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LTR Deleted our pics together. (self.asktrp)

submitted by QuesXt

Ive been dating her for 2 months and today she randomly deletes our photos together on all social media. Should I confront her and ask her why or just ignore it? Im thinking about just cutting it off with her because I find that flat out disrespectful

UPDATE: Shit just got spicy boys. She randomly texted me saying that after work she wants to stop by my place and say “hi”. Should I use this opportunity to end it with her?

UPDATE 2: Still at work but she just messaged me again after Ive ignored her all day asking if we were “gonna still hang out saturday?” Nothing crazy just updating you till the end.

FINAL UPDATE: Sorry for the long wait on the update had a pretty busy week and she did come over to say “hi” but I used that as my opportunity to break it off. I told her “we are done for and I had fun” and she said “Why? What did I do?” I laughed and walked away I was to tired to give a fuck. Kinda anti-climatic but thank you for everyone on the advice hope I made the right choice.


[–]-sho-ryu-ken- 197 points198 points  (28 children)

Don’t bother asking. You know why.

[–]QuesXt[S] 44 points45 points  (27 children)

So do you think I should break it off with her? Everything was going good it was so random Im bamboozled

[–]cowb3llf3v3r 170 points171 points  (1 child)

She’s already broken it off with you in a rather public fashion

[–]jekporkins77 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I agree, go about it as if she told you, you were over

[–]Endorsed Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil 56 points57 points  (18 children)

Is your girlfriend Joseph Stalin because she's sure acting like it.

[–]QuesXt[S] 11 points12 points  (2 children)

Lowkey

[–]babybopp 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Dude dont even grace her with ur presence. She has already laid the groundwork now she wants to seal it with its not you its just me, i need time speech. Dont let her... ghost her. She probably is still leaking another dudes sploodge as she talks to u. Go for one last hit if u can then bottom shelf her pending review

[–]WheresWilliam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fucking Tankies

[–]neverquitman 1 point2 points  (14 children)

Textbook scenario;

You: Is my girlfriend joseph stalin because she sure acting like it. I understood your message. Her: huh? You: Oh you indicated we are single. I wasnt holding you. Her: reason 1: Oh I just like privacy ...or reason 2: I was just stressed... 3; Or creeps look at our pictures You: Uhhmm....how would you deal the situation then?

[–]Endorsed Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil 13 points14 points  (13 children)

Here's how my grandfather would have answered this question.

A commodity has both functional use value and symbolic value. So for example a Jeep has the functional use of being an off-road vehicle. A pink Jeep has the symbolic use value of announcing that it's owner is a homo who likes buttseks.

The symbolic use vale of the photos is that she's single.

If she denies the existence of symbolic use value she should have no problem with you speaking to her dad while wearing a thong.

[–]neverquitman 6 points7 points  (11 children)

I really dont understand your point, are you saying photos are used as hints what is happening to the relationship. If she cares, she has them, if not, she deletes them?

I would add its not just to show shes single, but that shes not invested in him.

But what if someone forced her to delete them? Even then, she could have said fuck you dad , Im not going to delete them, hes my bf.

Now back to the situation:

Look, heres the thing. The gut says next. Her actions just scream for it. But... She can always say " I was stressed out so I deleted them". Or "I dont like them" or "he made me angry so I deleted them". The thing is he can make a scene, they'll fight. She'll say sorry blah blah...But deep down shes done with him.

But its passive aggressive. She knows it, the question is, make a scene and forget about her. Or just not give a fuck.

[–]InstigatingDrunk 6 points7 points  (2 children)

can you over think this any further?

[–]neverquitman 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Is there a problem?

[–]Endorsed Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil 2 points3 points  (5 children)

Have her employ these arguments them employ same arguments when her dad is staring at your thong ass

[–]neverquitman 2 points3 points  (4 children)

Is that a yes or no? I dont get your point...

[–]Endorsed Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil 0 points1 point  (3 children)

Answering your question reinforces your faulty logic which I'm rejecting

[–]neverquitman 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Lol.

My conclusion is that either way shes buying time and wants to leave him. The question is, when.

