What positive experiences have you seen applying trp theory with women? (self.asktrp)

submitted by Rkingpin

There was a post here recently showing how women respond to weakness, and blue pill behaviour.

How about the flip side. What success have you guys seen applying red pill theory in real life?

[–]KilluaKanmuru 64 points65 points  (14 children)

She makes me food. She just does alot of things for me and backs me up. I'm thankful.

[–]AmazonAlphaMale 10 points11 points  (13 children)

LTR or plate

[–]IFuckingHateAllergy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Not OP but I had something like this. It was a plate. She did all of that so she could be upgraded to LTR.

[–]KilluaKanmuru 12 points13 points  (11 children)

LTR. Understanding DEER vs DARE and this quote: "A guy told me one time, "Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner." Really keeps my relationship with her solid. We meditate too -- it's invaluable.

[–]AwakenedSovereign 6 points7 points  (8 children)

To rephrase this:

Never LTR a girl you cannot immediately and easily replace.

[–]Velebit 2 points3 points  (7 children)

People of high value are difficult to find and replace, why limit youself to low value women just to have a sort of power advantage over them?

[–]AwakenedSovereign 2 points3 points  (3 children)

"just to have a sort of power advantage over them"

If you do not already have a power advantage over them, then your LTR is not going to work. Because it isn't your LTR. It's hers.

InB4 - but women know how to value & respect men even when they are less valuable than them, right? And honor the sanctity of their relationship/marriage even though the man is weaker. HAH.

The rest of what you said is just hamstering. AF/BB. You are either the Captain or you are not. If you are not 1st you are last.

If you dislike the quality of women that you can easily replace... work on your value. You should know by now it is possible for a man to ascend to incredible heights. Joan of Arcs fall to their knees for the right man (not that she would ever admit it).

[–]Velebit -1 points0 points  (2 children)

You are taking a purist attitude on female hypergamy in a sense that the only way a relationship can work is if a man has a power advantage and that is some cookie cutter one size fits all bullshit.

Sex js about reproduction and reproduction is about genes and genes are about mutations, rarities and special traits. My grand grandmother got disowned by her rich aristocratic family because she did not want to break the bond she got from the first guy a mere peasant she fell in love with, she was a looker too. If my grand grandpa followed your rules and avoided her because he can't easily replace a rich noblewoman and because she is higher in status, I would not be here. Fuck your retarded pragmatism. Bullets, and iron and fire and bayonetes for you and your cynical intellectual cancer. Just like my granpa gave you lot in wwii.

There are plenty of other examples like that woman who is rich but keeps spending all her money on a violent boyfriend who keeps ending in jail for various bullshit like DUI etc she is with him for ages.

[–]AwakenedSovereign 2 points3 points  (1 child)

This highlights your lack of understanding.

The badboys that rich women spend money on have the upper hand. Clear as day because you can see the value being siphoned from the one to the other. Maybe that is hard to grasp because the things society tells you are valuable (money) are not what Natural Law values (strength, size, potential for violence).

I don't much care what you believe friend. But these hallowed Halls are a place of enlightenment. If you are unable or unwilling to challenge your own paradigms, then why are you here?

Perhaps you aim to fight TRPs logic. Instead realize TRP is a toolbox. If you don't find utility in a certain truism, then don't use it.

Your concern is misplaced.

[–]Velebit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There is no natural law as you imagine it otherwise small framed, intelligent, disciplined and very 'beta' Romans who dedicate themselves to one woman and mateguard her on point of death would not have conquered hundreds of tribes of tall, strong, individualistic, libertarian and polygamist alpha brutes in Gaul, Germania, Britannia, Iberia, North Africa, Illyria and Balkans, Anatolia and mid east.

Rome went full Eliot Roger on everyone and won. The small nerdy engineer built his smart tools to gene kill brutes. That is the law. That is how humans make bears their toys and neanderthals not breathe any more.

Today I smile every time a report comes of when groups of individually small middle easterners kill some alpha chad in Germany or France or Sweden because individualistic cancer likes to stay apart instead of submit to collectivism and be ants.

The natural law is collectivism.

[–]KilluaKanmuru 1 point2 points  (2 children)

He's saying that no one is so high value that you can't walk away from them. Essentially, you're always going to be #1 no matter what. You don't settle for less.

[–]Velebit -1 points0 points  (1 child)

You don't think someone like Marie Curie, Cleopatra or Joan of Arc are too unique and valuable to be easily replaced? That just means: whatever a person can offer find a way to diminish it. What a voluntarily sad and paranoid way to live.

