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Girl eye raping me (self.asktrp)

submitted by tratemethrowaway

Over the past several weeks one particular girl has literally been eye raping me in class, I am usually able to maintain this eye contact when walking past her but when sitting down near her I am unable to maintain eye contact. Bare in mind that this eye contact isn't any normal eye contact, I can only describe as a sort of sexually aggressive stare actually making me uncomfortable to maintain eye contact for longer than about three seconds(once maintained for about 15 seconds, terribly uncomforable like she was staring into my soul lol)just wondering if there were any tips to help me maintain the eye contact and what her staring means and whether she is perhaps a no go plate because of this.


[–]cirrusice 156 points157 points  (29 children)

lmao. she wants to be fucked like it's the last hour on earth

[–]tratemethrowaway[S] 49 points50 points  (28 children)

Maybe your right bro lol ,problem is if I went there I would be scared she'd rip my dick off, definitely has the crazy look to her.

[–]cirrusice 51 points52 points  (5 children)

My personal staredown record is 5 seconds. 15 seconds is kinda creepy tho

[–]neoda1 25 points26 points  (2 children)

15 secs man god dam, that is a long time in reality sheesh.

[–]tratemethrowaway[S] 27 points28 points  (1 child)

I know right, once 7-8 seconds had passed there was no way I was gonna break eye contact first after 15 seconds the teacher shouted for our attention and it ended there( thank fuck lol)

[–]neoda1 20 points21 points  (0 children)

yeah man trust me you did good, could be just the girl lmao

[–]tratemethrowaway[S] 26 points27 points  (1 child)

Yeh I know lol, I'm usually pretty good with eye contact but that 15 seconds was the longest 15 seconds of my life, felt like she had seen all my thoughts and feelings.

[–]plenty_of_eesh 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She was sizing you up for the sacrificial ritual goring she's planning for you.

[–]Hotspot3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely go with your gut on this one. The rest of the people here have never met this woman and have no idea what kind of vibe she puts off. From what you’ve posted here, she seems incredibly aggressive and pushy, you do not want to be fucking a chick like that. You want to be far far away from the crazy chicks.

[–]OliWiz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You in control dog, tie her up if need be!

[–]Senior Endorseddr_warlock 17 points18 points  (18 children)

Stop trying to hide your inner-pussy with lame humor.

[–]tratemethrowaway[S] 19 points20 points  (17 children)

I'm still young and learning, I'm not saying I'm perfect.

[–]Endorsed ContributorAuvergnat 23 points24 points  (2 children)

Dude. Stop being autistic. She’s trying super hard to make you understand she wants your dick and waiting on you to make a move. Now you just decide whether you want to fuck her or not. If you do, then you make a move. If you don’t, then ignore her from then onwards and she’ll get the message.

[–]JarHeadJoseph 3 points4 points  (1 child)

What move do you make in a classroom

[–]ReformSociety 17 points18 points  (0 children)

"Hi, how are you?" -___-

There's no "one magical pickup line to get her WET".

[–]Senior Endorseddr_warlock 23 points24 points  (13 children)

This is the easiest it will ever be, yet you stand by and make bullshit excuses as to why you can't pursue. Attempting to shift the blame to her by calling her 'probably crazy'. What are you doing to stop being a bitch? You're gonna go take your young-still-learnin' ass over to the next class and escalate or you have no business coming back here. No patience for the timid.

[–]Hotspot3 2 points3 points  (10 children)

what the hell man? How do you know she’s not fucking crazy? She is being extremely aggressive with the staredowns, especially if she’s not smiling or winking or nodding a hello. You have no idea what kind of person she is. She could just as well tie OP to the bed and rape him for all you know. OP has given absolutely 0 information about her other than she has been incredibly aggressive with her staring, even when he hasn’t reciprocated.

[–]sehns 1 point2 points  (2 children)

I have an idea, how about talk to the girl and find out?

[–]Hotspot3 1 point2 points  (1 child)

You have a point there, but I would argue OP already knows all that he needs to from the I interactions he’s had.

A normal girl doesn’t stare you down every time she sees you, and doesn’t openly fuck you with her eyes. She has displayed an complete disregard of common social etiquette and lack of boundaries. That’s not going to instantly change as soon as he talks to her. that’s actually a huge red flag that should make OP want get as far away from her as he possibly can.

[–]propranolol22 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Kind of taking it to the extreme there...

[–]Hotspot3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s OP’s dick, reputation and possibly life that’s on the line. You need to state the extremes to show as much of the possible danger as you can.