[–]EvanPetersDouble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deep down she's done with him? Wow talking about black or white thinking.

First off who gets girlfriends who post photos together on social media, she must be 15. OP drop her and get an older woman.

[–]Chaddeus_Rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GLO explained it when he talked about the symbolic use value of the photos.

She's advertising she's single. Which means 1. she doesn't respect you and 2. she is looking for new dick for December 3. you should go Joseph Stalin on her ass and purge her. Or follow HumanSockPuppets guide to managing your bitches

[–]neverquitman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But as a guy, you cant really ask her that because she might lie.

[–]alphabachelor 70 points71 points  (0 children)

She does not deserve that decency.

You ghost her as she is now dead to you. She no longer exists.

The only reason why you would engage is if she has anything of significant value of yours like if you let her borrow your iPad. And don’t expect to get it back.

[–]Redpillavenger 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Everything was going good

Talk only for yourself

[–]joscterr 13 points14 points  (0 children)

100% break up with her

[–]Pork_Sword3 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree what everyone is saying in this thread. Don’t give her the time of day. Just respond with “no thanks I don’t want you coming over” if she asks why either ignore or flat out end the relationship and never speak to her again. Either way be a man and take control. Don’t let her be the one to be in control of what happens.

[–]Terra501 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Standard TRP is not to break it off, rather, demote her to sex only; a fuck buddy/booty call. But definitely not a LTR. She’s looking elsewhere.

[–]Chaddeus_Rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything was going good

'Going good' according to you. Not 'going good' according to her.

And don't you dare 'talk to her' about her feelings or why things are no longer going like they used to, or I'll fuck your gf for you.

[–]Duzand 299 points300 points  (13 children)

"LTR"

"2 months"

Methinks someone over-invested.

[–]QuesXt[S] 33 points34 points  (12 children)

I do admit I jumped into the relationship to quick and I fucked up on that.

[–]321gumby 40 points41 points  (1 child)

Jesus you guys dated 2 months and had photos on social media together? I'm assuming your young. Use this time to become heartless to needing just one girl. Date as many as you can get away with at a time. Then you will never ask these questions.

[–]KingSlapFight 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I've been seeing a woman 5 years. 0 photos of us on my social media. A few of us on hers.

[–]dani098 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yes'sir

[–]BusterVadge 13 points14 points  (8 children)

Here's your chance to recover. Don't fuck up on this.

[–]QuesXt[S] 2 points3 points  (7 children)

Are you referring to the update?

[–]BusterVadge 57 points58 points  (4 children)

Yes you know what's coming. You have a couple of options here. Save yourself some pain and say "Don't bother". Or have her come over and when she says what she has to say just laugh at her and say "Okay". Then tell her it's time to leave.

[–]Redpillavenger 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Gold here

[–]ScratchinCommander 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OP listen to this

[–]garrypig 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is how to win

[–]Aarxnw 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Just break it off if you have the balls. That’s not supposed to be an insult btw, it’s just not always an easy thing to do.

I’m not saying there is an ‘if not’ option, the if not is you’ll most likely end up disappointed when she breaks it off. Which to be honest, it sounds like she wants to do today anyway?

Best thing to do is get ahead of it and just tell her it’s not really working out and that you think you should see other people.

[–]Terra501 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if you and her already made up but your winning move is to be playful and nonchalant. if she gives you the “let’s focus on our friendship” speech, just smile and say “ yeh focus on your stuff, I think we both have stuff we need to focus on its all good.” then, change the subject to talk about something playful or superficial. The goal here is to establish a fuck buddy. by all means dont pursue this person as a long-term relationship.

[–]RedSkeller 131 points132 points  (4 children)

she's got her grip firm on a new branch

[–]nummas 14 points15 points  (3 children)

this. She has found someone better and there is nothing you can do about it. It's time to move on and start approaching other women.

[–]Psychocist 24 points25 points  (2 children)

All it takes is someone different, not even necessarily better.

[–]empatheticapathetic 12 points13 points  (1 child)

Her perspective of value doesn’t match yours.