[–]KilluaKanmuru 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We're not talking about diminishing anyone's value here. Women can be fucking amazing. What we're saying is, if she's not working out within your life plan then you will leave her. You shouldn't let her tie you down and stop your from living your dreams if it means leaving her. Also, you're not going to allow her to cheat on you or constantly disrespect you -- if she does these things, leave, no matter how valuable she is. There may come a time where you just don't even flat out like her anymore. You think all of those people you mentioned above were seen as valuable by everyone? No way.

[–]FvckYourSafeSpace 3 points4 points  (1 child)

That guy’s name is “Neal McCauley” as played by Robert DeNiro in Michael Mann’s epic heist film “Heat.”

[–]friendandadvisor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but, Neal heard it from this dude's friend.

[–]HurricaneHugues 42 points43 points  (11 children)

They're way more compliant and I get away with some pretty wild shit now tbh

[–]Rkingpin[S] 10 points11 points  (9 children)

It's as if being Alpha means the game has different rules haha

[–]HurricaneHugues 7 points8 points  (8 children)

Pretty much. It's a very different reality, that's for sure. I vant imagine how intoxicating it is to be someone like Arnold Schwarzenegger at his prime, or Stallone at his prime.

[–]ReasonablyGoodMexica 1 point2 points  (7 children)

Stallone?! Ha! Imagine bigger bro. Genghis Khan had a conquered a fucking quarter of humanity.

He was so drenched in pussy juice, that 1 out of every 200 men today are direct descendants of his.

[–]HurricaneHugues -1 points0 points  (6 children)

It wasn't voluntary pussy, and the world population was really small at the time.

[–]ReasonablyGoodMexica 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Probably yes, and definitely yes. World population just above a third of a billion. But that doesn't make his achievements any less remarkable.

The intoxicating feeling you talk about is power. He was a ruler of men and as such, he had a lot of it. Nowadays, most men can't even rule over their own goddamn house.

[–]friendandadvisor 0 points1 point  (4 children)

I think that this is pretty speculative. You can't say that the ruler of the known world had to extort pussy.

[–]HurricaneHugues 0 points1 point  (3 children)

Do you know anything of world history?

[–]friendandadvisor 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Some. Undergrad is History.

[–]HurricaneHugues 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Clearly you didn't learn anything if you think all that sex was consensual. Back then it was nothing but conquest, pillaging, and raping. You need a refund for that degree my guy.

[–]friendandadvisor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm guessing that your sources are pretty well verified?

Hey, wait a fucking minute...haven't you read about SMV? Had you considered that the ruler of the world would be above a 5?

[–]Velebit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What can you get away with?

[–]acithetic 36 points37 points  (2 children)

After my first month of TRP got laid by a chick down the hall.

TRP helped my hold frame, know the signs, and to tease really fucking well.

[–]acithetic 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’m still only on month 3 of my TRP “awakening” so I’m not an authority on it quite yet. I will certainly make a post when the time comes, I do genuinely enjoy it.

A guess some simple tips would be to tease in a lighthearted way that conveys a sexual undertone. Check and see her response. If she reciprocated you’re doing it right and should keep at it. If she’s offended or blows you off you should either recalibrate your delivery or consider that she just may not be interested. The great thing about teasing as well is that it can be interpreted sexually or non-sexually based on whether she’s interested in you or not.

[–]z2a1-9 29 points30 points  (0 children)

By being a leader and being the prize you get what you want out of the relationship. TRP is gold!

[–]NiceTryDisaster 19 points20 points  (2 children)

I can now hold my breath underwater for 4 minutes and 32 seconds

[–]1puck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's impressive. I'm fairly fit and can barely hold it a minute underwater. Unless this is a joke

[–]X-Trem0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nemo? is that you?

[–]SalporinRP 17 points18 points  (1 child)

There's this false narrative out there that when a guy act Red Pilled in a relationship that it's the guy "winning" and the girl "losing" when that couldn't be further from the truth.

My relationships since I've started applying TRP theory have been much healthier than the ones in my blue pill days. Girls want a guy who acts red pilled.

[–]NoTime4SmallTalk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First response that I agree with 100%... women want strong men who aren’t doormats, and who call women out on their bullshit and don’t tolerate the drama.

When I was younger it definitely improved the quality and quantity of my sexual relationships. Once I settled down and married, it’s kept the relationship exciting, strong and still sexual, even after 10+ years.

[–]cudder17 83 points84 points  (17 children)

Went on a date recently and as we were walking on campus I pretty much decided everything to do. Pointing everywhere we were heading, leading the way, where to eat, where to sit and talk.

If she tried to decide something I’d say “no we’re doing this, or, no this way”

She was calling me daddy the whole time lol.

[–]cenie 21 points22 points  (0 children)

There isn’t one. Sometimes women will reject you for acting like a twat. You probably came off as bossy rather than a leader. Recalibrate and try again.