[–]RedHoodhandles 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Lol so what if she is 'crazy'. She's not going to cut his dick of. She's just an immature girl knot knowing how to sexually calibrate and who probably wants to get fucked by OP who himself is a hamstering pussy.

[–]Hotspot3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you know that? We call people “crazy” because they are unstable, unpredictable and dangerous. Any number of things could go wrong and OP is putting his reputation and possibly his life on the line.

[–]Senior Endorseddr_warlock -1 points0 points  (2 children)

Dramatic and ridiculous. Lol, you don't deserve to pass on your genes. We don't need more bitch-bois.

[–]Hotspot3 1 point2 points  (1 child)

You’re recommending OP put his dick in an aggressive chick and tell him to just cross his fingers and pray that she isn’t crazy. I would much rather not get laid than risk any of the countless things that could go wrong when you date a possible crazy chick.

[–]Senior Endorseddr_warlock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh, it's over. Admit failure and weakness, walk away. It's sad.

[–]SugarFreeFries 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Except, she may actually be crazy. Excessive staring to that degree is a big red flag in my book.

[–]adam_varg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She might, but you can figure it out pretty fast.

I am hot, but i was oblivious in the past. Lot of normal and quiet girls did 'the stare him down until he approaches me'. Simply because they figured i am attracted, just not getting a clue.

Stare downs from stranger is what you should be aware of. Girls that meet you regularly not.

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev 4 points5 points  (0 children)

”That....is why you fail.”

[–]dariusjames 40 points41 points  (4 children)

Don't stick your dick in crazy.

[–]cluelessguitarist 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Been there done that , sex is good but repercusions are bad

[–]htowntrav 8 points9 points  (1 child)

Always the option to fuck and duck.

It should rather be, never take crazy home. Never get attached to crazy. Never invite crazy to family diners.

It’s ok to dick it down. Never ok to plate or LTR distinguishably crazy woman. Never, under any circumstances. Or at least disengage in such a way that it cannot disintegrate into nuclear fallout.

Given there’s always that possibility and there are repercussions for actions and decisions. Meet them head on with your chin up. Take these experiences in stride and use the lessons you have learned. Stay in the game. Keep practicing. But never let it be a top priority.

[–]sehns 8 points9 points  (0 children)

On a College campus its a lot riskier due to fake rape accusations and kangaroo courts

[–]Andorli 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Second this, tbh this is anecdotal but almost every bpd chick I knew did this.

[–]oytrp 54 points55 points  (2 children)

Maintain eye contact doesn't mean staring contest. You don't have to make sure she breaks first.

Just don't be a bitch and quickly look away when you look eyes. 5 seconds and a knowing smile is more than enough to get the point across. Then you go talk to her after class.

[–]tratemethrowaway[S] 16 points17 points  (1 child)

I get your point but it feels wrong to break eye contact first, subconsciously I end up avoiding eye contact now, not sure what to do about it

[–]donkeydodo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think you perhaps find her subliminally unattractive due to her being "too easy"; at least I know that I find even attractive girls unattractive when they're too obvious that they want to deep throat my schlong

[–]TehJimmyy 12 points13 points  (8 children)

Will never know unless you talk to her.

[–]tratemethrowaway[S] 6 points7 points  (7 children)

I have spoken and interacted with her before, she was flirty( grabbing my arms and chest etc) I guess I know she's into me but my main problem is that this eye contact is extremely weird, unlike anything I've ever witnessed I'm worried this could mean she is a bit crazy so I am hesitant to go there.

[–]UncleChido 12 points13 points  (1 child)

Dude f-close her while the iron is hot. Don’t think it over. Just do it. Make the move tomorrow.

[–]Red90210 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Seriously. One day the look will be gone and then the switch is off and the well is dry.

[–]TehJimmyy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I dont know context but if you dont feel like it you dont have to. I would push it tho to see where it goes.

[–]CaptainBW 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Courage is a virtue. Also definitely wear a condom.

[–]captdrews 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Chill my man, I had the same thing in a pottery class in hs happen to me. Best believe i made my move and we fucked for a while and she was definitely more into me then I was her relationship wise and had to kinda ease off but nothing was off about this girl just had them staring eyes lol but that's just me ( in case shes crazy)

Edit: grammar

[–]sehns 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And when you are 80 and on your death bed you will regret never knowing. Get to know the girl before you decide and stop being an idiot

[–]ghosts_of_me 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dont be a fucking pussy get in there

[–]dtyler86 7 points8 points  (2 children)

I would recommend that maintaining eye contact for too long is what she wants. Don’t give her what she wants and make her want more look at her comfortably look away and then ignore her. After class tell her you are taking her out this weekend. Then bang the shit out of her problem solved.