[–]SniXSniPe 109 points110 points  (6 children)

UPDATE: Shit just got spicy boys. She randomly texted me saying that after work she wants to stop by my place and say “hi”. Should I use this opportunity to end it with her?

Tell her you can't because you got a date to get ready for tonight.

Trololol

[–]QuesXt[S] 36 points37 points  (2 children)

Haha this genuinely made me laugh

[–]DadOnDabs 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Do this please

[–]yungvibegod2 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Do it and let us know how it went. I think that’s alpha as fuck and hilarious

[–]Classy_Amir 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Do this!

[–]Kabuki431 8 points9 points  (1 child)

Do it do it do it

[–]MisterDSTP 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Please lol

[–]bosshawg502 31 points32 points  (0 children)

lol she's coming over to dump your ass. You should one up her and have any of her things she left at your place piled up on the porch so she sees it when she drives up 😂. You know, she knows, we know.

[–]suckisuckilongtime 60 points61 points  (17 children)

She’s about to swing so be ready

[–]QuesXt[S] 10 points11 points  (15 children)

I agree I feel like thats what shes about to do. Should I cut her off before she does?

[–]markinsinz7 41 points42 points  (3 children)

No dont cut her off. DO NOT EVEN ADDRESS THIS ISSUE BECAUSE IT'S NOT. IT'S AN INDICATOR. You a valuable man got to know ur girls not ltr worthy. Fuck her each time like it could be the last.

She's now a plate. Don't tell her this. Just treat her like one. Basically no dates just fuckin and sending her home.

You start doing what she's been doing this whole time - look for "what's out there". Think of it like ur employed at x for years and now want a raise promotion and new experience so u start putting your resume out there. And whaddya know like employment, getting girls also works easy when you already have one.

Make sure ur fb/insta doesn't have any ltr status indicators. But do use photos of u and her friends or whatever. Shitt if I were u I would see which one of her single friends has the hots for u.

Oh man this will be fun....Fuck my life if only I had the genetics or trp knowledge 4 years ago. Sigh

[–]QuesXt[S] 4 points5 points  (2 children)

Thanks for the reply thinking about downgrading her and only contacting for sex

[–]bestCallEver 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Bruh she has already dumped you. There will be no downgrade option on your part.

[–]markinsinz7 19 points20 points  (0 children)

No thinkin, it's already done. She made the decision. Seriously takin pics down like that means she's either found a higher branch or is bored with ur naive shitt and hence showing she's available

[–]yumyumgivemesome 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'd actually say that I'm too busy today. She wants to come over to officially break up because that would give her closure and make her not feel so bad inside. Well she already disrespected you by deleting all the photos. You both are done, and you don't owe her a thing. If she demands to set up a time to see you, tell her maybe tomorrow.

The reasoning: Right now she wants an official end so that she can LTR someone else. She doesn't get that official end if you don't meet her. The extra time causes her hamster to spin, and she may begin to question whether she's making the right decision. Well that doesn't matter because you've already made the decision for her: the LTR is finished. However, that spinning hamster may be enough to keep her around as a plate for a little longer (to the extent you still want to hook up every now and then). Basically the LTR is over either way. But playing it strategically might get you a little more ass out of the situation. Probably not, but maybe.

[–]Psychocist 9 points10 points  (2 children)

Just a note here - in the future, mentally prepare from the beginning. Get to a point where you can experience a year+ relationship and not miss a beat if she left. If you were already behaving like she wasn't in your life, in a time like this you would barely notice her leave; you'd be busy focusing on far more important shit. More importantly, you'd very likely still be gaming and talking to women so would have plenty of options for yourself. In fact, if you kept gaming maybe it would be you who was branch swinging and not her?

[–]QuesXt[S] 4 points5 points  (1 child)

Ill keep that in mind Im only 20 still gotta lot of shit to work on.

[–]xgozax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s a great time to learn trp and work on it. It take longer for some than others to be able to do this. I’m still working on this after 5 years but the progress shows and fuels me to keep improving

[–]suckisuckilongtime 9 points10 points  (1 child)

Yeah get your shit ready mentally prepare and start thinking positive you’ll get through it and be in a better place soon.

