One of the first steps to take in The Surrendered Wife is to use the phrase "whatever you think" to show your husband (in my case, LTR boyfriend) that you respect his thoughts. No variations, just straight up "Whatever you think."
So we go out to dinner last night, and he's looking at appetizers. He says, "Do you want (my favorite app) or (his favorite app)?" I say, "I'm fine either way. They both sound good." And then I remember what she said, so I said "whatever you think". I didn't think I could say it nicely or sincerely, but since it was such a low pressure situation, it came out very genuinely.
Y'all, he looked at me, looked down, looked at me again and said, "We'll get (my favorite app) since you like it so much." I melted. I think I'll keep him <3