Han Solo said it best, she’s not telling you she loves you but she’s telling you she wants to bang, you can acknowledge that you know that without keeping up the distracting Eye contact for 10 minutes

[–]tratemethrowaway[S] 3 points4 points  (1 child)

Best response in this thread. Thanks

[–]dtyler86 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank YOU

[–]philbignig 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Smile at her! If she smiles back go start a conversation :)

[–]TheCrotchWhisperer 15 points16 points  (2 children)

“You ever been mind fucked before? I’m mind fucking you right now”

[–]tratemethrowaway[S] 11 points12 points  (1 child)

Felt more like mind rape lol, was very uncomfortable

[–]OfficerWade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She was probably thinking about just that. The only way to know is to approach her and say I can see by the way you’re looking at me that you want to fuck it’s ok, you can kiss me now.

[–]Velebit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She is just thirsty and also probably a virgin. She won't harm you, don't be a pussy. Just approach her when class ends and everyone is packing and leaving the classroom and start a random conversation. Since you are a pussy don't try to be edgy and call her out on staring. Just say she has beautiful eyes and watch how she reacts.

To escalate and make your intentions clear ask if she is single and then ask for her number.

If she is super agreeable and propeses herself you two should meet. Then just on the date say she looks hot in whatever she weara the minute you see her.

To initiate touching tell her a story about something you need to 'draw' something with a finger and touch her leg. After explaining just rest your hand on her leg for a second or two.

After a date or two invite her to watch something or for a glass of wine at your place.

[–]tratemethrowaway[S] 17 points18 points  (7 children)

[–]Radinax 29 points30 points  (3 children)

Wait lol is that for real? Dude fuck her what are you waiting for

[–]needy_asshole 18 points19 points  (2 children)

He said the stare is like the top photo, not the actual girl

[–]xddm2653 31 points32 points  (1 child)

Plot twist girl is a land whale and OP is her delicious chocolate cake

[–]needy_asshole -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know the girl is a land whale, even mediocre girls think they are the shit so won't look at op but him being a chocolate cake does come as a plot twist lol

[–]polymath808 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Lol

[–]stawd 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Move in, just watch your six (bhole)

[–]thatmanadrian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm maybe wait till the end of the semester before making a serious move or doing the dirty. Because if it ends up being weird or shit or she’s crazy, you don’t wanna be awkwardly stuck with her for the rest of the semester....

[–]Jaythe4th 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fuck her then tell us what happened after, that should be a fun story :D

Take one for the team.

[–]opper-hombre1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is there at least a smirk or smile on her face? Or is she just staring into your soul?

[–]AlmightyFiNeSseN 3 points4 points  (0 children)

stay away, she sounds crazy.

[–]Zanford 5 points6 points  (2 children)

Congrats. Now go talk to her, and get back to us with the field report. You'll enjoy the blowjob from her much more than humblebragging about eye contact to us here.

Don't get into some staring contest with her. Just walk up and talk to her.

[–]tratemethrowaway[S] 4 points5 points  (1 child)

I'm not trying to humblebrag bro I am genuinely wondering if this eye contact is a red flag.Do you think there are any red flags from this weird eye contact? if not I might do as you suggest and properly escalate

[–]Zanford 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's really hard to judge from a verbal description whether it's truly weird or just IOIs.

Eye contact is generally a good sign, so just start flirting with her. Don't try to spin up some elaborate 'eye contact game' theory where you eyefuck her back day after day but never bust a real move.

Yeah maybe she's s a psycho and that's why she has intense eye contact. But that's unlikely (I mean other than the normal amount of psycho for a normal modern thot who got prescribed an antidepressant). And anyway the best way to find out if she's a crazy weirdo or just IOIing you...is to talk to her.

[–]2comment 2 points3 points  (2 children)

Go talk to her.

[–]tratemethrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I've said elsewhere, I've already spoken to her, she showed typical signs of interest(flirting touching my arms and chest) I'm more worried that the crazy eye contact is a sign she is crazy, and I want to avoid drama.

[–]KrustyKrabReject 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Only 1 way to find out. Have fun

[–]red_matrix 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So have you spoke to her? This is how girls make the first move - it will never get easier than this. Make your move now or she'll lose respect for you.

[–]batfish55 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You've been eye raped!