[–]BusterVadge 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yep, this, and when she dumps OP he should just laugh and say "K", then not another word, ever.

[–]Zoddo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, but don't do it to 'beat' her to it like it's some sort of race. The point is that she could take several months before she officially cuts you off, and your time would be better spent doing other things.

[–]nabosch 1 point2 points  (3 children)

Fuck her one more time, real rough.

[–]QuesXt[S] 4 points5 points  (1 child)

Might pump and dump but ill update tonight

[–]mattyiceheretoentice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve gotten a lot of good advice man. I hope this isn’t what you’re going for

[–]empatheticapathetic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And get a rape accusation

[–]KingSlapFight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's already swung, just hasn't notified OP yet.

[–]derrtderr 20 points21 points  (0 children)

She already broke up with you. Your brain just doesn’t know it yet.

[–]throwinghthisoneaway 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Youre so lucky right now man. You know you guys are breaking up, spend 10 minutes resting in soticism and be ready to break up with her and act completely fine. Look up trp breakup, it all says to just be fine with it during that conversation, smile, tell her ok and turn around knowing that she will be back on your dick in a couple months.

Youre lucky because its not as sprung on you and random as you think, so she wont get to see the stunned look on your face when she tells you its over.

I envy you

[–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen 38 points39 points  (4 children)

LTR of two months

LTR - long term relationship. how is two fucking months a long term relationship? i've been waring the same pair of underpants for longer than that.

she is some random hoe you barely know. Who gives a fuck what she deletes or not. how do you even know? Do you stalk her?

If you want "to cut if off with her" just block her everywhere and ghost instead of praying for some juicy drama to pet your ego.

http://archive.is/yxzC1

[–]novalentineforyou 6 points7 points  (2 children)

wearing the same pair of underpants longer than that

Do you mean literally the same pair every day for two months? Sweet Jesus, hook me up with that brand.

[–]NiceTryDisaster 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's R O G A N. And get 10% off on me undies. Jamie pull that shit up

[–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

maybe more like a couple of weeks. I was very deep into depression and basically stopped taking care of myself. It was shortly before I decided I want to change myself and my life.

[–]NPC72521 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I saw that link I was a little bit afraid it was a picture of your two month old underpants.

[–]irvingwashington12 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Put yourself her in situation. You already know what's about to happen.

[–]eatingaburritoatm 7 points8 points  (6 children)

Updates op

[–]QuesXt[S] 15 points16 points  (5 children)

Will update tonight should be interesting.

[–]russelln 6 points7 points  (3 children)

If you don't drop her ass I will be ashamed of you.

[–]nofilmynofucky 1 point2 points  (2 children)

implying she hasn't already made the decision for him

lol she's only going to visit op to dump his ass officially

[–]russelln 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Yeah so beat her to the punch.

[–]nofilmynofucky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Disagree. At this point he'll just look petty: like, oh you want to fire me? WELL I QUIT!

better option is just laugh it off and let her go.

[–]DebonairD 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Delete her from your life

[–]Psychocist 12 points13 points  (9 children)

Im thinking about just cutting it off with her because I find that flat out disrespectful

It could easily be a shit test. It's pretty weak to be spying on social media.

Regardless, the answer is always the same: soft next.

Those who give a shit will chase you without ANY effort on your part. I've just got done with a 12 month relationship where I barely texted her, didn't friend her on FB, and she just used messenger to arrange to come round to my place where we hung out and fucked. Not a booty call, either, we enjoyed the full spectrum of a relationship. I didn't give her any money. It was only towards the end she started trying to bleed me for something (which didn't work because I knew it was over).

So when I say soft next EVERY time she walks out the door I mean it! Women who want to be with you will not take any convincing. The only two things you need to do: 1) fuck her good, 2) be a valuable man (read: focus on you). But know this: women with less experience need less pleasing compared to those already on the CC. Commitment is a joke. Committing to a slag 2 months in is a catastrophe.