[–]Furrealyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with this.

I done the doctors and lawyers, and enjoy conversing with them due to their intelligence, but I have yet to find one that wasn’t trying to play Alpha. It gets tiring so I bail after getting what I want out of it.

I shit you not, the last one told me her husband left her to become a woman. All I could think was “no shit he did, because there’s only room for one man in your life: YOU!”

[–]mickey__ 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You are looking at this wrong, some women rejects you and you due to insecurities start to shit talk ‘AWALT’ and similar crap. Don’t be like that, work on yourself, get more experience and shut the fuck up

[–]friendandadvisor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL, it's in her dumping your ass, that's where!

Of course, you may have shown yourself to be a tool by "pointing everywhere you were going". Maybe she thought that you were too paripatetic with Tourette's or something.

[–]TheAmazingSeagull 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Don't treat RP stuff like how PUAs treat their creepy ass "cheat codes" that they apply blindly to every girl until they get a hit.

Like the other guy said, know your audience. Act yourself, always try to read how the girl is reacting and act based on that. The iron rule here is just never be a pussy.

[–]Time_Animal_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She want attracted to you

[–]bluefingerblue[🍰] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They have to actually see you as dominant for that to work. If they’re questioning your dominance/leadership, they’ll call you out on it. She probably sensed you were putting on a show or she just wasn’t that attracted.

[–]Throndor_Rising 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a hyper-cunt to me. Probably did you a favor.

[–]FlyingSexistPig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She didn't think you were a leader, she thought you were a tyrant.

If you're leading, but it's not going anywhere interesting, then you're disqualifying yourself as a leader.

[–]Velebit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends if a woman finds that attractive. of course trp says they all do and shit but a lot of them don't especially those who tend to be high achievers and have high self respect. I would also like to point that doing that on first date is not smart, maybe wait for trust and respect to build up.

[–]friendandadvisor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I replied "Haha okay" thinking it was a shit test, but it wasn't because she removed me afterwards.


[–]319Skew 15 points16 points  (2 children)

Met a girl at a bar. Yada yadda Yadda. Broke her fence while having sex in her backyard.

[–]Kdjdbsosbei 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We need more Seinfeld references

[–]Rkingpin[S] 28 points29 points  (6 children)

For me personally

-Gained respect and an unfuckable with status in social circles using basic A&A in response to shit tests/ banter. Also by learning about frame of course.

-raised attraction of females by being vague in talking about myself and also withdrawing attention when needed

-gains in the gym raised SMV naturally

-high smv=dread. Leads to hamster spinning when she knows you have options

-cutting out useless pursuits such as porn, jacking off. Feel more masculine and energised to chase my mission. I don't wank at all.

-Chasing my mission means I'm busy doing other shit. Naturally, women come 2nd and they sense that shit. Seems to get them wet lmao

[–]IBeMadToo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The last point is very important. They hate it but they love it.

[–]ryantheman2 2 points3 points  (3 children)

What do you mean by “A&A” in response to shit tests?

[–]drnemola 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Agree & amplify

[–]_the_shape_ 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Take their train of thought and amplify it in a way you find amusing.


Girl: "so like, are you a player?"

You: "I'm not a player, I just fuck a lot (of different chicks)"

Edit: RIP Pun

[–]Throndor_Rising 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Player!?! No, im more of a bait you in for a good solid 3 to 5 years, than when you least expect it "Im going out for a pack of smokes" (and never coming back) kind of scoundrel. I play the long game.

[–]cornylamygilbert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you don't wank ever?

are you red pill enough you get laid pretty regularly then?

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Apply the theories in your own life and see for yourself.

[–]frontyer0077 24 points25 points  (2 children)

Blowjobs, sex (whatever and whenever I want, anal aswell). She makes homemade bread to me in the morning and makes coffe. Brings it to the bed. She gets up an hour before me just to bring me breakfast, never knew such a thing could ever happen before the red pill.

I also feel powerful, I never did before. Reason being I have many women pretty much begging to fuck me. I am in control of my life and the women dont control me. Thats a new level of freedom I have mever experienced before.

[–]cornylamygilbert 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I want to hear more from you

I have to assume you have a good job or make good money, are jacked, have a high value social life, apparently fuxk her well etc?

[–]frontyer0077 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, right now I dont have a very well paying job. However I am 20 years old and probably make more then most in my age. Girls dont really give two shits about money when youre 20, unless you have "fuck you money". But I am on my mission, and in about 3 years I could be making more then the average man in my country while having half the year free of work. The free time I will be using to try to make a buisness (already startet).

I am also kind of chubby, I have startet lifting but I am no where near jacked. Working on it though.

