Is anyone experiencing the same?
Whenever it is the woman who ends the relationship ( what ever type of relationship, LTR, Plate, ... )
I can't get it out of my head. I keep wondering where did I fuck up and what went wrong. Not knowing really bothers me. It is not that big of a deal because it only affects 5-10% of relationships I had till now, most of the times I am the one ending stuff.
How do I get rid of this? 2 weeks after one of my plates broke I have a new one. She is easier, she treats me much better and sex is 10 times better as well - overall it shouldn't be a problem, but still I ask myself what went wrong with the old plate and I keep thinking about hitting her up and trying to set up a new "date".
I experience this kind of thought pattern everytime a relationship ends on her terms. Is this an ego thing? It is not because of oneitis, I have multiple sex partners and she really isn't a "loss".
Do you try to get feedback / learnings out of failed relationships / plates or is it a waste of time?