Learn from it and move on. Go fuck ten other women as they say. Start focusing on you and your mission and leave women a good few pegs down your priority list filed under "entertainment". Get your fucking head straight because men ruin their entire lives over pussy. The sooner you figure out their true lack of value the better.

[–]QuesXt[S] 2 points3 points  (4 children)

Good perspective dude thank you.

[–]Endorsed ContributorUEMcGill 4 points5 points  (2 children)

This is the most important aspect. Quit social media stalking. If you are a high value man, she'll stalk you. Social media should be used like all other things in your life, as a tool to pull pussy.

When she asks stupid shit like "follow me" you should be like "fuck Um no. I don't give out follows like they mean nothing."

Play the roll of the prize

[–]QuesXt[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

So you’re telling me that it doesn’t matter that she did this cause if I didn’t have social media she would’ve never known?

[–]Endorsed ContributorUEMcGill 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm telling you if you played the prize it wouldn't matter if you have social media.

[–]Psychocist 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No worries man. You'll relax the older you get. You said 20 in another response. I'm only 31, but I've noticed I've calmed down big time over the last few years. Age and experience will take the pussy off the pedestal for good.

[–]Dymatizeee 0 points1 point  (3 children)

Out of curiosity, why did it end? It seemed like everything was going well on your end considering your lack of investments in her

[–]Psychocist 0 points1 point  (2 children)

It is, somehow, still going. I've been living in her country for 12 months (met her fairly quickly after arriving, though carried on seeing other girls), and have been upfront about going home in 6-8 months. She asked if she should wait for me to come back and I said no.

I think they can only take that for so long. Some days she won't leave me alone, other days she sends break up texts. We both know there is an expiration date, and I don't know how she's still hitting me up. That's a good example of the staying power of a low n count girl. We know it's over, but she's addicted because she can't figure out why I don't give a shit (lost my mum couple years back and all other losses dwarf it).

Didn't mean to splurge, but it's a relationship. Messy details as always.

[–]Dymatizeee 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Sorry for your lost. I appreciate your lengthy comment. When and how do you find out a girls n-count? My ex gf brought it up before we became exclusive

[–]Psychocist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Best way to tell a girl's n count is by how comfortable she is being intimate in the beginning. This girl was a bad kisser, bad at giving head, bad in bed. If you ever find yourself teaching a girl something as basic as how to kiss then safe to say she's not been riding the CC.

Another, more long-term, indication would be how she bonds with you. She will treat you as THE man in her life, not ANOTHER man she's leeching with her pussy.

I think it takes a bit of experience with loose women to see what genuinely conservative women behave like. Of course, AWALT, so n count doesn't really matter in the end, but it does mean they are usually much more pleasant to be around.

[–]felyasocal 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Be tougher than she can possibly imagine. Just ghost her and delete her from your thoughts and memories. She doesn’t exist. You thought you met her and dated, but it was just an illusion. This person doesn’t exist and you have lots of other pussy waiting

[–]downvotesanimals 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lots of this advice is horrible.

The correct response is indifference. Trust your gut and move on. If she has 'the talk' with you at some point just say 'ok. Bye.' Like it's nothing. Because you've moved on to gaming other chicks, and it really is nothing.

No need to beat her to the punch like a 13 year old gossippy schoolgirl.

[–]CalvinRichland 18 points19 points  (1 child)

Ghost her

[–]SmartAdhesiveness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed.

Also agree with others who raised question about “LTR.”

Don’t respond to her text, ignore anything else that comes from her, and don’t communicate with her anymore.

[–]the13thzac 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just say don’t bother.

There is literally no other reason for her to delete pics and come by to say “hi” other than she’s out

Instead of seeing her again remember her like when it was happy, delete her off of all social media’s, pretend like she no longer exists.

And when you remember she does, that’s chill. Be sad if you need to be.

But she no longer exists

[–]TheEarlyMan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lmao. You better break it off with her as soon as possible. As in, before she comes over to say “hi”. Don’t show emotion, either. The fewer words the better. After breaking it off, completely ghost her. If she’s still trying to talk to you in a week, plate her.