My social life and my game however is pretty damn good. Game is the part of the red pill I knew well before I swallowed the pill. I was great at picking up girls. But could never keep them around. Thats where the red pill helped. I was basically the alpha at the party, but the beta the rest of the time. Now I am the alpha all the time.

[–]redditaccountiuse 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Well my discovery of the red pill gave me the courage to move away for a job. Up until that point I was under the impression even working 1 hour away would be a dealbreaker. I felt very trapped. But taking my life into my own hands and doing what I wanted only seemed to make her want me more. That was some clear early evidence of how this stuff works.

[–]_Icarus_Reborn_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A little late to the party, been on a week long trp break/holiday (vacation for you Yankee doodles).

I had my first 'success' of applying trp principles to my LTR.

While on holiday one night (we stayed in a countryside cottage for a week) we decided to stay in cook dinner, watch a movie and play games.

Once dinner and movie was done I asked ltr what she wanted to do, and got the classic I don't know. I threw out a few ideas and all got shot down.

So, I got up cleared away dinner stuff and tidied the kitchen. Once that was done I sat down next to her and started reading, paid no attention to her. I could see her getting annoyed and scrolling through FB. It really did test me to hold frame and ignore her. Eventually she huffed and said shes going to bed. I said goodnight, not looking up from the book.

After about 30mins I decided to go bed myself. Once in bed she cuddled up to me and apologised for being like that. I told her she needed to make it up to me for being rude.

I went to sleep after a decent blowjob and without returning the favour.

Lesson learnt: holding frame can be tough and still have to fight the BP within, but when you see trp in action it's a great motivation to keep going.

I know it's a small victory, but it's the pebble that starts the avalanche.

Hope that's the kinda answer you're looking for pal.

[–]TheBadGoy 52 points53 points  (12 children)

*Get a girlfriend and other girls will instantly blow your phone up

*The girl you messaged two years ago will immediately message you the moment her boyfriend dumps her

*They really don't care if you cheat, just don't embarrass her.

*Fucking someone's hot girlfriend will make you feel immensely powerful

[–]usernameishardtomake 12 points13 points  (1 child)

What do you mean by "don't embarrass her"? Examples?

[–]Renzotl56 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Don’t make it public.

[–]ay013523 10 points11 points  (9 children)

Don't fuck other guys girls.

[–]bruiser18 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I get away with so much on account of women not wanting to lose a high value guy.

They give me less shit, for the same reason as above.

They go so far out of their way for me, they would move mountains to hang out for a few hours.

A lot more...

[–]AwakenedSovereign 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I let a girl I was hooking up with sleep over one night. We'd been hooking up for ~6 weeks or so.

She had been out partying that weekend and around 1-2am after not being able to fall asleep in my own bed, I decided I did not want the slut around anymore. Shook her awake and asked her to leave.

She proceeded to blow up my phone for days.


Oh also, lets talk about the 8months pregnant chick I fucked last week. "Mmm, I want to, but I can't.."
"Ok, I'll text you my address". Closed.

[–]hrm0894 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get sex/blowjobs on command.

[–]seedster5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was able to stand our from the other fuckboy. My girl was a sorority girl that never ducked around, I took her v card, while everyone was spitting game I was holding my frame and increasing my smv. She saw more potential in me than I did in myself, she doesn't know that part. 3 years later I'm on track with a good job and on my way to live a happy life thanks to trp.

But I will say this. A lot of people confine MGTOW with trp. Even people on here. What's up with that

[–]Zanford 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Night and day. Women who happily agree to one sided exclusivity and they even enjoy hearing about my exploits with other girls while seeing them. Cleaning my place, lots of great cooking, begging for hardcore BDSM sessions (honestly a nice energetic BJ does it for me, but girls all really love the intense shit), writing or typing pages and pages of love notes, lots of presents, etc .

[–]FlyingSexistPig 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started dating my GF after first taking the red pill, post divorce.

I was strong, decisive, and lead completely in the relationship. It 100% won her over. She followed me when I moved across the country, even though I had never said the words, "I love you."

Even now, I know that any decision I make will be followed unquestioningly.

[–]Datanami 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everything, duh

[–]EvanPetersDouble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More high SmV women.

[–]Musicgoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My girl was out if pocket. I applied dread game, ignored her tears, and now she's giving me sec like a porn star.

Also spinning plates and getting laid has become very very easy... Almost automatic. If I want to Fuck a chick there's a 99% chance that I can.

[–]TheFlyingPro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just yesterday night a girl basically complimented on my frame: ‘It is very impressive how you remain calm even in very stressful and difficult situations.’

The Red Pill works, no matter what politically correct opinions say

[–]wobbleelbbow -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Success - women. Next question?