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Well, the title pretty much says it all already, but let me elaborate: I figured out pretty late that I might be bisexual (mid twenties) So far I have only had two hookups, one with a gay guy, one with a tranny. Both times I was drunk. The first one was kind of meh (I had remembered him as a more attractive person), the tranny I enjoyed a lot actually. But somehow I'm still questioning whether I'm actually bi, reason being: 1) I absolutely don't like gay porn. It really rather turns me off. Bi-sex porn is kinda meh, I can jack off to it but it's less enjoyable than tranny/straight porn. I don't know how much bearing this has on real life attraction though. 2) I don't want to "come out". I see absolutely no benefit in doing that. I also fear making my straight male friendships weird, especially thinking back on the times I've shared a bed with a straight male friend. I know, probably petty worries, but they're there. Accidentally I've pretty much outed myself already though since I was drunk and in the "sharing mood". Texted 2 female "friends" and it's now safe to assume that everyone already knows, although I don't know for sure actually. 3) I don't feel the same kind of attraction towards men that I feel towards women. It's different and I've come to realize that I'm extremely selective when it comes to wanting to hook up with a guy. I'm entirely against the notion of becoming some 1000 cock man-whore. No thank you. Also, I feel like I'm attracted to women like 70% and men just 30%. And it's a lot more mental/emotional, rather than physical. Although, as I said, I do enjoy all the gay stuff in bed. I don't know, to me the entire thing is just extremely weird. Did anyone have that same shit going for him?


[–]SoRedSuchAlpha 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Trans women are women. If you're interested in them and very rarely interested in men, you're probably basically straight.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Sounds more like pansexual. attraction to things feminine or masculine. not necessarily male or female.

[–]maiway 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

There is romantic attraction, and sexual attraction, and usually some overlap between the two.

Also there can be a difference between what you think turns you on, and what you'll actually be sexually responsive to.

[–]bnhncnyc 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

All men are bi. The difference between men is whether they like MASCULINITY, FEMININITY or both. All men who say are "straight" actually like feminiinty, like you. They get turned on both my feminine women and feminine men. They don't like masculine women. Conversely, so called "gay guys" are turned on by masculinity. They don't like feminine men, and they more often than not like ftms. So as you can see, in the end of the day, we are all bi...

[–]should_ 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

Does that mean straight men might like feminine gay guys? I like the sound of that

[–]bnhncnyc 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Also just observe how repulsed so called gay men are of effeminate men. They don't really like that. And the ones who do actually also like feminine women. It is what it is. But saying that kinda throws the whole "trans" paradigm through the window, which is not a problem to me at all hehe.

[–]should_ 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Interesting stuff!

[–]bnhncnyc 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

It is the truth. They are the ones who fuck trannies too, or so called "trans women". They also reject masculine butch women. These men don't like men or women specifically, but the performance of femininity. "Straight men" are a myth. So are "gay men"... We are all "bi" in behavior.

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