[–]OxfordCommasRGud 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Amused Mastery, Abundance Mentality and an IDGAF attitude: “that’s cool... no need to apologise (if she does)... I had fun” then usher her out unless she gives IOIs for break up sex.

Could plate her if/when her new branch snaps.

[–]anonymouspotatoe69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Waiting for updates.

[–]DadOnDabs 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Just text her back and say, "no need, your shit will be in a box by the door"

If she doesn't have anything at your place just say, "no need, it's been fun" or something like that

[–]ticklethegooch1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't make a game out of it who ends it first.

Treat her normal when she comes in and play it cool (you don't know if she wants to call it the quits). When she breaks the news to you, you are having the opportunity now to just reply: "ok". She will be shocked by your reaction and demands an explanation. You could answer something like this: "It's ok, I like you, but we are just dating for 2 months now and it is ok if you want to look for something else."

Say goodbye and move on.

This is much better and she will always look up to you because she will never be sure if you were more valuable than she perceived it.

[–]Odawg225 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Downvoting since no update.

[–]QuesXt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bring the popcorn back

[–]effyouasshole 4 points5 points  (4 children)

Silently demote her to plate status, and treat her accordingly. No need to talk about anything, nor formally end the LTR.

Since you're single now, start gaming other women and continue working on your mission.

[–]lovs2spuge 19 points20 points  (3 children)

Can’t demote her if she’s already demoted him

[–]effyouasshole 3 points4 points  (2 children)

I meant that OP needs to alter his perspective on her.

Its true that she no longer is invested in the LTR, but she may want him to stay invested. Or she may want to keep him in orbit in case her next guy doesn't work out.

[–]lovs2spuge 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I agree but its very unlikely that OP is able to keep her around just to bang if she's branch swinging.

As an orbiter, yes. As a sexual partner, no.

[–]effyouasshole 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That doesn't matter. He should treat her as a plate regardless. Either she goes along with it, or doesn't. He loses nothing if she declines.

She might also come back months/years from now for the D.

[–]_Neon_Shadow_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She's probably just throwing a tantrum. Ignore her.

[–]Zanford 2 points3 points  (1 child)

She's getting ready to branch swing. She's FB friends with some dude that she wants to look more available for.

You know this in your heart already. So just calmly break up with her and walk away.

[–]TopOccasion29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Precisely, she's testing the waters to see if the new guy she wants to be available for commits to her. If it doesn't work out with her new branch, i bet she'll come running back to OP after the "break"

[–]judethedude 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think guys on here can get kinda mean. What’s important to remember regardless of outcome is to remain stoic. She’s not feeling it anymore? Hey that’s fine we had some good times, bye. You aren’t hurt (at least don’t show it) and you aren’t groveling. Respect yourself and keep your dignity intact.

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[–]Xoramung 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The answer is no, 110% of the time, because you know some dumb cunt will try to add in 1% chance somewhere, who failed basic maths.

[–]Abeham10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Update .

[–]mabden 2 points3 points  (0 children)

>today she randomly deletes our photos together on all social media

She just got hit up by a higher SMV guy.

> she wants to stop by my place and say “hi”.

She wants to string you along until the new guy pans/flames out.

[–]Bedtimeshine 2 points3 points  (1 child)

So, it’s been a day...

[–]Odawg225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Downvoting since no update.

[–]dariusjames 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do not be reactivate. Just be ready whatever happens..stay calm. Or just use dread. That will teach her

[–]jakethesnake5000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t seem butt hurt. But go with the preemptive breakup via text. Tell her it’s not working out

[–]lovs2spuge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The writing is on the wall my friend

[–]ChadFromColumbus 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Why would she even post pics of you after only 2 months? Sounds like you rushed in and caught feels too fast.

[–]QuesXt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont know why she did I never asked her to and I admitted I jumped to her ship to quick.

[–]TatumBetterFultz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not that abnormal

[–]Musicgoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just ghost on her. Move on from this bullshit.

[–]satanicpriest13 1 point2 points  (2 children)

End it.

