core principles. The men and women on this sub wish to live a more wholesome life. A family life with a life partner whether that includes children or not. Modern marriage has a very high rate of failure. This is at least partially due to the sense of entitlement that modern men and women have. This is a very sad state of affairs and the men and women of this group are waking up to this. We wish to change this. We can't change anyone else, but we sure can change ourselves.
Our opposite needs, need not be opposing at all!. We really can live together in harmony, in loving homes, loving marriages and loving families. When we are realistic in our idea of love, and realistic in our idea of sexual attraction and realistic in our expectations, we will have happy and healthy marriages for many long years together!
We recognize that sometimes we need to tame our nature so it doesn't destroy our marriage. Other times we need to quell our inner fears and insecurities. We need to remember that our spouse may not see things the way we see them. We try to appreciate and be grateful of/to our spouses. Always improve our SMV and RMV and to remember that perception and reality aren't one and the same
We really can live together in balanced harmony. If we all work on ourselves and our marriages, if we're a bit more realistic and generous, we really can have it all! We really can have the loving and caring marriages like the marriage of my grandparents who I had the privilege of growing up next door to.