[–]JarHeadJoseph 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fuck me eyes

[–]cluelessguitarist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Be carefull could be a bipolar chick , pump n dump

[–]Jailhouseredpilled93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Always maintain eye contact. Always! Until she looks down or says, "what are you looking at," then you say, "not much"...while looking into HER soul! Read the side bar, watch Red Man Group religiously, and go out and slay!

[–]volvostupidshit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks like BPD to me. Fuck her but beware of the ensnarement that is going to happen. You are gonna regret it big time once she got you hooked.

[–]burrrahhh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl in my univ was doing this for weeks, went to talk to her. Within five minutes of talking she asked me out, I laughed it off as I was not that interested in her. You will never find out what she means unless you go and talk to her.

[–]smarthmouth123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She wants you real hard, clear all doubt from your mind And Remember your frame, ofcourse she wants you. Theres No reason Why she wouldn’t. C’mon man you shouldnt be insecure about talking to her in any way, she wants you to take charge go for it friend!

[–]ADrugAgainstWar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mate listen forget about all that "she must be crazy, don't stick your dick in crazy" crap from other people right now as she is still a high school student we haven't met her but at this age she probably isn't that bad.

In your case you're an inexperienced kid in school that wants to get get his dick wet. Yes it is hard and you're probably very nervous and don't know how to go about it.

Just start talking to the girl if you aren't already small talk about school and shit without being a try hard. Check out a kino guide and see she is comfortable with you touching her after that try to be on 1 on 1 (like doing homework together) and go for a kiss.

Now is your time to do stupid shit, fail, get embarrassed etc. it's fine to be inexperienced and nervous now. Things will go much easier in the future the more experience you gain and if nothing happens big deal try it with a different girl.

Also you might want to go for girls that are one or two years younger as it will make things easierwith being older than them and they most likely won't be that aggressive.

[–]Andgelyo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Man, I miss the original red pill. Reading these dumb ass posts makes me realize how autistic some of you guys are.

[–]AhoBiceps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she keeps doing it just use "sticky eyes".Get into eye contact with her and if you had too much of it pull your attention elsewhere slowly turning your head and keep the eye contact until she gets out of your pov or just wink and talk after class.

[–]yeetle321 1 point2 points  (1 child)

I got the same exact thing going on lmao. We need to keep in touch I’ll let u know what goes on tomorrow since u know what to do.

[–]tratemethrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds good

[–]2itiswr1tten 1 point2 points  (1 child)

All my best short term fucks were psychos. Pull a Nike and Just Do It bro. She's probably a freak and wants you to dominate her. Just be prepared

[–]tratemethrowaway[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I might just try escalating tomorrow. I'll let you what happens if you want.

[–]allcity28 1 point2 points  (3 children)

Good lord f-close already. This is some borderline blue pill shit.

[–]qwer1684 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You know that's some hypocrisy right there, why don't you check out your own post history where you give naked girls on gone wild etc free validation, seems like something a beta c*ck would do. You should less time masterbating to girls on gone wild and more time reading the side bar.

[–]tratemethrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

You know my whole life ain't focused around fking this girl as quickly as possible, I'm making good progress with my studies and lifting and making money, I'm still really young (just turned 17). I might try escalating tomorrow but by no means to I have outcome dependence on it, if I feel like it I will escalate ,if not I won't.

[–]AlmightyFiNeSseN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bro go at your own pace, fuck him. continue focusing on you, this girl doesn’t even sound worth it, she sounds batshit crazy and i would keep my dick as far from her as possible.

[–]jsphere256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So eye rape her right back, I fail to see the dilemma here

[–]humzy 0 points1 point  (2 children)

wtf is going on with this forum, you sound like a bunch of pussies, honestly.

OP are you a man? Then dont be scared, go talk to her and find out how crazy she is ;)

[–]Velebit -2 points-1 points  (1 child)

These are mostly teenage boys with 0 experience. Every cuck diagnosing her based on this pussies cowardly reaction to a girl eyeing him is a retard and should just drown themselves in a toilet.

[–]humzy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

its a shame what this subreddit has become, I'm starting to skip pretty much every post these days unless it has endorsed written under the poster.

[–]W_O_M_B_A_T 0 points1 point  (1 child)

there's this one girl who is eye raping me

SIDEBAR.

It's this way =======>

[–]tratemethrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all that is not even a quote of what I said. Second of all I'm well aware of the sidebar and have read over it several times. Finally I'm just asking a question, I am I no way obsessed (oneitis), I'm was just thrown a bit back by strange eye contact and was wondering if it was a bad sign.

[–]LonelyetDeranged -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Eye raping? You are so sensitive...you sound like a sjw