Also, GetOffSocialMedia.varg

[–]TopOccasion29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Social media is toxic and vain...but it has it's advantages. Business and fucking sluts.

[–]ChadTheWaiter100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like she’s gonna use this opportunity to end it with you bredda

[–]nofilmynofucky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Re your edit - calling it now, she's coming over to dump you

Like everyone else has said: you handed her the keys way too soon dude. Next time vet a girl for much longer.

[–]nummas 1 point2 points  (1 child)

When she tells you it's over, just be overly cool about it and say, "no problem, it was fun, best of luck" with a smile at the end. And tell her you have to go cause you have something on. Have her things ready for her to take as she leaves.

Don't discuss it or let her try and explain her decision to you. Just move on and go do something fun. The fact that you are not phased by it or providing her any sort of drama will be the best form of retribution.

[–]QuesXt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah Im mentally prepared and Im ready to start looking for other women. Thanks for the advice bro.

[–]RedHoodhandles 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Guess I'm gonna get some popcorn.

[–]QuesXt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Highly recommend.

[–]TatumBetterFultz 1 point2 points  (4 children)

Yikes

[–]QuesXt[S] 0 points1 point  (3 children)

Tru

[–]TatumBetterFultz 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Ghost or if you hang out don’t react like a softy, bring out the stone nuts

[–]QuesXt[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Bring out the stone nuts and dump?

[–]TatumBetterFultz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No as in just don’t show any emotion, act like you don’t give a shit

[–]Goal10der 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Bro, read the fkn sidebar, you are obv young/new here.

You are jumping to a conclusion faster than woman. Just meet with her, and see what she wants. If she breaks it off, peace out and redownlaod tinder.

[–]QuesXt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am new to this and still got a shit ton to learn.

[–]furcryingoutloud 1 point2 points  (2 children)

LTR? 2 months?

And who gives a fuck about pictures on social media? You even look?

[–]QuesXt[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Well if she deletes only the ones of me shouldn’t I be abit upset? and suspicious?

[–]furcryingoutloud 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My point is you shouldn't give a fuck. Plate her. 2 months is no LTR. You're putting too much into it. Plate her. But never make a decision based on social media activity. It shows weakness. Fuck social media, stay well above it.

If she does something you don't like, just plate her. No confrontation, no talking about it. Simply plate her. Never drama. Walk away before drama. You are too valuable to partake in drama.

Why plate and not next? Why give up good pussy if she wants to give it to you?

edit: it's spelled you not yu

[–]apost54 1 point2 points  (0 children)

F

[–]ice_jj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude you’ve known her for 2 months if she doesn’t want your guys pics on her personal profile than thats her decision. She probably feels like she’s too invested in you

[–]Shaka9 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Are we gonna get an update or what.

[–]Odawg225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Downvoting since no update.

[–]madhguru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol

[–]Peter_B_Long 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Meet up if you want. If you don't want to go out of your way, just call her and ask what's up.

Be completely indifferent and stoic.

her - "I'm breaking up with you"

you - "ok. good luck to you"

[–]QuesXt[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No reaction is the best reaction thanks.

[–]Brushyourteethm8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buy a dog together.

/thread

[–]friendandadvisor 0 points1 point  (2 children)

No, maybe there is a strange explanation for her behavior.

OTOH, just be ready for her to give you the old heave-ho. I don't recall hearing 'to say hi', whenever I've been dumped. It's strange wording, so, maybe you're still in.

[–]QuesXt[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Thats why these mind games confuse me

[–]wobbleelbbow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women do not play mind games. It is men who imagine things which aren't there, usually (in terms of relationships I mean). If she does something shitty, it is not a "mind game". It's a clear sign she SHOULD BE NEXTED because she's not attracted to you.

[–]TopOccasion29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She wants to seem available to some other guys. She's already dumped you. Ghost and block her or demote to plate.

Give an update

[–]joeswo214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The BEST thing you can do is never talk to her again. Hopefully you didnt respond to that text.

