In a recent conversation as well as in articles I’ve been reading recently, it was pointed out to me that more and more men are “going their own way,” and that it doesn’t seem to bother them. Men are much more suited to being hermits and loners, whereas we women are social creatures who need companionship, especially from a man, to live a happy life.
The imbalance of power inherent in modern marriage and supported by feminism is largely to blame for so many men dropping out. What incentive does a man have to marry if he is not entitled to sex, his wife isn’t expected to cook or clean (or at least not all the time), and he has the ever-present fear of divorce (facilitated by no fault divorce laws) and the ensuing alimony/child support payments, along with limited access to his children?
At first glance you might think that men suffer more from not engaging in long term relationships, but in reality it hurts women more.
These days, it is easy for a lot of men to get sex (despite the 80/20 rule, women are still giving it out like cookies), so it's not that difficult for the MGTOWs to come to terms with their situation. I think I have heard of one WGTOW around these parts...I like to refer to them as crazy cat ladies. It's certainly not a fate I would be happy with. I need someone to balance me out. And while I know that men fare better in good relationships than single men, I think the way modern marriage is set up, they suffer unduly.
I value this community and am glad you are here reading this. While my liberal friends entertain me, they truly don't understand the society-destroying ramifications of it all. They think it's "a difference in opinion lol and there are always going to be different opinions lol." They truly don't get how damaging this is. Society has pretty much fallen apart within my lifetime, but I think it's so new that many don't understand what the future truly holds.
And it's not the beautiful, well-dressed mothers with hard-working husbands in tidy little neighborhoods, like the ones who appear in many of the movies and TV shows women my age like to watch. Unfortunately, only some of these shows drop RP truths, and the rest spout anachronistic feminist rhetoric.
I was recently referred to r/datingoverthirty. It reveals a lot of the awakening that many women are going through, realizing they don't have ultimate power forever.
I caught a good man at 20 and I'm sticking to him. Though he's been down lately, he possesses all the good qualities that indicate he will pull through and prosper once again. While I am not RP perfect, I think it's easier for a man to accept a 20 year old's stupidity and feminist brainwashing than it is a 35 year old's.
Edit: when I say "liberal," I'm not talking about politically.