A female friend of mine has recently ended a 6 month LTR with her boyfriend.
We were at a group get together this past weekend at a mutual friends place. I arrived late, said my hellos to everyone. I then said to Lara, "Where's Robert at?." To which the group starts to laugh and says " Yeah Lara, tell him where Robert is!"
I looked confused at Lara as she puts her face in her hands half laughing half giving the - I'm a terrible person face.
Then my buddy says. "Lara is going to hell basically." Tell him why Robert isn't here Lara!"
Lara continues to half laugh half cry feeling incredibly guilty at the same time letting out periodic laughs.
"I dumped him...." Lara said.I said " Ohh what happened?"The group laughs again.Lara says "I'm basically going to hell, like Mike just said"
To make a long a story short. Lara and her boyfriend Robert have been in an LTR for 6 months and they never really talked about Robert's diseased mother who passed away when he was 12. Robert is now 28.
As they were driving the other day, she was brought up in conversation. As Robert started talking about his mother, he became emotional and eventually started to cry as he talked to Lara about how much he still misses her every single day.
In Lara's words as shes laughing and crying at the same time : "I know I'm a terrible person, I know I'm probably going to hell, but I just cant get past how unattractive and cringe worthy it was and I just can't look at him the same now."
There will never be an excuse to show your weakness to a woman. Even if it's your deceased mother.
What are some of your examples of the harsh but amoral nature of women?