I was browsing the AskWomen sub today and found this post.
I know it won't be a surprise for ladies here, but...this was a HUGE eye-opener for me because I hadn't witnessed it yet in real-time with trp goggles on. I wasn't aware of how much women put down their boyfriends/husbands until I saw this thread. It's hit me like a rock.
I felt sad. Angry. Resentful. Bitter.
Not because I hate these women, but because I used to be these women. Every single one of them was me. Reading this post is like looking at how I used to act and think in my previous relationships. It's a mirror of my past, and it disgusts me. I can now see why my relationships failed. I can now see that I didn't choose good men. I can now see that I was a self-centred, hypergamous, emotional feminist who believed I was entitled to absolutely everything a man could offer while I didn't take proper care of myself.
Now I feel more determined to change than ever before.
I never, EVER want to fall back into such a blind mindset.
I will be rid of that selfish girl I used to be.
I will become a better girlfriend every day.
I will smile and bring warmth to those around me.
I will care for those around me.
I will continue to exercise every day.
I will nourish my body with what's healthy for me.
I will learn to control my emotions and reactions.
I will show my boyfriend the utmost respect and allow him to be my captain.
I will think before I speak.
I will LOVE and show KINDNESS to him and everyone around me.
I will let my captain LEAD.
I will become the best that I can be and NEVER look back at the girl I used to be. She is gone. She will have no part in my life anymore.
Thank you to everyone here for inspiring me to become a better woman.
Let's work hard to improve ourselves and bring our men, families, and friends happiness.
///////For discussion: I feel so incredibly fortunate to have ever come across the red pill theory, let alone this sub. I only wish that this could reach the masses of lost women out there, the women who don't see what's actually happening...is there any hope? Do any of you try to reach out to your female friends with trp theories? Do you give your honest relationship advice to them? If so, does it usually lead to a deaf ear?