[–]sjn2203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s dumping you homie. Other dicks have been sucked and you’re the last to find out.

[–]hiddenpleasures123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell her "nah, I got another girl coming over tonight to say 'hi'".

[–]SlappaDaBayssMon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's clear she's about to break up. Just text her back and be real about it. Don't be all pissy and "alpha" about it like half these dudes are telling you to, this isn't a zero sum game, you don't have to "win".

Tell her you know what the deal is, that she doesn't need to drop by, and that's it was fun, best of luck.

Don't get butthurt or try to make some dumb "your shit is out front" power move.

It's over, and you're completely okay with that.

[–]p3n3lop3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is 2 months an "LTR"?? lol

[–]NEPat10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So two months into my LTR my ex started neglecting me left and right and I knew what was coming. Rather than fight it or try to beat her to it, I sat down and took it and haven't talked with her since. With that said...

Do what u/SniXSniPe suggested and apply some dread game. "Can't. I have a date this Saturday"

[–]wobbleelbbow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should grow a pair, man.

[–]Concernedblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ghost her already

Block her number already and ignore

[–]classicrando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOU'VE GOT BREAKUP

[–]gsp9511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, just let it play out. There's no point in precipitating things. Let her come by and listen to what she has to say. Then you can make a decision.

[–]CaptainBW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Things are born just to die. Such is the way of the world. Sometimes I'll zone out here, but sometimes I'll remember back to when a woman gave me her love and meant it. Then I remember how fast it went away. She is using you for attention or to satisfy her feelings. Please wake up. Please don't be like me and over-analyze everything she does, and when she comes back weeks and weeks later you think things will be different. She might not be whoring it up, but she's spending her time without you, and that's worthy of thought.

[–]Hi_its_me_Kris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck man, start working on your insecurities, do you even lift?

[–]Andgelyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ghost/dread her. If she was a real LTR, she would’ve kept it there. Maybe she was ashamed of you, idk. Either way, move on bro.

[–]_Fresh_cakes_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ghost her. Start spinning plates

[–]Ricklogical 0 points1 point  (1 child)

LOL deleted all her pics WOW who the fuck did she just friend and not want to show she was taken to?

DAMN DUDE THAT'S CRAZY.

[–]QuesXt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats probably exactly what happened.

[–]128bitworm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't waste time or thought on her. Move on.

[–]jessne1 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Where’s the update OP, gonna grab some pop corn

[–]QuesXt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Still @work update most likely tomorrow should be spicy

[–]Hunter2isit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been dating the same girl for 4 years, 0 pictures online, 0 in the apartment

[–]Nov51605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

[–]idontevenlift37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been there fam. She’s already made up her mind and is planning on letting you down easy. Only thing you can do now is try and be one step ahead of her and keep your frame throughout all of it. DO NOT show her any signs of weakness(etc sadness, crying) retain your dignity.

[–]Derfaust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 months? LTR?? No.

[–]Adreamdead 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Are you,12?

[–]HeadingRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've got to ask - since when does 2 months = LTR?

[–]NPC72521 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 months and LTR? You've got a case of oneitis my brother.

We don't have enough information, but based only on what I know, she's about to turn you into her plate.

[–]Bedtimeshine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She Doesn’t want some other guy to see her with you. You what this means and you should act accordingly. No need to even bring it up. Let this be casual. Let her come over, fuck Her, have fun, send her on her way.

[–]ppanthero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, don't mention it. Nothing can be won. She will picture you as insecure. Then again, she already kind of broke it off with you. The mistake was the LTR after not even 2 months and probably being overly attached. Just play it cool. Either ignore her or just start dating other girls. Up to you. But don't argue with her. And for sure don't tell her that it hurts your feelings or crap like that.

[–]pame12 -3 points-2 points  (5 children)

I think wait like a week and see what happens.

[–]CalvinRichland 3 points4 points  (4 children)

Why?

[–]pame12 -1 points0 points  (3 children)

Cause maybe she tried to do something but ended up screwing up on it, so maybe the pics will come back in a couple of days, idk. Will it hurt to wait a week?

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