Thanks red pill.
I'm doing a euro-trip, and currently I'm in an Eastern European country. I met these two girls today and started talking to them for a while - one attractive, the other not.
A bit later this guy comes in from Belgium - real in your face, immature, self absorbed dude. What I had always perceived as the alpha , the bad boy. I had been lurking for a while, so I knew there would be a power struggle, and I worked magic.
The guy was studying to be a doctor, and I used his strength against him by making sure the women in the room understood that he was far less mature than they wanted. That I was in control. I would consistently put him down when he said ludicrous things, call him out on his shit and be frank and honest when I thought he was lying.
Previously, I would have just shut my yap and let him dominate the conversation.
At one point he led us on a wild goose chase to find a bar -- I literally saw a bar, said we're going here, and he got mad. One of the girls said "well I mean someone had to lead and make a decision..."
You could tell the we're gravitating toward me. It didn't matter that he was more attractive -- I was the alpha. You could tell by how much he tried to make himself look better. Distinctions in school. Royalty. Rich. I have no fucks in my assault on his ego -- I didn't need his approval , or these women.
At the end of the night, I went to bed. Why? Because I didn't want anything from these girls. I'm sure that he got what he was after, but I'm also confident if I'd stayed he wouldn't have had a chance. And sleep sounded better than sex, damnit.
No fucks man. Thanks trp for making me realize to be a man , and make decisions, and be frank and honest with people when you fucking just don't like them .