I'm only 21 and I understand these men will appear to me later on if I keep developing myself and my skills, increase my own value basically, so I need to have patience, yes. (I'm still in university for another 3 years btw.)
I'm just curious what are ways to speed up this process. The problem I'm having right now is that the people I know can only mentally stimulate me up till a certain point. After a few hours of hanging (3-5 hrs) I'm ready to leave. My chess friends are nerds. My motorcycle friends are kinda dummies. My clubbing friends are too much about that pussy & alcohol. Almost all of my fraternity mates are from a wealthy family, same for my fellow students as I go to a private school and therefore they're not really motivated to push themselves any more than is absolutely necessary.
I fuck with these friends from different social circles once every two weeks per circle. Any more would be too much for me and I get very bored/feel like I'm wasting time. Usually I rather spent most of my time on my own.
I want to fuck with people who can stimulate me more mentally. I'm reading Seneca - Letters from a Stoic - right now and the connection he has with his friends/students and how they write letters to each other is what I'm more or less after.
Someone I can discuss business/philosophy/psychology/self development with. Eventually I want to become wise as shit and forums like this one help me tremendously, yet I just feel like there's a personal connection I'm missing. I'd be really excited to have some sort of a RP vanguard as a mentor in RL for instance.