Sex! It should be the most enjoyable obligation a couple experiences together, yet should not feel as an obligation. Let's have fun discussing the possibility of making sex never feel like a chore! I want to believe there is some hope in this dark world.
Some questions to stir discussion:
What are non-manipulative reasons to decline sexual invitations from your partner? Aside from health concerns. Do you ever reject sex? How does this work out for you, does it cause problems in your relationship or just smooth out naturally?
Is it important with you and your partner to balance initiating sex acts? Or do you/he have no problem always initiating? (I think that would be rare)
Theoretically, I think it's possible to never reject a sexual invitation and to know that your man would likely never reject yours. But how many years in a relationship can you have sex every time you see each other for? Has anybody had sex (ie. orgasm inducing activities) everyday (or more) with a live in partner for more than a year?