In the wake of /u/_wingnut_ ‘s exciting post, I would like to also take this time to address the idea that there is a formula to being RPW. There is not now, nor has there ever been a basic model for being RPW. This sub is about a relationship dynamic between you and your man that is based on the idea that he take a leadership role and you take a follower role. That is at the heart of this sub.
ANYTHING ELSE IS NEGOTIATED BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR MAN!!!
Here is a list of things that we do NOT have a specific RPW stance on
The basic premise for looking feminine, is not pink frilly lace. It is to accentuate the fact that you are a woman. If you so choose to do anything other than that, realize that you are now putting yourself in a position to attract from a smaller dating pool if you don't already have a man. You are now in the fringes of society. We advocate to cast the widest net in order to ensure that you are attracting enough men to be able to find a GOOD man quicker. That goes for all superficial questions.
The looks department is not the most important part of RPW. Attraction is important but it will fade away. You will be old, wrinkly, wearing support hose and orthopedic shoes alone with your ten wiener dogs if you have a stank attitude.
What we strive for here is cultivating the right mindset. Gratitude, appreciation, and happiness come from you and that is what it will take to have your relationship survive.
So the next time you want to post and think “what does RPW look like” understand that it is not this or really even this (well you can be those if you want) it is more of what is inside your brain than what is on the outside.
Here are some things to ask yourself when you are in a relationship and want to post here...
Does my man care about this?
What does my man prefer?
Once these are answered, DO THAT. You don’t need women on the internet with different tastes dictating to you every single detail of your life.