I remember reading a post, a long while ago, about a woman who had decided to stop saying no whenever her husband initiated sex, and how this ended up being a great decision for her.
June wasn't a great month for my boyfriend and I. He was stressed. We were fighting a lot. Things really could have been better. But by the end of the month, things seemed to be looking up, and I wanted to do something to make sure this upswing went above and beyond our usual good times.
So, I decided to try an experiment. For the whole month of July, I will not say no to anything my boyfriend wants us to do. Obviously, this is notwithstanding any kind of legitimately bad ideas, but I doubt he would suggest anything like that in the first place. Normally this, "never say no!" thing is only about sex, but I wanted to take things a step further (especially since it's very rare that I would decline sex, anyway :P) and see how it would turn out. I'm not sure if my boyfriend will notice my change in attitude (I'm not going to tell him about my experiment), but we'll see what happens by the end of the month! I've already started this week, but he hasn't done much by way of suggesting things, yet. However, he's on vacation starting this evening, so I expect that the suggestions will pick up soon.
I'll report back at the end of the month with my results. Wish me luck, and if anyone else wants to participate, I'd love to see what ends up happening for you too!