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This was hard to find (self.altTRP)

submitted by Mideous

I just found this place recently after searching. When it comes to identifying with other gay men, it seems hopeless. I've tried popular message boards and a few Sub Reddits. I almost always wind up being banned or constantly moderated. They have this passive-aggressive approach to everything and seem to hate the promotion of the alpha male, unless he is willing to do it in drag.

To give a short visual and sexual description — I'm tall and masculine. I try to take care of myself. I've yet to have anyone out right question my sexuality — I've heard a few women say 'I really don't see that being for you'. Fuckin love dudes I'm also a top with never having the emotion/want/desire to bottom now combine that with having zero interest in dicks.

I want to go on, but I also don't want any of this to simply fall. I ran across a board that was very similar to this — looked at some post with the majority being dated. Wonder if it's the same situation here. Anyone still hanging out ?


[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah this place is pretty dead. I wish that weren't the case but unfortunately TRP train of thought isn't very common amongst gays.

Depending on your interests & political leanings, /r/rightwinglgbt could be up your alley. The sub is somewhat active and we have a discord server that you could join and talk to people on. It's at least worth a try, especially if you've found yourself to be incompatible with the various other LGBT communities on Reddit.

[–]Mideous[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I know this particular mindset is not popular among gay dudes. I think its due to our lack of representation. It was drowned out — they have control of the media.

Definitely link me in for the discord server. I will hang around and give my opinions because I now but always get attacked by the 'establishment'. At least this time around I'll be around like-minded individuals — so rare.

[–]Jobby_jabber 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy Link

It's not the most active sub, I'll give you that, but it's not dead. We've got a core of users who come on regularly to post and comment. If you've got questions or something to say, here's the place to do it.

Also, zero interest in dicks?

[–]Mideous[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes zero interests. I don't know how to explain it besides it never hitting me. Ever since I could remember noticing the male physique dicks never crossed my mind. I guess you could say — I was a born top. And its not to say I'm grossed out by them — its more so indifference.

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